1. Functional & Dysfunctional Relationships

2. Functional Relationships  In general they are healthy and happy.

3. Characteristics of Functional Relationships  Very social  Enjoy each other’s company  Take part in activities outside the relationship  Positive outlook on life (realistic)

4.  Problem solve (without blaming)  Express affection and praise  Flexibility (can adapt to different situations)  Communication!!!!!!

5. Dysfunctional relationships In general… Unhealthy and lack happiness

6. Characteristics of Dysfunctional Relationships  High conflict (hostile)  Lack of activities and happy time together  Discouragement and disappointment  Lack of communication

7.  Lack of open and safe communication  Gender bias (‘men’s work’, ‘women’s work’)  Domestic (family) violence, dating violence

8. Reading  “If Love Hurts It Isn’t Love” – Read the article together  Please answer the questions that go with the article.  Video clip: Rihanna interview on 20/20.  Part 1 Part 1 Part 1  Part 2 Part 2 Part 2