1. Chapter 8 Notes

2. 6 Qualities of Strong Families 1. Communication 2. Respect 3. Sharing of values and beliefs 4. Problem solving together 5. Spending time together 6. Commitment

3. Getting Along In Families Family System: family members, together with their particular roles and personalities, make up this system. Siblings: your brothers and sisters

4. Sibling Roles Depends on ages Playmates Companions Teachers/learners ---- role models Protectors Adversaries (someone who opposes or is against another)

5. What are some typical things brothers and sisters have problems with or argue about? Sibling Rivalry: Competition among children of the same family for their parents’ affections or for dominance. Next to the parent-child relationship, the sibling relationship is probably the strongest.

6. Birth Order The order in which each child is born Typical Characteristic Notes

7. The Oldest Child The oldest child is…. 1. Usually set up as an example to the other children 2. Treated more like an adult by his/her parents. 3. A higher achiever 4. Given and accepts more responsibility that the other children 5. Usually college bound 6. Independent 7. Affectionate

8. The Middle Child The middle child…. 1. May work extra-hard to get recognition 2. Is usually a peace maker 3. Is somewhat average in schoolwork, but is an all-around good student 4. Is usually a calm, even-tempered adult

9. The Youngest Child The Youngest Child… 1. Gets a lot of attention, along with a lot of bossing 2. May be spoiled 3. Usually matures quickly 4. May be undisciplined and irresponsible 5. Is easy-going about school 6. Likes to associate with someone who takes charge of situations.

10. Apply Your Knowledge: “Birth Order” If you could choose, would you be: An only child A child with one sibling, you’re the oldest A child with one sibling, you’re the youngest A child with several siblings, you’re the oldest A child with several siblings, you’re the middle A child with several siblings, you’re the youngest Write a short essay explaining the advantages and disadvantages of your choice 10 sentences = 10 points