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Strengthening Family Resilience Facilitating Healing & Positive Growth From Adversity Centro di Psicologia e Analisi Transazionale Milan, Italy ~ June 25, 2012 F roma W alsh, PhD Co-Director, Chicago Center for Family Health Firestone Professor Emerita, The University of Chicago firstname.lastname@example.org@uchicago.edu www.ccfhchicago.org
R esilience Strengths in the context of adversity The ability to withstand and rebound from stressful life challenges --- emerging strengthened and more resourceful
Resilience How we Deal with Adversity Coping + Adaptation + Positive Growth More than Surviving: Ability to Thrive Transformation Crisis = Challenge + Opportunity !
Varied Images of Resilience ~ Popular view: “Just Bounce back!” ~ “A tree that bends in the storm but does not break” ~ “Suffering that is deep but not without hope” ~ “Fall down 5 times; get up 6 times!”
Many Varied Pathways in Resilience: Positive Development ~ Future Life Vision
Myth: The Rugged Individual Invulnerable Self-Reliant
Resilience is Nurtured in Relationships : To thrive, Individuals need “Relational Lifelines”: Supportive Bonds, Models & Mentors who: Believe in their Worth and Potential Draw out, Affirm Strengths, Abilities Inspire Hopes and Dreams Encourage Best Efforts See Failures as Opportunities for Learning, Growth Celebrate Successes
Pet Role -- Child Resilience in Family Transition
Strengthen: Family Community Cultural & Spiritual Resources
Strengthening Resilience : Relational Lifelines ~~~~~~~~~~ Facilitate coping and positive growth Through Vital Connections: Family network Social and community Cultural and Spiritual
Family Resilience Team Effort Collaboration Mutual Support Leadership
Walsh Family Resilience Framework Integrates 3 decades of research on resilience & effective family functioning to inform, guide clinical & community-based services, prevention programs Identify & strengthen key family processes & multi-systemic resources for coping, adaptation, and positive growth Use in Community-based settings; wide range of applications, formats: –Family Consultation; Brief Counseling; Family Therapy –Multi-family Groups; Workshops; Community Forums
Family Resilience Strengths & Resources for Families to Thrive in the face of Adversity Rebound from Crises Navigate Disruptive Changes Weather Multi-stress Conditions Overcome Obstacles to Success
Chicago Center for Family Health Resilience-Oriented Program Applications –Recover from Crisis, Trauma, Loss Traumatic Loss; Community Disaster Refugees; War-related trauma; Military families –Navigate Disruptive Life Changes Migration; Separation / Divorce; Foster Care –Cope, manage Multi-Stress Conditions e.g. Chronic illness, Disabilities Financial strain, Unemployment Ongoing complex trauma; Neighborhood blight –Overcome Barriers to Success At-risk youth: Family - School Partnership; –L.A. Gang Prevention / Youth Development
KEYS TO FAMILY RESILIENCE Belief Systems 1. Making Meaning of Crisis & Challenge 2. Positive Outlook: Hope – Master the Possible 3. Transcendence & Spirituality Organizational Resources 4. Flexibility / Stability 5. Connectedness; Leadership 6. Kin, Social, & Economic Resources: “Lifelines” Communication Processes 7. Clear, consistent messages 8. Emotional Sharing; Pain /Humor / Joy /respite 9. Collaborative Problem-solving / Proaction
Belief Systems The Heart and Soul of Resilience Rooted in Cultural & Spiritual Heritage Multigenerational Legacies Dominant Society Norms, Values, Biases Past Experience & Future Expectations
The Power of Beliefs Seeing is believing ~ Western view We must believe in something To be able to see it ~ Native American view We do not see things as they are -- We see them as we are. ~ The Talmud
1. Meaning -Making EEncourage Relational View of Resilience NNormalize, Contextualize Distress, –D–De-pathologize –– Blame, Shame, Stigma, Guilt GGain Sense of Coherence –V–View Crisis as Shared Challenges: Meaningful, Comprehensible, Manageable AAppraise Situation; Options: Facilitative vs. Constraining Beliefs: –E–Explain Events, causal: –F–Future expectations / catastrophic fears: What can we do ? Active Agency
2. Positive Outlook IInstill Hope; –E–En-Courage ; build Confidence AAffirm Strengths, Abilities; –B–Build on Potential AActive Initiative & Perseverance –S–Seize Opportunities MMaster the Possible Accept what can't be changed Tolerate uncertainty
Master the Art of the Possible: Do all you can With what you have In the time you have In the place you are
3. Transcendence ~ Spirituality LLarger Values, Purpose SSpiritual Resources: Faith, Practices, Community, Nature IInspiration: Envision New Possibilities –A–Aspirations: Role Models, Life dreams –I–Invention; Innovative Solutions –C–Creative Expression--writing, art, music TTransformation: Learning, Change, & Growth –R–Redirect life priorities; deepen bonds –C–Compassion Acts to Benefit Others Service, activism, social justice
Spirituality: a Dimension of Human Experience We are Bio-psycho-social-spiritual Beings ~~~~~~~~~~ Streams of influence flowing through all aspects of life o Family & Cultural Heritage o Transcendent Beliefs, Spiritual Practices, Community Within or outside religion: we can express: o humanistic values, nature, the arts, social action Fosters Meaning, Wholeness, Harmony Deep Connection within Self & With all Others Influences Suffering; Promotes Healing & Resilience
Family Organization Relational Shock Absorbers 4. Flexibility -- to change, Adapt Provide Stability --Structure, Reliability Leadership - Nurture, Protect, Guide 5. Connectedness -- Mutual Support Commitment, collaboration, caregiving 6. Social, Community, Larger Systems Workplace, Healthcare, Child / Elder care Overcome odds / Change odds to thrive
Family Resilience Practice Framework Shift Focus from family Deficits, Limitations to Strengths, Potential, Hopes & Dreams Developmental, Systemic Perspective Bio-Psycho-Social-Spiritual Influences Family Challenged by Adversity –timeline: stress events Family Response: Facilitates Adaptation of all Members, Relationships, Family Unit Relational View of Human Resilience Resilience-focused genogram: identify kin, social, community, spiritual resources Recruit models, mentors Build relational life-lines, teams, networks
Varied Challenges and Pathways in Resilience: No single model fits all families, their values, situations, & challenges Prevention: By strengthening resilience, families and their members become more resourceful to meet future challenges.
Facilitating Family Resilience : Practice Guidelines Core Conviction in Strengths, Potential of all Families, alongside Vulnerabilities, Limitations Language, Framing to Depathologize, Humanize Contextualize Distress; Decrease Shame, Blame Compassion for Suffering, Struggle, Losses View Crisis as Opportunity: Learning, Healing, & Positive Growth Shift Focus from Problems to Possibilities for Mastery, Thriving, Relational Repair Steps toward Future Vision: Hopes and Dreams Integrate Challenges and Resilience into the Fabric of Personal & Relational Lives.
Guidelines to Facilitate Healing, Resilience from Complicated or Traumatic Loss Start by grounding in their family, community, cultural, & spiritual connections. Invite them to share their loss experience. Offer compassionate witnessing of recent (& ongoing) losses, hardships, or injustices suffered. Draw out, affirm strengths in coping efforts; Link with kin, community resources Re-member persons & relationships lost; Continuing Bonds: Spiritual connection, Stories, Deeds Future orientation: renew / revise hopes, dreams
Resilience of the Human Spirit Let nothing dim the light that shines from within ~ Maya Angelou
In strengthening resilience, We strive to integrate the experience of adversity-- and our resilient response – Into the fabric of our individual and shared identity, Influencing how we go on to live our lives.
“A hero is one who does the best of things in the worst of times Seizing every opportunity.” --Joseph Campbell
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