8Team Work: SupportiveO O OPoints = = 30Excellence
9Do we pause for a minute, analyze and think how one could contribute? Scores, how many scored:Zero =Five =Ten =Fifteen =Thirty =Any other =We talk about Team Work.Do we pause for a minute, analyze and think how one could contribute?
11Human Conduct or Behaviour based on one’s Natural Acceptance verified on one’s Own Right What is this Natural Acceptance?
12Natural Acceptance is :- - Innate Self- Inner self- Natural Self (coming from heart)- Un-corrupt Self
13Desire State of BeingWe want to be happy We want to be prosperous We want the continuity of happiness and prosperityAre we happy? Are we prosperous? Is there continuity of our happiness and prosperity?What is the Ultimate Goal (desire) as a Human Being?
14Happiness is being in Harmony Disharmony or Contradiction means (brings) = UnhappinessProsperity is Feeling of having more than required Physical Facilities.Then the feeling of not having more than required Physical Facility = Deprivation.
15Ingredient for Happiness Prosperity Living in Harmony with:SelfOther SelfFamilySocietyNatureUniverseFeeling of having more than required Physical Facilities.Right UnderstandingCorrect assessment of need for Physical Facilities.Right Understanding
16Ingredient for Happiness Prosperity Living in Harmony with:SelfOther SelfFamilySocietyNatureUniverseFeeling of having more than required Physical Facilities.For continuous happiness & prosperityContinuous Right Understanding
17More important dialogue within SELF SocietyFamilyNatureMore important dialogue within SELFProcess of dialogueUniverseSelfOtherselfSelfSelfSelf
18Who is the biggest stranger to you? YourselfWho is the biggest stranger to you?
19How much do we understand self? Therefore,….SelfSelfDialogue within SELFDialogue within SELFHow much do we understand self?How Much???
20Right Understanding is deficient Conclusion drawn based on:Pre-conditioningAssumption
21Priority: Right Understanding of Relationship & Physical Facility 1RIGHT UNDERSTANDINGin the self2RELATIONSHIPwith human beings3PHYSICAL FACILITYwith rest of natureFeelings- Trust- Respect- …MUTUAL HAPPINESSMUTUAL PROSPERITY
22Priority: Physical Facility ?RIGHT UNDERSTANDINGin the self?RELATIONSHIPwith human beings1PHYSICAL FACILITYwith rest of natureUNHAPPINESS (Mutual)DEPRIVATION (Mutual)Conflict, fight, warExploitation, corruption
239 Feelings in relationship: 1- Trust FOUNDATION VALUE2- Respect3- Affection4- Care5- Guidance6- Reverence7- Glory8- Gratitude9- Love COMPLETE VALUE
24Trust = to be assured= to have the clarity that the other wants to make me happy & prosperousWhen there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the otherAbsence of Trust on Intention= lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & prosperity
25Evaluating Trust – Between 2 Individuals Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance 1a. I want to make myself happy 2a. I want to make the other happy 3a. The other wants to make herself/himself happy 4a. The other wants to make me happyVerify on the basis of your competence 1b. I am able to make myself always happy ? 2b. I am able to make the other always happy ? 3b. The other is able to make herself/himself always happy? 4b. The other is able to make me always happy ??√√√?Intention – Natural AcceptanceWhat is Naturally Acceptable to MeCompetenceWhat I am (∑ D, T, E)
26About the Other About Myself The other broke a glass The other makes mistakes intentionally The other intended to break the glass – The other is a bad personThe glass broke by accident I make mistakes by accident Even if I make the same mistake 100 times, I never doubt my intention – I always feel I am a good personI evaluate my self on my intention (2a) ... I conclude “I am good”I evaluate the other on his competence (4b) ... I conclude “the other is bad”I conclude about the intention of the other on the basis of his competence ... I doubt his intentionIrritation, anger, condemning the other are indications of doubt on intentionDoubt on intention is a major reason for problems in relationships
27When there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the other Absence of Trust on Intention = lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & prosperity
28Check within yourselfHow many persons do you have trust on intention (natural acceptance)– unconditional, continuous?If you have unconditional, continuous trust on intention (natural acceptance) of the other and if the other is lacking competence, what will you do:Try to improve his competenceGet irritatedGet angryHave a feeling of oppositionThis is fundamental. Trust on intention is the foundation of relationshipIf Trust on IntentionIf Doubt on Intention
29Respect Respect = Right Evaluation Over evaluation – to evaluate for more than what it isUnder evaluation – to evaluate for less than what it isOtherwise evaluation – to evaluate for other than what it isWhenever the evaluation is not right, it is disrespectDisrespect29
30Respect: Right Evaluation on the basis of the Self (I) PurposeI want to live with continuous happiness & prosperityThe other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperityOur purpose is similar (on the basis of Natural Acceptance)ProgramMy program is to understand and to live in harmony at all levelsThe program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all levelsOur program is similarPotentialDesire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in me. I am endowed with Natural AcceptanceDesire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in the other. The other is also endowed with Natural AcceptanceOur potential is similarThe Other is Similar to MeFeeling: make him understandI am committed to facilitate understanding in the otherDo not doubt IntentionI feel relatedDoubt his Competency
31Differentiation Differentiation = Disrespect Not Naturally Acceptable… Opposition…Evaluation on the basis of Body, Physical Facility or Beliefs (preconditioning) turns out to be differentiation and therefore disrespectDifferentiationBodyPhysical FacilityBeliefsAgeGenderPostWealthIsmsPhysicalStrengthRaceSectsInfo31
32Self Confidence, Ego & Depression Right EvaluationOver EvaluationUnder / Otherwise EvaluationSelf ConfidenceEgoDepressionI am self referentialThe other is my referenceDefinite ConductIndefinite Conduct
33The unhappiness in your family is Check within Yourself!The unhappiness in your family isMore due to lack of physical facility orMore due to lack of fulfillment in relationship?How much time and effort are you investing:For physical facilityFor fulfillment in relationshipThe unhappiness is more due to lack of fulfillment in relationshipMost of the time and effort is spent for physical facility
34Therefore we can observe two categories of human beings Lacking physical facility, unhappy deprivedHaving physical facility, unhappy deprived
35Affection The feeling of being related to the other (acceptance of the other as one’s relative)One naturally feels related to the other when one has the feelings of Trust and Respect in oneself for the otherAbsence of Affection = Opposition, Jealousy
36Care & Guidance naturally follow Affection Feeling of responsibility toward the body of my relative The responsibility & commitment for nurturing and protecting the Body of my relativeFeeling of responsibility toward the self(I) of my relative The responsibility & commitment for ensuring Right Understanding and Right Feeling in the self(I) of my relativeCare & Guidance naturally follow Affection36
37Reverence The other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide….. The feeling of acceptance for ExcellenceExcellenceUnderstanding Harmony &Living in HarmonyThe other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide…..Excellence and competition are not similar.In excellence, one helps to bring the other to his levelIn competition, he hinders the other from reaching to his levelat all 4 levelsIn the Self, as an IndividualIn FamilyIn SocietyIn Nature/Existence
38Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance if you want to be related to: NoneOneManyEveryoneAffection – The feeling of being related to the other(acceptance of the other as one’s relative)Love – The feeling of being related to all (Complete Value)X The feeling of being related to none – in opposition to all√The feeling of being related to oneThe feeling of being related to manyAffection√Love√ The feeling of being related to all
39Program for Continuous Happiness To understand the Harmony at all levels of our BeingHarmony in the Human BeingHarmony in the FamilyHarmony in the SocietyHarmony in Nature/ExistenceTo live in Harmony at all levels of our BeingAs an IndividualIn FamilyIn SocietyIn Nature/ExistenceScope of UnderstandingScope of Living
40RELATIONSHIP with human beings Right UnderstandingRIGHT UNDERSTANDINGin the self1Living in Harmony at all 4 levels:IndividualFamilySocietyNature/ExistenceLiving with Human ConsciousnessUnderstanding Harmony:Harmony in the IndividualHarmony in FamilyHarmony in SocietyHarmony in Nature/ExistenceLiving in Harmony atall 4 levels:IndividualFamilySocietyNature/Existence2RELATIONSHIP with human beingsPHYSICAL FACILITYwith rest of nature3MUTUAL HAPPINESSMUTUAL PROSPERITYMUTUAL HAPPINESSMUTUAL PROSPERITY
41Let’s Living with Human Consciousness Let’s live Prosperously Let’s live HappilyIt only takes Right Understanding