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1Michael Strawser email@example.com PHM 3020 Philosophy of LoveMichael Strawser
2The Lack of LoveAccording to Kierkegaard, “love is our greatest need,” and yet the philosophy of love has been lacking in our universities and departments of philosophyIsn’t it ironic for philosophers, “lovers of wisdom,” not to devote their sustained reflections to love, not to love love?
3The Lack of Love Consider these views: Irving Singer: “In the last 60 years or so the analysis of love has been neglected more than almost any other subject in philosophy” (The Nature of Love, 1966, ix).Jean-Luc Marion: “The Silence of Love” (The Erotic Phenomenon, 2007, 1,3)bell hooks: “the world of the present [is] no longer a world open to love…lovelessness [has] become the order of the day” (All about Love, 2000, x).
4The Lack of LoveThis course can then be seen as addressing the lack of love.How exciting!
5Questions Please write, no names 1. What is the philosophy of love? 2. What are your expectations for this course?3. Do you agree that philosophy does not love love? Why or why not?
7The Irony of LoveI don’t know what love is. I feel inadequate and embarrassed (“we are embarrassed by love” Diane Ackerman, A Natural History of Love, 1994).There is support in Singer (Philosophy of Love, xvi)…who also makes “no pretensions about definitive objectivity” (xiii).
8The Irony of LoveAnd support in Kierkegaard, who writes that love is “essentially inexhaustible and essentially indescribable” (Author’s Preface, Works of Love).The meaning of love (its essence) is beyond words (the phenomena).Consequently, this is a course not about love, but about the philosophy of love.
9The Philosophy of LoveCritical analysis of philosophical texts dealing with love. Thus we are concerned with a particular historical tradition.A questioning of the meaning of love.An experience of the profound visions of philosophers who have valued love as central to their philosophies.The philosophy of love can be distinguished from the philosophy of sex and the psychology of love.
10The Edification of Love Perhaps you’re wondering: “Isn’t what you intend by ‘the irony of love’ a cop out?”Can one be serious about “the irony of love.”Perhaps this negative movement can lead to the positive view that love is present and that “love edifies” (I Corinthians 8:1), that is builds up, makes us grow, transforms us into better beings.The edification of love lies also at the center of this course on the philosophy of love.
11Irving Singer, Philosophy of Love Who is the book dedicated to by Singer?Society for the Philosophy of Sex and LoveWho wrote the Forward and how does he value the book?Alan Soblethis is first book one should readit’s a “very personal…intellectual autobiography as well as it is an exploration of love and sex” (xi-xii)
12Irving Singer, Philosophy of Love What other major texts are referred to in the Foreward?Thomas Nagel, “Sexual Perversion,” 1969Irving Singer, The Nature of Love, 1966Ander Nygren, Agape and Eros,Eric Fromm, The Art of Loving, 1956How would you classify this book?History of ideas (informal)Apologia pro mente sua“a defense of one’s life”What is Singer’s philosophy?See p. 14
13Irving Singer, Philosophy of Love What does Singer mean by this being a “partial summing-up”?Selective look at his previous workPhilosophy has no final outcome or solutionWhat do you learn about Singer’s background and the motivation behind his study?Trained in analytic philosophyHe wanted to study the ordinary use of loveDigression on Wittgenstein and view that the meaning of a word is found in how it’s used in a particular language-game
15Is Romantic Love a Recent Idea? What is this kind of love and how does Singer answer this question?Romantic love: sexual, interpersonal phenomenonAlthough the concept belongs to the development of Romanticism at the end of the 18th century, it is part of a longer historical continuum.“The claim that Romantic Love is an invention of the latter period is therefore of limited value, and on the face of it, mistaken” (2).
16Characteristics of Romantic Love “…frequently presupposes a basic hostility between male and female” (4)…but also a dream that this fundamental difficulty could be overcomeThe importance of passion is central to Romantic love; passion “alone makes life worth living” (42).Romanticism has also provided the foundation for the democratization of love (81ff).
17Varieties of Romantic Love What are they?Benign romanticismRomantic puritanism (Rousseau): one can be a true lover without sex and this is enough for a meaningful life.Romantic pessimism: “Romantic love is always doomed” (40).Schopenhauer, Freud, Tolstoy
18Plato (429–347 B.C.E.)What is Singer’s view about the significance of Plato’s writing on love?Plato is where we must begin our study (see p. 7).Plato’s doctrine is “the most fertile and powerful single body of thought about love that anyone has ever created throughout Western civilization” (12).
19Plato (429–347 B.C.E.)But Plato’s views are curious and Singer ultimately opposes them.What do we learn about Plato’s views?Several works: Symposium, Phaedrus, Republic, LawsAristophanes’ speechHomosexuality: for or against?A Continuum:Sex (physical) Love Go(o)d (Transcendent)
20Beyond Idealism Why does Singer reject the Platonic view? Pluralism, against one theory, or one definition (14-15)A central question for our course is thus, is there one central conception of love, one common essence?Compare Marion’s view (4-5)Singer is not a visionary, while the other authors we shall be reading are.What are the main Platonic concepts Singer opposes?
21Concepts of Transcendence and Merging Transcendence: the idea that to explain love one must refer to a higher, metaphysical realityFor Singer love is a product of “the manifold forces that operate on this planet” (18).Merging: the idea that love involves a certain oneness with the otherFor Singer this is “a very dangerous idea” that “is not true to what it is to be a person” (18).What kind of “oneness”?
22The Concept of MergingSinger wishes to replace “merging” with “wedding” i.e., the idea of being joined together in a “kind of oneness” without losing one’s individuality (22).In the Middle Ages this was the way the religious love of God was conceived, but later in Romanticism there’s a “quasi- religious love” of the other person (23).
23The Concept of MergingSinger raises the question why would one want to merge with God? In other words, where does this concept of merging originate?One answer: God is a perfect being, and we want to be perfect ourselves.Another: Life beings with a merging, and thus we wish to return to this primordial state.
24Courtly Love and Its Successors An important observation about Ancient Greece and the claim that “their thinking about love …was alien to the views we have nowadays” (28)What is Singer’s view of agape?“Christian idea of God’s bestowal of love”“a momentous concept in world history”but contra Nygren, misguided in thinking that love only originates from God (29)
25Courtly Love and Its Successors Courtly love “was an effort to humanize Christian thought in the Middle Ages” (29).Based on Christian ideology, but now the point is to relate “to another person with the same kind of attachment that the church ordained in the love of God” (30).Courtly love led to “the democratization of love…the idea that almost anyone could love, and do it well” (31).But varieties of courtly love, no single notion
26How to define love Is love a concept? The etymology of love Love [ME, fr. OE lufu; akin to OHG luba love, OE leof dear, L lubere, libere to please] bef. 12cIndo-European root lubhyati “desires”Related to Latin libet “it is pleasing,” and libido “desires”
27Greek Words for LoveEros: sexual love based on physical attraction, erotic or romantic lovePhilia: “brotherly love,” love based on a common interest, not sexual attraction, also “love” of wisdom, related to virtue, friendshipAgape: term used for love in New Testament, unconditional love of God for humans and humans for “neighbors,” charityStorge: familial love, affection
28Appraisal and Bestowal This distinction lies at the basis of Singer’s, love trilogy, which begins “love is a way of valuing something. It is a positive response toward the ‘object of love’…love affirms the goodness of this object.” (The Nature of Love 3).Here Singer also distinguishes love from “liking” and “lusting” (desiring obsessively), which he says don’t necessarily affirm goodness
29Appraisal and Bestowal Appraisal: “the ability to discover value, in oneself or in other people”; this is objective and in principle verifiable(e.g., consider the appraisal of a house and a business relationship)Bestowal: “a way of creating…a new kind of value,” “an engendering of value by means of [an affirmative] relationship,” an “affective value” (Philosophy of Love 52)this value isn’t reducible to objective value, as the valuing alone makes it valuable; something or someone has an importance beyond the objective value; the other has value for its/her own sake
30On Freud What is Freud’s place in the philosophy of love? Three Essays on the Theory of SexualityBeyond the Pleasure Principle“The Most Prevalent Form of Degradation in Erotic Life”What is Singer’s estimation?Freud didn’t understand bestowal, only appraisalFor Freud love is an illusory overvaluation, but Freud is deluded according to Singer.But Freud is interesting because he raises the question about the role of science in the philosophy of love. (53-59)
31On Schopenhauer (and Nietzsche) The great pessimist and the teacher of the overman—what are they doing here?For Schopenhauer one must repudiate the “Will” (the cruel and valueless force of nature)Love is to be understood as the Will’s manipulating us to have sex to bring about the next generation (The World as Will and Representation, “The Metaphysics of Sexual Love”)Thus, “passionate, marital love” is a delusion.But “companionate love” may offer a viable possibility of happiness. (70)
32A Note on HumeHume, like Schopenhauer, distinguishes two kinds of love—sexual and companionate—and both are viewed more positively, although he leaves it for readers to decide which is preferable.Link to Hume’s Treatise of Human NatureOf the Amorous Passion, Or Love Betwixt the SexesAnd “Of Love and Marriage”
33On NietzscheFor Nietzsche, contra Schopenhauer, one must affirm the Will.Still, he too generally has a negative, cynical view of love.“Love is a state in which a man sees things most decidedly as they are not.” (The Antichrist, Sec. 23)
34More Nietzsche Quotations “What else is love but understanding and rejoicing that another lives, works, and feels in a different and opposite way to ourselves? That love may be able to bridge over the contrasts by joys, we must not remove or deny those contrasts. Even self-love presupposes an irreconcilable duality (or plurality) in one person. (Human, All Too Human, Sec. 75, “Love and Duality”)“It is true we love life; not because we are used to living, but because we are used to loving. There is always some madness in love. But there is always, also, some method in madness. (Thus Spoke Zarathustra, “On Reading and Writing”)
35More NietzscheBut a more positive view can be found in what he intends by amor fati (literally “the love of fate”).Singer interprets this as a wrong-headed cosmic love of everything (see 62 & 96), but it can be interpreted more positively as a way of affirming all aspects of one’s existence. (Is this a kind of bestowal?)“I want to learn more and more to see as beautiful what is necessary in things; then I shall be one of those who make things beautiful. Amor fati: let that be my love henceforth! And all in all and on the whole: some day I wish to be only a Yes-sayer.” (The Gay Science, §276)
36What is Singer’s Philosophy of Love? “No simple answer” (110)Appraisal and Bestowal (51ff)Interdependence rather than dependenceAcceptance: Contra Sartre, the “look of love” involves an “accepting” of another person. (91)Sharing: love is a “sharing of selves” (91)The love of love (96)Different kinds of love, but no hierarchy (110) (i.e., the plurality of love)
37The Plurality of LoveNot all love can be reduced to sexual motivation as Freud thought.Singer’s view is that “love is something that can happen in any number of different, pluralistic, ways.”There are “different kinds of love that have to be understood in terms of their own variability and their own individual dimensions.” (75)
38Group Discussion/Timed Writing Form groups of 3-5 studentsDiscuss and write an answer to the following questions (hand in one sheet per group)Questions: What are the strengths and weaknesses of Singer’s Philosophy of Love? Identify two of each.
39StrengthsAn accessible, broad historical introductory overview of the philosophy of love which include a number of useful distinctions(e.g., courtly and romantic love, passionate and companionate love, appraisal and bestowal)An occasionally provocative consideration of certain philosophers(e.g., Nietzsche, Freud, Sartre)A case for a pluralistic philosophy of loveOpen to interdisciplinary work on loveAn interesting, personal apologia pro mente sua
40Weaknesses (Concern #1) Shouldn’t a philosophy of love be one that values love? In which case the pessimistic philosophies of Schopenhauer, Nietzsche, Freud, and Sartre should not be as prominent as the philosophies of Spinoza, Kierkegaard, and Scheler, which are centered on love.Problem with considerations of Sartre (cf. 86 & 97)Interpretive problem with Nietzsche’s amor fati
41Weaknesses (Concern #2) In what sense is this a “phenomenological blueprint” of love? (58)Doesn’t the concept of bestowal involve transcendence? (see 53)Singer also writes that “love is pervasively bound up with the relationship between the abstract and the concrete” (102).Yet he shrugs his shoulders when confronted with notions of transcendental spirit, and he thinks that “love is an emanation grounded in matter, and comparable to its parental origin” (105).
42Weaknesses (Concern #3) Which perspective shall we take in exploring the philosophy of love, a pluralistic one or a unitary one. Which is preferable? Which is more edifying?A perspective like Singer’s that expresses the plurality of love and opposes the search for a univocal concept, or one like Jean-Luc Marion’s in The Erotic Phenomenon that opposes the desire to make numerous distinctions and instead argues for a concept of love that is distinguished by its unity (5).