1. Alternatives to Gay Marriage By Madie Carlile Section VC

2. Cons of Gay Marriage  Religious views of marriage  “The traditional family”  Societal consequences

3. Religious Views of Marriage  Between one man and one woman  “Homosexual marriage is a sin”  Shared benefits between heterosexual couples  Immigration sponsorship  Social security  Survivor benefits  Priority of human remains of deceased spouse

4. The Traditional Family  Belief that there will be an increase in fatherlessness and wedlock  Confusion of gender roles for children in homosexual households

5. Social Consequences  Could lead to:  Changing certain laws  Fathers marrying daughters  People marrying their pets  Polygamy  Less marrying and loss of historic meaning and understanding (The Threat to Marriage)

6. Pros of Gay Marriage  Allowing happiness for more people  Which creates less stress in peoples lives and longer life expectancy  Equal benefits shared between both homosexual and heterosexual couples  Studies showing positive effects on children

7. Children in Homosexual Households  Studies done to show the outcome  Only negative aspect found to be that children are more open to thinking they are gay as well  Positive differences noticed  Less hostility  More openness to others being gay  Less anxiety  Lower number of psychiatric referrals

8. Mediation  Allowing homosexuals to join in a civil union  It does not go against religious views (one man and one woman)  It will not keep children that have homosexual parents from being any different  Allows people to be happy  Shares more benefits than not marrying at all

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