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1 Ephesians 6:4 Biblical Parenting … provoke not your children to wrath … Week 19

2 Biblical Counseling Basics 2012 - 2013 Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay

3 Biblical Counseling Basics Set #3 MARCH / MAY 2013 17.3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex 18.4/3/2013 –Comparing Counsel Philosophies 19.4/17/2013 - Parenting: Do not provoke Anger 20.4/24/2013 – … But Bring Them Up … 21.5/1/2013 – … In the Discipline of the Lord … 22.5/8/2013 – … In the Instruction of the Lord 23.5/15/2013 – Guilt and Repentance 24.5/22/2013 – Worry and Fear 17.3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex 18.4/3/2013 –Comparing Counsel Philosophies 19.4/17/2013 - Parenting: Do not provoke Anger 20.4/24/2013 – … But Bring Them Up … 21.5/1/2013 – … In the Discipline of the Lord … 22.5/8/2013 – … In the Instruction of the Lord 23.5/15/2013 – Guilt and Repentance 24.5/22/2013 – Worry and Fear

4 Biblical Parenting Introduction Week 19 1.The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a) Parenting 1

5 2 Timothy 3:1-5 1 - This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 - For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Parenting 1

6 2 Timothy 3:1-5 3 - Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4 - Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5 - Having a form of godliness, but denying the power Parenting 1

7 Biblical Parenting Introduction Week 19 1.The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a) 2.Encouragement for parents (2 Timothy 3: 14-15, 16-17) Timothy was raised in a single parent home (godly mother and grandmother) Parenting 1

8 2 Timothy 3:14-17 14 - But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; 15 - And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. Parenting 1

9 2 Timothy 3:14-17 16 - All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 17 - That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. Parenting 1

10 2 Timothy 3:16 16 - All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness 1.Teaching doctrine: (pre-kids) 2.Reproof: (change wrong thinking) 3.Correction: (to stand up again that which has been knocked down) 4.Righteousness: (handle children differently in the future) What is Right, Not Right, Get Right, Stay Right Parenting 1

11 Biblical Parenting Introduction Week 19 1.The challenges of parenting in today's culture (2 Timothy 3:1-5a) 2.Encouragement for parents (2 Timothy 3: 14-15, 16-17) 3.Ephesians 6:4 is the single most important verse in the New Testament on the subject of parenting. Parenting 1

12 Ephesians 6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord Parenting 1

13 Biblical Parenting Fathers Week 19 1.The children are primarily Dad's responsibility 2.Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine (Eph 5:22-25) Parenting 1

14 Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23-For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24-Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25-Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Parenting 1

15 Biblical Parenting Fathers Week 19 1.The children are primarily Dad's responsibility 2.Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine 3.God hold father’s primarily responsible (1 Sam 2:12; 3:11-13) Parenting 1

16 1 Samuel 2:12 Now the sons of Eli -were- sons of Belial; they knew not the LORD. Parenting 1

17 1 Samuel 3:11-13 11 - And the LORD said to Samuel, Behold, I will do a thing in Israel, at which both the ears of every one that heareth it shall tingle. 12 - In that day I will perform against Eli all things which I have spoken concerning his house: when I begin, I will also make an end. Parenting 1

18 1 Samuel 3:11-13 13 - For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not. Parenting 1

19 Biblical Parenting Fathers Week 19 1.The children are primarily Dad's responsibility 2.Headship of the husband is a key Bible doctrine 3.God hold father’s primarily responsible (1 Sam 2:12; 3:11-13) A.All others are your assistants (mom, grandparents, teacher, pastor, coach, etc.) B.You cannot blame others for the failures of your children. (CEO Dad) Parenting 1

20 Biblical Parenting Fathers Week 19 4.A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). Parenting 1

21 1 Timothy 3:4,12 4 - One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity 12 - Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. Parenting 1

22 Biblical Parenting Fathers Week 19 4.A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). Doesn’t mean perfect kids Parenting 1

23 Biblical Parenting Fathers Week 19 4.A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). 5.A primary principle of fathering is to be there. A.Physically B.Mentally C.Emotionally Parenting 1

24 Biblical Parenting Fathers Week 19 4.A qualification for spiritual leadership is whether or not a man manages well his own children and household (1 Timothy 3:4,12). 5.A primary principle of fathering is to be there. 6.Mothers are to be involved (Exodus 20:12; Prov. 1:8, 9; 1 Tim. 5:10; Ephesians 6:1-3) Parenting 1

25 Exodus 20:12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee. Parenting 1

26 Proverbs 1:8, 9 8 - My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother: 9 - For they shall be an ornament of grace unto thy head, and chains about thy neck. Parenting 1

27 1 Timothy 5:10 Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints’ feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work. Parenting 1

28 Ephesians 6:1-3 1 - Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. 2 - Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;) 3 - That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. Parenting 1

29 Top 10 Things Fathers will Never Say 1.Let’s read the instructions first. 2.As a matter of fact, let’s both go get nose rings! 3.Go ahead take my car, here’s 20 bucks for gas 4.Oh no kids! This bike is too fast! 5.Can’t finish your peas? Sure, go ahead and throw them away 6.Here! You take remote control. 7.Waiter, more ice cream for the little ones 8.Wanna watch some synchronized swimming? 9.Honey, you sit this one out, I can’t wait to change that diaper 10.Kids, Please turn up that music, it really calls calm nerves Parenting 1

30 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset annoy, oppose, anger, displease or cross a child (1 Samuel 3:11-13; Proverbs 22:15; Hebrews 12:5-11) Parenting 1

31 1 Samuel 3:11-13 11 - And the LORD said to Samuel, Behold, I will do a thing in Israel, at which both the ears of every one that heareth it shall tingle. 12 - In that day I will perform against Eli all things which I have spoken concerning his house: when I begin, I will also make an end. 13 - For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not. Parenting 1

32 Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. Parenting 1

33 Hebrews 12:5-11 5 - And ye haveforgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: 6 - For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 - If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 - But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. Parenting 1

34 Hebrews 12:5-11 9 - Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? 10 - For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. 11 - Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised hereby Parenting 1

35 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset annoy, oppose, anger, displease or cross a child (1 Samuel 3:11-13; Proverbs 22:15; Hebrews 12:5-11) 2.It does mean we should NOT handle them in such a way that they will be incited to a wrathful kind of living and become angry young men and women. Parenting 1

36 Ephesians 6:4 A. “Fathers, do not irritate and provoke your children to anger; do not exasperate them to resentment" - Amplified Bible Parenting 1

37 Ephesians 6:4 B. Parents "are not to excite the bad passions of their children nor by his own ill conduct nurture evil in the heart of his child."- Hodges Parenting 1

38 Ephesians 6:4 C. “Do not exasperate or embitter your children; do not provoke your children to an angry mood." - Hendrickson Parenting 1

39 Colossians 3:21 Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. (KJV) Parenting 1

40 Colossians 3:21 D. “Fathers, do not provoke or irritate or fret your children –do not be hard on them or harass them; lest they become discouraged and sullen and morose and feel inferior and frustrated; do not break their spirit.” – Amplified Bible Parenting 1

41 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. A.Ephesians 6:4 Amplified B.Ephesians 6:4 Hodges C.Ephesians 6:4 Hendrickson D.Colossians 3:21 Amplified E.The warning is not about an incident of anger, but about a lifestyle of anger. F.The challenge is to avoid raising a child to be like the person spoken of in Proverbs 19:19; 25:28 Parenting 1

42 Proverbs 19:19 A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again. Parenting 1

43 Proverbs 25:28 He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls Parenting 1

44 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger (1 Samuel 15:23; Ephesians 4:31). Parenting 1

45 1 Samuel 15:23 For rebellion (blowing up) is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness (clamming up) is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king. Parenting 1

46 Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness(clamming up), and wrath (blowing up), and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: Parenting 1

47 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger A.Flaring outbursts of rage; open rebellion; hostility (Proverbs 14:17; 15:18; 19:19; 22:24; Ephesians 4:31) Parenting 1Blowing Up

48 Proverbs 14:17 He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly and a man of wicked devices is hated. Parenting 1Blowing Up

49 Proverbs 15:18 A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife. Parenting 1Blowing Up

50 Proverbs 19:19 A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again. Parenting 1Blowing Up

51 Proverbs 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go: Parenting 1Blowing Up

52 Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: Parenting 1Blowing Up

53 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger A.Flaring outbursts of rage; open rebellion; B.Settled indignation; the slow bum; willing to wait for revenge (Genesis 4:5-13; Proverbs 14:17; Ephesians 4:31) Parenting 1Clamming Up

54 Genesis 4:5-13 5 But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell. 6 And the LORD said unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen? 7 If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him. 8 And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him. Parenting 1Clamming Up

55 Genesis 4:5-13 9 And the LORD said unto Cain, Where is Abel thy brother? And he said, I know not: Am I my brother’s keeper? 10 And he said, What hast thou done? the voice of thy brother’s blood crieth unto me from the ground. 11 And now art thou cursed from the earth, which hath opened her mouth to receive thy brother’s blood from thy hand; 12 When thou tillest the ground, it shall not henceforth yield unto thee her strength; a fugitive and a vagabond shalt thou be in the earth. 13 And Cain said unto the LORD, My punishment is greater than I can bear. Parenting 1Clamming Up

56 Proverbs 14:17 He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly: and a man of wicked devices is hated. Parenting 1Clamming Up

57 Ephesians 4:31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: Parenting 1Clamming Up

58 Two Kinds of Anger Week 19 Parenting 1

59 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony (Genesis 2:24; Hebrews 12:15) Parenting 1

60 Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Parenting 1

61 Hebrews 12:15 Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble [you,] and thereby many be defiled Parenting 1

62 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home (Prov. 29: 15) Parenting 1

63 Prov. 29: 15 The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame. Parenting 1

64 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger (Prov. 22:24-25; Jas. 1 :20) Parenting 1

65 Proverbs 22:24-25 24 - Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go: 25 – Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul. Parenting 1

66 James 1:20 For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God. Parenting 1

67 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline (2 Cor. 1 :17,18; Ecc. 8:11) 1.Differing parental standards 2.Differing parental enforcement Parenting 1

68 2 Corinthians 1 :17-18 17 -When I therefore was thus minded, did I use lightness? or the things that I purpose, do I purpose according to the flesh, that with me there should be yea yea, and nay nay? 18 - But as God is true, our word toward you was not yea and nay. Parenting 1

69 Ecclesiastes 8:11 Because sentence against an evil work is not executed speedily, therefore the heart of the sons of men is fully set in them to do evil. Parenting 1

70 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's mistakes and sins than on their own (Mt. 7:1-5) Parenting 1

71 Matthew 7:1-5 1 - Judge not, that ye be not judged. 2 - For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. 3 - And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? 4 - Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 5 - Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye. Parenting 1

72 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F.Not distinguishing between the "law of God" and the "law of the house“ (Mt. 15:7-9; 1 Jn. 5:3) Parenting 1

73 Matthew 15:7-9 7 - Ye hypocrites, well did Esaias prophesy of you, saying, 8 - This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me. 9 - But in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men. Parenting 1

74 1 John 5:3 In these lay a great multitude of impotent folk, of blind, halt, withered, waiting for the moving of the water. Parenting 1

75 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship with the child (2 Sam 14:28,29) Parenting 1

76 2 Samuel 14:28,29 28 So Absalom dwelt two full years in Jerusalem, and saw not the king’s face. 29 Therefore Absalom sent for Joab, to have sent him to the king; but he would not come to him: and when he sent again the second time, he would not come. Parenting 1

77 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 1.This does not mean never upset a child 2.It does mean we should NOT incite wrath. 3.The Bible speaks of at least two kinds of anger 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice (Pr. 15:1; Eph. 4:29) Parenting 1

78 Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. Parenting 1

79 Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. Parenting 1

80 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault (Pr. 11:9,11; 12:18; 18:21) Parenting 1

81 Proverbs 11:9,11 An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered. Parenting 1

82 Proverbs 12:18 There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health. Parenting 1

83 Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. Parenting 1

84 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault J.Not listening to the child's side of the story or his opinion (Pr. 18:2,13, 17; Jas.1 :19) Parenting 1

85 Proverbs 18:2, 13, 17 2 - A fool hath no delight in understanding, but that his heart may discover itself. 13 - He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him. 17 - He that is first in his own cause seemeth just; but his neighbour cometh and searcheth him. Parenting 1

86 James 1 :19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath Parenting 1

87 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault J.Not listening to the child's side of the story K.Failing to keep promises (Mt. 5:37; Col. 3:9; Ps 15:4-5) Parenting 1

88 Matthew 5:37 But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil. Parenting 1

89 Colossians 3:9 Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds; Parenting 1

90 Psalm 15:4-5 4 - In whose eyes a vile person is contemned; but he honoureth them that fear the LORD. He that sweareth to his own hurt, and changeth not. 5 - He that putteth not out his money to usury, nor taketh reward against the innocent. He that doeth these things shall never be moved. Parenting 1

91 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault J.Not listening to the child's side of the story K.Failing to keep promises L.Disciplining the child in front of others (Mt. 18: 15) Parenting 1

92 (Mt. 18: 15) Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. Parenting 1

93 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault J.Not listening to the child's side of the story K.Failing to keep promises L.Disciplining the child in front of others M.Giving too much freedom (Pr. 29:15; Heb. 12:6-9) Parenting 1

94 Proverbs 29:15 The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame. Parenting 1

95 Hebrews 12:6-9 6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. 9 Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live? Parenting 1

96 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault J.Not listening to the child's side of the story K.Failing to keep promises L.Disciplining the child in front of others M.Giving too much freedom N.Giving too little freedom (Lk. 12:48; 1 Cor. 13:11) Parenting 1

97 Luke 12:48 But he that knew not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more. Parenting 1

98 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. Parenting 1

99 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault J.Not listening to the child's side of the story K.Failing to keep promises L.Disciplining the child in front of others M.Giving too much freedom N.Giving too little freedom O.Not admitting when they are wrong (Mt. 7:3-5) Parenting 1

100 (Mt. 7:3-5) And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? 4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? 5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye. Parenting 1

101 Biblical Parenting Do Not Provoke Your Children to Anger Week 19 4.How do parents "provoke to anger"? A.Lack of marital harmony B.Establishing and maintaining a child-centered home C.Modeling sinful anger D.Being inconsistent with discipline E.Being harder on the child's sins than your own F."law of God" and “law of the house” G.Failing to build a relationship H.Abusive words, expressions, tone of voice I.Constantly finding fault J.Not listening to the child's side of the story K.Failing to keep promises L.Disciplining the child in front of others M.Giving too much freedom N.Giving too little freedom O.Not admitting when they are wrong Parenting 1

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103 Biblical Counseling Basics Set #3 MARCH / MAY 2013 17.3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex 18.4/3/2013 –Comparing Counsel Philosophies 19.4/17/2013 - Parenting: Do not provoke Anger 20.4/24/2013 – … But Bring Them Up … 21.5/1/2013 – … In the Discipline of the Lord … 22.5/8/2013 – … In the Instruction of the Lord 23.5/15/2013 – Guilt and Repentance 24.5/22/2013 – Worry and Fear 17.3/27/2013 – Biblical Principles of Sex 18.4/3/2013 –Comparing Counsel Philosophies 19.4/17/2013 - Parenting: Do not provoke Anger 20.4/24/2013 – … But Bring Them Up … 21.5/1/2013 – … In the Discipline of the Lord … 22.5/8/2013 – … In the Instruction of the Lord 23.5/15/2013 – Guilt and Repentance 24.5/22/2013 – Worry and Fear

104 Biblical Counseling Basics 2012-2013 Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay

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