1. Healing The Orphan Heart

2. Adam and Eve in Eden

3. A perfect relationship with God their Father

4. Adam and Eve in Eden A perfect relationship with God their Father An unshakeable sense of their identity

5. Adam and Eve in Eden A perfect relationship with God their Father An unshakeable sense of their identity Continual sense of security

6. Adam and Eve in Eden A perfect relationship with God their Father An unshakeable sense of their identity Continual sense of security A Place of Belonging

7. Adam and Eve in Eden A perfect relationship with God their Father An unshakeable sense of their identity Continual sense of security A Place of Belonging Fulfilling relationships with each other

8. Adam and Eve in Eden A perfect relationship with God their Father An unshakeable sense of their identity Continual sense of security A Place of Belonging Fulfilling relationships with each other Fruitful, enjoyable work

9. After the Fall

10. Separation from God and each other

11. After the Fall Separation from God and each other –Fear of Exposure –Shame - because They are “Different” –Control - to cover the Shame Genesis 3:10 –Loneliness - feeling abandoned –Jealousy because… They have Lost Everything!

12. Orphan Heart: our default mode

13. Events that make us feel like an orphan

14. Orphan Heart: our default mode Events that make us feel like an orphan Lies –About ourselves –About others –About God

15. But Jesus

16. I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. John 14:18

17. Father’s Love: Orphan or child of God?

18. For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father." Romans 8:15

19. THE ORPHAN HEART CHILD LIKE HEART GOD IS MASTERPICTURE OF GODGOD IS MY LOVING FATHER INDEPENDENT/ SELF RELIANT DEPENDENCYINTERDEPENDENT LIVE BY THE LOVE OF LAW THEOLOGYLIVE BY THE LAW OF LOVE INSECURE/ LACK PEACESECURITYREST AND PEACE STRIVE FOR PRAISE, APPROVAL, ACCEPTANCE NEED FOR APPROVALACCEPTED IN GODS LOVE/ JUSTIFIED BY GRACE

20. THE ORPHAN HEART CHILD LIKE HEART PERSONAL DRIVE TO ‘IMPRESS’ GOD OR NONE AT ALL MOTIVE FOR SERVICEDEEP GRATITUDE FOR LOVE OF GOD DUTY AND EARNING GOD’S FAVOUR OR NONE MOTIVE FOR SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES PLEASURE AND DELIGHT DUTY DRIVEN/ GUILT/ SHAME MOTIVE FOR PURITYWANT TO BE HOLY FOR INTIMACY SELF REJECTION/ COMPARISON SELF IMAGEPOSITIVE COUNTERFEIT AFFECTIONS SOURCE OF COMFORTREST IN THE FATHER’S PRESENCE

21. THE ORPHAN HEART CHILD LIKE HEART COMPETITION RIVALRY JEALOUS PEER RELATIONSHIPSHUMILITY AND SERVICE DISTRUST AND REJECT IT VIEW OF AUTHORITYHONOURING FEEL LIKE A SLAVE/ SERVANT POSITIONFEEL LIKE A SON/ DAUGHTER FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU CAN GET FUTURESONSHIP RELEASES INHERITANCE BONDAGECONDITIONLIBERTY

22. Orphan Heart: Core Ungodly Beliefs

23. I am all alone.

24. Orphan Heart: Core Ungodly Beliefs I am all alone. No one cares about me.

25. Orphan Heart: Core Ungodly Beliefs I am all alone. No one cares about me. I have to take care of myself.

26. Orphan Heart: Core Ungodly Beliefs I am all alone. No one cares about me. I have to take care of myself. The World is a cold, cruel, dangerous place.

27. Typical Judgments and Vows

28. People are dangerous.

29. Typical Judgments and Vows People are dangerous. I will never trust anyone again.

30. Typical Judgments and Vows People are dangerous. I will never trust anyone again. It is not safe to be submitted to another.

31. Typical Judgments and Vows People are dangerous. I will never trust anyone again. It is not safe to be submitted to another. I will not let anyone control me.

32. Typical Judgments and Vows People are dangerous. I will never trust anyone again. It is not safe to be submitted to another. I will not let anyone control me. Other people are incompetent.

33. Typical Judgments and Vows People are dangerous. I will never trust anyone again. It is not safe to be submitted to another. I will not let anyone control me. Other people are incompetent. I will do “it” my way

34. Healing the Orphan Heart

35. We receive healing from hurtful events as we...

36. Healing the Orphan Heart We receive healing from hurtful events as we... Reject the lies we have believed

37. Healing the Orphan Heart We receive healing from hurtful events as we... Reject the lies we have believed Receive the truth