Presentation on theme: "Relational Dialectics Theory"— Presentation transcript:
1 Relational Dialectics Theory Alex UlbrichtAmber KemmererKristin Bowling
2 Questions AnsweredHow do we maintain our individuality while we are in interpersonal relationships?How do members of a dyad express their feelings while still protecting their vulnerability?What are the strategies used to maintain a healthy relationship?How do we cope with the tension brought upon by our significant others?Amber
3 Relational Dialectics Theory Explains that relational life is characterized by ongoing tensions between contradictory impulses“Contradiction is the central concept of relational dialectics.” –Baxter & MontgomeryDeveloped to describe, predict, and explain the tensions that occur in all personal relationshipsDeveloped to better understand the contradictions that are present in relationships and the strategies to overcome themKristin
4 History Developed by Leslie Baxter and Barbara Montgomery in 1988. Related to the Yin and Yang dynamics, which makes an emphasis on values always being in motion, like relationships.Kristin
5 Type Social Scientific Humanistic Intrapersonal Interpersonal InterculturalKristin
6 Metatheoretical: Interpretive OntologyTruth is constructed through interactionEpistemologyUsed to describe and interpret meaningAxiologyRecognize how our values influence the truth
7 Earlier StudiesRDT relates to the Social Penetration Theory which examines the development of closeness in relationshipsRelational closeness can progress from superficial to intimateRDT also relates to Certainty Reduction Theory, which states the beginning of relationships are filled with uncertaintyKristin
8 Primary ResearchBaxter, L.A. (1988). A dialectical perspective on communication strategies in relationship development. In S. Duck (Ed.), Handbook of Personal Relationships,Alex
9 Further ResearchGoldsmith, D. (1990). A Dialectic Perspective on the Expression of Autonomy and Connection in Romantic Relationships. Western Journal of Speech Communication: WJSC, 54(4), Retrieved January 26, 2009, from Communication & Mass Media Complete database.Reseracher’s Position: Focuses on the qualitative changes in autonomy connection dialectic tensionsMethods: Examines and analyzes 10 romantic relationships through five types of tensionsFindings: All 10 respondents recalled instances of conflict between autonomy and connection.Amber
10 Approaches to TheoryMonologic Approach- framing contradictions either/or.Dualistic Approach- framing contradiction as two separate entities.Dialectic Approach- framing contradiction as both/and.Relational Dialectics Theory uses the Dialectic approachAmber
11 Real Life Theory is evident in Friends. What is going on in this clip? How does Rachel feel?How does Ross feel?Kristin
12 DialecticsInteractional dialectics- are tensions resulting from and constructed by communication.Contextual dialectics- are tensions resulting from the place of the relationship within the culture.Public and Private dialectic- refers to the tension between the two domainsReal and Ideal dialectic- is the difference between idealized relationships and lived relationships.Kristin
13 Vocabulary Totality: Contradiction: suggests that people in a relationship are independent. When something happens to one member in a relationship, the other member(s) will be affected as well.Contradiction:Refers to oppositions- two elements that contradict each other. Contradiction is the central feature of the dialectic approach. Dialectics are the result of oppositions.Amber: the social and cultural context affects the process; communicating in relationships “involves the constant interconnection and reciprocal influence of multiple individual, interpersonal, and social factors.”Ex: When Joe gets fired from his job, Sandy, his wife must now work two jobs to make ends meet. The stress from those two jobs and being apart from her man puts a strain on their relationship
14 Vocabulary Motion: Praxis: Refers to the process of relationships and their change over time.Praxis:Although we do not have completely free choice in all instances and are restricted by our previous choices, by the choices of others, and by cultural and social conditions, we are still conscious and active choice makers.Amber Ex: Beginning of the relationship: perfect person, later on you see the flaws and the predictability of their personality
15 Assumptions Relationships are not linear Relational life is characterized by changeContradiction is the fundamental fact of relational lifeCommunication is central to organizing and negotiating relational contradictions.Alex
16 Tensions Internal- between two individuals External- your relationship and societyThree sets of tensionsAutonomy/ConnectionOpenness/ProtectionNovelty/PredictabilityAlex refer back to the public and private domains and the contexual dialects : public private, real and ideal
17 Autonomy & Connection “Primary internal strain in relationships” BaxterSimultaneous desires to be independent of our significant others and to find intimacy with themRelational life is permeated with the conflicting needs to be both close to and separate from relational partnersAlex ASK FOR EXAMPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
18 Example Internal- External- When you attend the same college there might be a contradiction on the amount of time you spend togetherExternal-The tension brought upon by hanging out with your girlfriend’s friends constantly and the desire to be alone with herAlex Referring back to the dialect of public and private. We will eb doing this for each tension
19 Predictability and Novelty Conflict between the comfort of stability and the excitement of changeRTD differentiates from Uncertainty Reduction Theory which assumes that people move towards certainty and away from uncertainty as relationships developAlex Different from URT because as we said before Relational Dialect Theory is nto Dualistic, eaither or, it is dialectic which is and/both
20 Example Internal External Special surprises like sending flowers to your work but understanding this breaks routineExternalvisiting your Mother in law’s house every Sunday for dinnerAlex
21 Openness and Protection Focuses on our conflicting desire to first be open and vulnerable revealing person information to our relational partners, and second to be strategic and protective in our communicationAlex
22 Example Internal External After you move away and go to college you might withhold information from your parents about the events in your lifeExternalThe expectancy of your high school friends to get along with your college friends but to maintain the personal relationship you have with themAlex
23 Responses to Dialectic Tensions These tensions are ongoing so people have many different ways that they deal with the conflicting tension in their livesThese methods can be affected by your personality, time frame in which your relationship lies, and the stage that you are in your relationship.Kristin
24 Reponses to Dialectic Tensions SegmentationChoosing different poles for different contextsCyclic AlternationChoosing different poles at different timesSelectionSelection in choosing one pole and acting as through the other doesn’t existKristin
25 Reponses to Dialectic Tensions IntegrationSynthesizing the opposition in dialectic tensions3 Sub Strategies-NeutralizingInvolves choosing a compromise between oppositionsReframingTransforming the oppositions so they appear as though they no long oppose one anotherDisqualifyingExempting certain issues from the general patternKristin
26 Critique Limited testability Limited scope Timelessness Researchers cannot monitor what goes on behind closed doorsLimited scopeThere are limited studies on homosexuality and other culturesTimelessnessNew research is introducing new dialectics with the changing technologies and ways of communicatingAlex
27 Scholar’s Critique Weaknesses Strengths It creates a self-fulfilling prophecy effect.It does not have degrees of opposition, only contradictions.StrengthsImproves the dualistic view that looks at relationships and communication.It challenges the one-dimensional and more archaic views of communication.**Theory critique by Andrei Duta.Not a continum, there are 3 or 4 dimensions that represent different degrees of contradictions.
28 ConclusionThe relational dialectic theory describes explains and predicts the tensions that occur in our interpersonal relationships.The theory expanded on other relational studies to help us better understand that relationships are ongoing.The theory is relevant to each individual’s life and the relationships within.Amber: READ
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