Presentation on theme: "Conflict Resolution with Family or Friends Win -Win Solutions"— Presentation transcript:
1Conflict Resolution with Family or Friends Win -Win Solutions Edited by:Teresa Griffin, Oak Canyon Junior Highand students Annie Madsen, Lindsay Clegg
2Definitions Conflict: Two people disagree on something. Conflict Resolution:Resolves conflicts in a positive way, by understanding others point of view.Win-Win Conflict Resolution:A compromise so everyone will win.Avoids competition and arguing.
3What Doesn’t Work to Resolve Conflicts? Yelling,Refusing to work out the conflict,Name calling,Hitting,Most Passive and Aggressive Behaviors.
43 Behavior Styles used in Relationships to resolve conflict AggressivePassiveAssertive
5Aggressive BehaviorMy rights are more important than other people’s rights!My Attitude:“I’m never wrong”“Everyone should be like me”
6Passive Behavior I consider others rights, not my own. I don’t express my true feelings, and always agree with others.
7Assertive Behavior Win-Win attitude -- Everybody wins something I listen to others, but still stand up for myself.
8Win-Win Solutions Lose-Lose: The Downward Spiral You Lose ---- Other Person LosesLose-Win: The Door-MatYou Lose --- Other Person WinsWin-Lose: The BulldozerYou Win - Other Person LosesWin-Win: The All You Can Eat BuffetYou Win - Other Person Wins
9This is when nobody wins and the conflict is not solved. Lose-Lose“The downward spiral”This is when nobody wins and the conflict is not solved.
10Win-Lose “The Bulldozer” One person wins, the other loses. You Win - Other Person Loses“The Bulldozer”One person wins,the other loses.
11One person wins, the other loses. Lose-WinYou Lose --- Other Person Wins“The doormat”One person wins, the other loses.
12Win-Win “The All You Can Eat Buffet!!”-- Each person gets what they want!Both people win and the conflict is resolved!
18Brainstorm all possible solutions to solve problems using win-win solutions Think of any and all possible ways to solve the problem so that everyone will win something and be happy!Evaluate later NOT NOWDo not criticize any suggestion until it is time to evaluate and make a decision.
19Hug O’War by Shel Silverstein I will not play a tug o' warI'd rather play a hug o' war,Where everyone hugsInstead of tugsWhere everyone gigglesAnd rolls on the rug,Where everyone kissesAnd everyone grinsAnd everyone cuddlesAnd everyone wins.