Presentation on theme: "Michael Ungar, Ph.D. Killam Professor, School of Social Work, Dalhousie University"— Presentation transcript:
Michael Ungar, Ph.D. Killam Professor, School of Social Work, Dalhousie University Twitter @MichaelUngarPhD www.michaelungar.com www.resilienceresearch.org Too Safe for their Own Good: How the Right Amount of Risk and Responsibility Helps Children and Teens Thrive CCPA 2013 Halifax, NS
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Some Canadian kids are at risk: Living in poverty Neglected Drug addicted Failing out of school, or school failing them Mentally ill (self-harming, eating disordered, depressed, anxious) Family violence, street violence Family members’ addictions Toxic physical environments
There is a danger of over-protecting Denying children the “Risk-taker’s Advantage” A lack of opportunity to experience appropriate challenge A lack of opportunity to experience appropriate responsibility Need Balance between ensuring safety and biopsychosocial development
Actual Risks facing our children today Crimes by teens: down Likelihood of being murdered: down Rate of school drop-out: down Accidents causing death: down Smoking and drug use: down Early sexual activity: down/stable Pregnancy rates among teens: down
Why do parents deny children the “risk-taker’s advantage”? Normative functioning (risk-aversion) Perceived threats to the family Self-actualization of the parent Perceived lack of capacity among children
What risks did you take growing up? Taking those risks, what did you learn? How will our children learn these same lessons? Were those lessons helpful, unhelpful, or both?
The Right Amount of Risk and Responsibility Work Opportunities: paid or volunteer; certification as coach, life guard… Dangerous ‘toys’: knives, chemistry sets, scooters, make-up, video games, motorbikes, extreme sport gear Navigate community: walking, busing, skateboarding, driving
The Right Amount of Risk and Responsibility Bodily experiences: celebrations of puberty, first love Outdoor challenge: wilderness trip, extreme sports
Too much exposure to risk (adventure and responsibility) and we endanger a child. Too little exposure to risk (adventure and responsibility) and we fail to provide a child opportunities to grow up healthy.