THE POWER OF FAILURE Teaching Resilience at Camp Deborah Gilboa, MD

Slides:

Advertisements

Similar presentations

Self-Motivation Chapter 7 “To succeed, you need to find something to hold on to, something to motivate you, something to inspire you.” Tony Dorsett, Athlete.

Advertisements

Deborah Gilboa, MD PARENTING SMART SCHOLARS Ask Doctor G AskDocG.

Deborah Gilboa, MD LETTING GO Without Giving In.

THE 3 R’s KIDS NEED FROM EVERYONE! Respect, Responsibility,

Deborah Gilboa, MD THE POWER OF FAILURE How Great Adults Let #WAICtikicon.

Deborah Gilboa, MD RESILIENT KIDS 5 Tools for Raising Resilient Kids in a Military Family.

Deborah Gilboa, MD HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT From adults,

RESILIENCE What it is, Why it Helps, How You Can Have It, & Your Campers Can, Too Deborah Gilboa, MD.

Deborah Gilboa, MD HOW TO GUIDE YOUR TW/TEEN TO INDEPENDENCE Without Losing Your Mind! #INA30

Christine Harrington Ph.D.

HOW TO TEACH RESILIENCE TO YOUNG CHILDREN

RESILIENCE: ONE STEP BACK So Kids Can

OVERPROTECTIVE PARENTS

Let’s Connect Hear something you like today? Tweet

DIFFICULT PARENT INTERACTIONS

Healthy Decision Making and Autonomy of Adolescents

COUNSELORS COUNSEL AskDoctorG Teaching Young Adults to

Chapter 6: Barriers to Teacher-Family Partnerships

Building Resilience: From Early Childhood to Young Adults!

MANAGING CHALLENGING BEHAVIORS Deborah Gilboa, M.D.

Caring for and Guiding Children

Fostering Resilient Kids

PARENTS ENGAGING PARENTS Deborah

Healthy Relationships Plus Program Information

L.E.Q: What are the common myths and realities of parenthood?

• Psycho social Stages of Development 8 stages:Erik Erikson

Changing Kids’ Lives Deborah Giboa, MD.

MEETING THE NEEDS OF CAMP PARENTS Deborah Gilboa, MD.

Being a parent/carer: Important things about child development

LETTING GO WITHOUT GIVING IN Dr. G (Deborah Gilboa,

THE POWER OF FAILURE Building Bounce in a World that Frowns on Failing

HOW TO MAKE PARENTS YOUR STRONGEST ALLIES Deborah Gilboa, MD.

MANAGING YOURS, MINE, OURS.

HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT From adults, friends, yourself

Teaching Kids Values Deborah Giboa, MD.

CAMPER SAFETY STOP WORRYING ABOUT Deborah Gilboa, MD

Camp Changes Lives Deborah Giboa, MD.

Healthy Relationship Plus Program Fourth R Parent Information

THE POWER OF FAILURE Deborah Gilboa, MD

GET THE BEHAVIOR YOU WANT

Raising a Well-Rounded, Healthy Child

THE POWER OF FAILURE Deborah Gilboa, MD

What’s Happy Got to Do With It? Deborah Gilboa, MD AskDoctorG.com.

THE POWER OF FAILURE Deborah Gilboa, MD

GET THE BEHAVIOR YOU WANT

How to Get the Behavior You Want… Without Being the AdultYou Hate!

How to Make Staff Feel their Worth

THE POWER OF FAILURE Deborah Gilboa, MD

THE EXPECTATION GAP Deborah Gilboa, MD

Raising Resilient Kids Deborah Gilboa, MD

STUDENT WHY, AND HOW CAN WE HELP?.

Being a parent/carer: Important things about child development

FROM SIGN-UP TO SHOW-UP REDUCING CAMP ANXIETY.

Encourage Resilience:

RESILIENCE... RETENTION… RELATIONSHIPS Deborah Gilboa, MD.

ANXIETY AND TEEN DRIVERS.

STUDENT WHY, AND HOW CAN WE HELP?.

MAKING CAMP LAST THE OTHER 11 MONTHS OF THE YEAR Deborah Gilboa, MD.

PARTNERING WITH PARENTS

THE POWER OF FAILURE Deborah Gilboa, MD

WHAT’S “HAPPY” GOT TO DO WITH IT? Deborah Gilboa, MD

FOSTER RESILIENCE What Leaders Know Deborah Gilboa, MD

MAKING CAMP LAST THE OTHER 11 MONTHS OF THE YEAR Deborah Gilboa, MD.

THE POWER OF FAILURE Sharing expertise and goals to create

CAN BE STRONG AND RESILIENT

Being a parent/carer: Important things about child development

The Myths The Perfection Myth: If I try hard enough I will never make a mistake The Punishment Myth: If we punish those who make mistakes, they will make.

HOW TO EFFECTIVELY PARTNER WITH PARENTS

LaSHON HaTOV Using words intentionally to help students create

STEP BACK so kids can step UP! Deborah Gilboa, MD

Presentation transcript:

THE POWER OF FAILURE Teaching Resilience at Camp Deborah Gilboa, MD www.AskDrG.com

hap·pi· ness: noun good fortune; pleasure; contentment; joy INGREDIENTS: Confidence Competence Relationships

CAMP

WHAT DO THEY LEARN AT CAMP?

WHY DO PARENTS SAY NO?

CULTURE OF “SUCCESSFUL” FAMILIES Myth vs Truth

WHY WOULD WE LET THEM TRY? Independence Competence Relationships Resilience. 7

SOURCE: Journal of Child and Family Studies, Feb 2013

THE COST “Students who reported having over-controlling parents reported significantly higher levels of depression and less satisfaction with life. Furthermore, the negative effects of helicopter parenting on college students’ well-being were largely explained by the perceived violation of students’ basic psychological needs for autonomy and competence.”

WHY DO ADULTS STEP IN? Love. Fear. Guilt. 11

RESILIENCE CHALLENGES Mistakes Accidents Pain Social consequences Judgment 11:00 News…

WHAT ADULTS NEED TO REMEMBER Adult involvement supports Safety Growth Learning Adult involvement harms Confidence Competence Relationships

PARENT PARTNERING SHARE expertise Focus GOALS! Decision-making