What’s the Green-Eyed Monster? Jealousy o Thoughts and feelings that arise when an actual or desired relationship is threatened Envy o Thoughts and feelings that arise when our personal qualities, possessions, or achievements do not measure up to those of someone relevant to us Discussion: o Most of us have experienced jealousy and envy at some point in our lives. Can you think of a time that either have caused problems in a relationship? o What ideas do you have as to how to avoid being jealous? Envious?