Presentation on theme: "Loyalty. The Secret life of Zoey-Helping your Friends Would you risk your friendship to keep your friends from doing drugs?"— Presentation transcript:
The Secret life of Zoey-Helping your Friends Would you risk your friendship to keep your friends from doing drugs?
Is keeping a secret the only and best way to be a loyal friend? Have you every kept a secret you wished you had told someone? When is a secret okay? “Friends don’t let friends drive drunk.” M.A.D.D
Making Choices Are there situations where you would keep a secret for a friend and others where telling the secret would be the best thing a friend could do? Describe Journal 5 Minutes Bible verse: Matt. 22:39
Loyalty School of Rock –Leaving Someone Behind Is it hard leaving someone behind?
Do you think what happened here was okay? Why? When is it wrong to leave someone out of the group? When is it right? If someone wants into your group do you automatically let them in? “Betrayal is the only truth that sticks.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson
Making Choices The coach asks you and a few other players who made the team last year to have input on who makes the team this year. Your best friend wants to be on the team, but is not as good as the others. What do you say? What do you sat to your friend? Journal – 5minutes Bible verse: John 19:12
Loyalty Shrek- Friendship What happens when you get into fights with your friend?
Are friends always honest about the way they feel? Are there times when making a friend face the truth might be too much to ask? “If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together.. There is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart.. I’ll always be with you.” -Pooh
Making Choices You know that your friends home life is not good, you also know that your friends grades having been poor. You ask him how are things and he says, “fine.” Do you leave him alone or press your friend to open up. Do you get others involved? How can you best support your friend? Who could you get to help? Journal- 5 minutes Bible verse: Matthew 28:20
Loyalty Lord of the Rings—Commitment How do you earn the support of others?
What are the promises in the Pledge of Allegiance, in marriage? How do promises express loyalty? What do you do if a friend breaks a promise? What does it mean to be loyal? When is loyalty a good thing? Bad thing? “To lead people, walk beside them.” -Lao Tszu
Making Choices You have signed up to participate in a neighborhood clean-up program this weekend. Your friend calls to invite you to a family picnic where there is no one his age and will be bored. The picnic is the same day as the clean up. How does loyalty help you make the decision? Which is more important? Journal – 5 minutes Bible Verse: 2 Corinthians 1:20