1. Page 1 PROFILE AISHA MIJINDADI Aisha Mijindadi is the primary mover (in thoughts and actions) of Daughters, Wives & Mothers [DWM]. A graduate of Ahmadu Bello University with a degree in Accounting, she has also obtained an MA from the University of Leicester UK in Mass Communication, Counselling diploma from Stonebridge Colleges UK and a Learning and Development Diploma from the CIPD UK. She hopes that DWM will be widely accepted by Muslim teens and women and, this small effort will assist her and the young of this ummah to develop the love to strive for the Hereafter.

2. Page 2 Perfect Man …….Perfect Woman by Aisha Mijindadi

3. Page 3 PERFECTION… CHARACTERISTICS OF THE PERFECT COMPANION? FRIEND?

4. Page 4 PERFECTION… WHO’S A PERFECT MAN? CHARACTERISTICS?

5. Page 5 A good smell Narrated Abu Musa: Allah's Messenger (sal-Allahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said, "The example of a good companion (who sits with you) in comparison with a bad one, is like that of the musk seller and the blacksmith's bellows (or furnace); from the first you would either buy musk or enjoy its good smell while the bellows would either burn your clothes or your house, or you get a bad nasty smell thereof." [Sahih al-Bukhari Vol. 3, Book 34, Hadith 314]

6. Page 6 A Perfect Story – side track The Prophet (sallallaaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said: "If there comes to you one whose religious commitment and attitude pleases you, then marry [your female relative who is under your care] to him, for if you do not do that, there will be tribulation on earth and much corruption." (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan al-Tirmidhi, 1084).

7. Page 7 A Perfect Story The story of Khadija and the Prophet(SAW) Highlights of who he was (The Perfect Man) What she saw…: : Model of good conduct (Islam) :Business-minded (therefore not poor, but not WEALTHY either) : Intergrity : His age didn’t count :Noble family – Good family

8. Page 8 A Perfect Story What she experienced… "Never! By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you. You keep good relations with your Kith and kin, Serve your guests generously, Help the poor and the destitute and Assist the deserving calamity-affilicted ones.

9. Page 9 Experiencing the Messenger (SAW ) Aisha (RA).. : My Father’s best friend (Knowledge of family) : Tenderness : Affection Hafsah (RA) : Patience Zaynab and Umm Habeebah (RA) : Compassion Safiya (RA).. : Treated fairly and eased her heart

10. Page 10 A Perfect Story The physical… Good Looking Aura Presence Perfection…

11. Page 11 A Perfect Story For the second half of the story, SELF EXAMINATION

12. Page 12 A Perfect Story – side track “Women may be married for four things: their wealth, their lineage, their beauty and their religious commitment. Choose the one who is religiously-committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5090), Muslim (1466)

13. Page 13 A Perfect Story What he experienced… Trust LOYALTY Comfort ‘No, by Allah! Allah did not replace her with any better woman. For,: :She believed in me when people disbelieved, :She consoled me with her wealth when people denied me their money…’

14. Page 14 Learning from a Perfect Story Age What is the right age for being ready for Marraige? 15 20 25 35 40 45 60….

15. Page 15 Learning from a Perfect Story Age : Your reason for existence. The why? : Do not ignore the injuction, obey it : The rule is the Man comes looking….and : You put out a great CV…..and trust in the Lord of Decrees : :While waiting…….GROW

16. Page 16 CONCLUSION Be the breath of fresh Air With great akhlaaq Give the best Expect the best Always make allowances BEING PERRRRRRRRRFECT is knowing NO-ONE IS.