Presentation is loading. Please wait.

Presentation is loading. Please wait.

Sexuality in Professional Practice: # Three East Central Region October 5, 2012 Gordon J. Hilsman, D. Min.

Similar presentations


Presentation on theme: "Sexuality in Professional Practice: # Three East Central Region October 5, 2012 Gordon J. Hilsman, D. Min."— Presentation transcript:

1 Sexuality in Professional Practice: # Three East Central Region October 5, 2012 Gordon J. Hilsman, D. Min.

2 Latin  Con – either “with” or “against”!  Sultare = “to strike” “To strike with and/or against”

3

4  Vague sense of fear  Difficulty identifying a supervisory plan  Complaints from your boss  Peer group alarm  Complaints from med. staff, pastoral care or IDT  Startling written material  Facial clues  Impulses (your own) to violent solutions

5 Perspective Confidence Support Integrity Learning (wisdom)

6  Pride (illusions of superiority, excessive image management)  Marked self reliance  Allowing self confusion  Rationalizations, justifications, minimizing  Realization that you have stopped supervising  Procrastination (laziness?)

7 Courage Open Disclosure Re- Conceptualizing Expressed Gratefulness Flow Astute Selection ContractingSelf Reflection Measured Critique From Consulting Need to Supervisory Plan

8  Savvy to you  Savvy re: the issue  Trustable “to a point”  Earthy  Experienced in general  Mature  Gender optimal  ___________________

9  Motivation for the initiative (where’s the pain, fear, anger, confusion, etc.)  Observations  Emotions  Unfolding history - Key Events  Initial conceptualizations  Inclinations

10  Listen  Convey Empathy (no matter what)  Listen  Frame and conceptualize  Listen  Ask good (clarifying) questions  Listen  “Validate what you like and ask good questions” (Bernard Pennington)

11 Co= Cf = Vα + Qg + Cr r E (Consultation Feedback = Authentic Validation + Good Questions + Relevant Critique, all supported with empathy)

12  I Am An Innocent Man (Billy Joel, background during break) (or Bach)

13

14  Rachmaninof background?

15  Wrap-up Comments and evaluation questionnaire

16 Still the best resource for Catholic students and other’s who want or need a positive view of sexuality integrated with intimate loving, as fostering the growth of Christian virtue and spiritual maturity. Sheed and Ward: 2007 Available today for a mere $10.00

17 FINIS


Download ppt "Sexuality in Professional Practice: # Three East Central Region October 5, 2012 Gordon J. Hilsman, D. Min."

Similar presentations


Ads by Google