Nation’s Conscience Lead by Example If you Care, You will Dare
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Scores, how many scored: 1. Zero = 2. Five = 3. Ten = 4. Fifteen = 5. Thirty = 6. Any other = We talk about Team Work. Do we pause for a minute, analyze and think how one could contribute?
What is this so called ’Human Value’ ?
Human Conduct or Behaviour based on one’s Natural Acceptance verified on one’s Own Right What is this Natural Acceptance?
Natural Acceptance is :- - Innate Self - Inner self - Natural Self (coming from heart) - Un-corrupt Self
We want to be happy We want to be prosperous We want the continuity of happiness and prosperity Are we happy? Are we prosperous? Is there continuity of our happiness and prosperity? Desire State of Being Desire State of Being What is the Ultimate Goal (desire) as a Human Being?
Happiness is being in Harmony Disharmony or Contradiction means (brings) = Unhappiness Prosperity is Feeling of having more than required Physical Facilities. Then the feeling of not having more than required Physical Facility = Deprivation.
Living in Harmony with: 1.Self 2.Other Self 3.Family 4.Society 5.Nature 6.Universe Feeling of having more than required Physical Facilities. Ingredient for HappinessProsperity Right Understanding Correct assessment of need for Physical Facilities. Right Understanding
Living in Harmony with: 1.Self 2.Other Self 3.Family 4.Society 5.Nature 6.Universe Feeling of having more than required Physical Facilities. Ingredient for HappinessProsperity For continuous happiness & prosperity Continuous Right Understanding
Self Universe Self Other self Family Society Nature Self Process of dialogue More important dialogue within SELF
Who is the biggest stranger to you? Yourself
Self How Much??? Dialogue within SELF How much do we understand self? Therefore,…. Dialogue within SELF
Right Understanding is deficient Conclusion drawn based on: 1.Pre-conditioning 2.Assumption
RELATIONSHIP with human beings PHYSICAL FACILITY with rest of nature RIGHT UNDERSTANDING in the self MUTUAL HAPPINESSMUTUAL PROSPERITY Priority: Right Understanding of Relationship & Physical Facility Feelings - Trust - Respect - …
RELATIONSHIP with human beings PHYSICAL FACILITY with rest of nature RIGHT UNDERSTANDING in the self 1 ? ? Priority: Physical Facility UNHAPPINESS (Mutual)DEPRIVATION (Mutual) Conflict, fight, warExploitation, corruption
9 Feelings in relationship: 1- Trust FOUNDATION VALUE 2- Respect 3- Affection 4- Care 5- Guidance 6- Reverence 7- Glory 8- Gratitude 9- Love COMPLETE VALUE
Trust = to be assured = to have the clarity that the other wants to make me happy & prosperous When there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the other Absence of Trust on Intention = lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & prosperity
Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance 1a. I want to make myself happy 2a. I want to make the other happy 3a. The other wants to make herself/himself happy 4a. The other wants to make me happy Verify on the basis of your competence 1b. I am able to make myself always happy ? 2b. I am able to make the other always happy ? 3b. The other is able to make herself/himself always happy? 4b. The other is able to make me always happy ?? Evaluating Trust – Between 2 Individuals Intention – Natural Acceptance What is Naturally Acceptable to Me Competence What I am (∑ D, T, E) √ ? √ √
The other broke a glass The other makes mistakes intentionally The other intended to break the glass – The other is a bad person The glass broke by accident I make mistakes by accident Even if I make the same mistake 100 times, I never doubt my intention – I always feel I am a good person About the Other About Myself I evaluate my self on my intention (2a)... I conclude “I am good” I evaluate the other on his competence (4b)... I conclude “the other is bad” I conclude about the intention of the other on the basis of his competence... I doubt his intention Irritation, anger, condemning the other are indications of doubt on intention Doubt on intention is a major reason for problems in relationships
When there is Trust on Intention, you feel related to the other Absence of Trust on Intention = lack of assurance that the other intends my happiness & prosperity
Check within yourself How many persons do you have trust on intention (natural acceptance) – unconditional, continuous? If you have unconditional, continuous trust on intention (natural acceptance) of the other and if the other is lacking competence, what will you do: a)Try to improve his competence b)Get irritated c)Get angry d)Have a feeling of opposition This is fundamental. Trust on intention is the foundation of relationship If Trust on Intention If Doubt on Intention
Respect = Right Evaluation Over evaluation– to evaluate for more than what it is Under evaluation– to evaluate for less than what it is Otherwise evaluation– to evaluate for other than what it is Whenever the evaluation is not right, it is disrespect Disrespect Respect
Respect: Right Evaluation on the basis of the Self (I) 1. Purpose I want to live with continuous happiness & prosperity The other also wants to live with continuous happiness & prosperity Our purpose is similar (on the basis of Natural Acceptance) 2. Program My program is to understand and to live in harmony at all levels The program of the other is also to understand and to live in harmony at all levels Our program is similar 3. Potential Desire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in me. I am endowed with Natural Acceptance Desire, Thought & Expectation is continuous in the other. The other is also endowed with Natural Acceptance Our potential is similar The Other is Similar to Me feel I feel related Do not doubt IntentionDoubt his Competency Feeling: make him understand I am committed to facilitate understanding in the other
Differentiation Differentiation = Disrespect Not Naturally Acceptable… Opposition… Evaluation on the basis of Body, Physical Facility or Beliefs (preconditioning) turns out to be differentiation and therefore disrespect Differentiation Body Physical FacilityBeliefs AgeGender PostWealth Isms Physical Strength Race Sects Info
Self Confidence, Ego & Depression Right EvaluationOver EvaluationUnder / Otherwise Evaluation Self ConfidenceEgoDepression I am self referentialThe other is my reference Definite ConductIndefinite Conduct
Check within Yourself! The unhappiness in your family is More due to lack of physical facility or More due to lack of physical facility or More due to lack of fulfillment in relationship? More due to lack of fulfillment in relationship? How much time and effort are you investing: For physical facility For physical facility For fulfillment in relationship For fulfillment in relationship The unhappiness is more due to lack of fulfillment in relationship Most of the time and effort is spent for physical facility
Therefore we can observe two categories of human beings 1. Lacking physical facility, unhappy deprived 2. Having physical facility, unhappy deprived
Affection The feeling of being related to the other (acceptance of the other as one’s relative) One naturally feels related to the other when one has the feelings of Trust and Respect in oneself for the other Absence of Affection = Opposition, Jealousy
Feeling of responsibility toward the body of my relative The responsibility & commitment for nurturing and protecting the Body of my relative Feeling of responsibility toward the self(I) of my relative The responsibility & commitment for ensuring Right Understanding and Right Feeling in the self(I) of my relative Care Guidance Care & Guidance naturally follow Affection
Reverence The feeling of acceptance for Excellence Excellence Understanding Harmony & Understanding Harmony & Living in Harmony Living in Harmony The other is like me – I Trust, respect, care and guide….. Excellence and competition are not similar. In excellence, one helps to bring the other to his level In competition, he hinders the other from reaching to his level at all 4 levels 1.In the Self, as an Individual 2.In Family 3.In Society 4.In Nature/Existence
Verify on the basis of your natural acceptance if you want to be related to: NoneOneManyEveryone Affection – The feeling of being related to the other (acceptance of the other as one’s relative) Love – The feeling of being related to all (Complete Value) Affection Love X √ √ √ The feeling of being related to none – in opposition to all The feeling of being related to one The feeling of being related to many The feeling of being related to all
Program for Continuous Happiness To understand the Harmony at all levels of our Being 1.Harmony in the Human Being 2.Harmony in the Family 3.Harmony in the Society 4.Harmony in Nature/Existence To live in Harmony at all levels of our Being 1.As an Individual 2.In Family 3.In Society 4.In Nature/Existence Scope of Understanding Scope of Living
Right Understanding RELATIONSH IP with human beings PHYSICAL FACILITY with rest of nature RIGHT UNDERSTANDING in the self MUTUAL HAPPINESSMUTUAL PROSPERITY Living in Harmony at all 4 levels: -Individual -Family -Society -Nature/Existence Understanding Harmony: -Harmony in the Individual -Harmony in Family -Harmony in Society -Harmony in Nature/Existence Living in Harmony at all 4 levels: -Individual -Family -Society -Nature/Existence Living with Human Consciousness MUTUAL HAPPINESS MUTUAL PROSPERITY
Let’s Living with Human Consciousness Let’s live HappilyLet’s live ProsperouslyIt only takes Right Understanding