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The World Beyond Words Nonverbal Communication “The language of the body is the key that can unlock the soul.” Stanislavksy
Definition & Benefits All aspects of communication other than words Gesture, smile, frown, widen your eyes, move your chair closer to someone, wear jewelry, touch someone, raise your vocal volume or say nothing The greater your ability to send & receive NV messages: the higher your attraction, popularity & psychosocial well-being likely will be The more successful you’re likely to be at influencing others
Differences b/t Verbal & NV Perceived as more believable Multi-channeled Continuous
10 Channels of NVC 1. Facial Displays 2. Eye Behaviors 3. Movement & Gestures-Kinesics 4. Touch Behaviors- Haptics 5. Vocal Behaviors- Vocalics or Paralanguage 6. The use of Smell- Olfactics 7.The use of Space- Proxemics 8. Physical Appearance 9.The use of Time- Chronemics 10. The use of Artifacts
5. Emotional Expression Great part of emotional experience Facial expressions reveal ranges of emotions Posture, gestures, eye movement (pupil dilation) Unpleasant messages
Getting to Know You Your Nonverbal Interpretation and Expression How much do you agree with each of the following statements? Indicate level of agreement with each statement on a scale of 1- 7, wherein 1 means you strongly disagree and 7 means you strongly agree. ― When I feel depressed, I tend to bring down those around me. ― It is nearly impossible for people to hide their true feelings from me. ― I have been told that I have “expressive” eyes. ― At parties, I can instantly tell when someone is interested in me. ― Quite often I tend to be the “life of the party.” ― People often tell me that I am a sensitive and understanding person.
Scoring When you have finished, add up your scores from items 1, 3, and 5. This is your score for expressiveness. Next, add up your scores from items 2, 4, and 6. This is your score for interpretation. Both scores should range from 16-21=quite good 9-15=moderate 3-8=can benefit from guidance in Chapter
Body Gestures Kinesics, the study of communication through body movement Emblems-directly translate words or phrases “OK” sign, “Come here” wave, hitchhiker’s sign Illustrators-accompany & literally “illustrate: verbal messages Circular hand movements when talking of a circle, hands far apart for large Affect displays-communicate emotional meaning Expressions of happiness, surprise, fear, anger, sadness, disgust
Kinesics Continued Regulators-monitor, maintain or control the speaking another Facial expressions & hand gestures indicating “keep going,” “Slow down,” or “What else happened?” Adaptors-satisfy some need Scratching head, moisten lips Crossing your arms over your chest Clicking pen, chewing pencil
Kinesics Continued Body Appearance Body build Height Race, nationality Weight Attractiveness-(definitions are becoming universal) *What ways would you alter your personal Appearance if you were trying to look Friendlier? Smarter? More liberal? Wealthier?
Kinesics Continued Facial Communication Emotions-degree of pleasantness, agreement, sympathy Research indicates: face communicates universally Happiness Surprise Fear Anger Sadness Disgust Contempt Interest
Facial continued Some emotions are easier to decode: Happiness judged accurately-55%-100% Surprise-38%-86% Sadness-19%-88% Women & girls are more accurate judges Context plays a role for decoding Smiling people are judged as more likable & approachable
Kinesics cont. Facial management techniques-enable you to communicate your feelings to achieve the effect you want & display in socially acceptable ways Intensify Deintensify Neutralize Mask Simulate
Kinesics cont. Facial Feedback Hypothesis-facial expressions influences physiological arousal. Your facial expression influence the judgments & impressions that others have of you; it also influences your level of emotional arousal One study: participants held a pen in their teeth to simulate sadness. Rated photos. Results showed that mimicking sad expressions actually increased the degree of sadness the subjects reported feeling when viewing the photos.
Eye Communication Eye Contact: Monitor feedback – to get it and to listen Listeners gaze at speakers more-62%-75% Gazing while talking-38%-41% When flipped, becomes awkward Secure attention & interest Regulate & control Signal nature of relationship Status & aggression Visual dominance Compensate for increased physical distance
Eyes cont. Eye Avoidance Great intruders Turn away in public-civil inattention Pupil dilation Enlarged pupils Beauty Interest/emotional arousal Cosmetic industry
Haptics- Touch Communication Most primitive form of NVC First sense used-child in womb Fondled, caressed, patted, stroked Learns to communicate through touch Early stages of a relationship-touch little Intermediate stages-touch a lot Stable or deterioration-touch little
Haptics cont. Meanings of touch Positive emotions Playfulness Control Ritualistic Task-related Touch Avoidance Fear oral communication Little self-disclosure Difficult to get close Decreased touching leads to avoiding touching Women-higher touch avoidance or opposite-sex touch than do men
Proxemics How we use space! Cultural norms Skin to 11/2 feet-significant relationships 11/2 ft-4ft-close friends 4ft-12ft-social distance Collectivist vs Individualistic Culture Women & Minorities Power
Paralanguage Vocalics Whispering Shouting Sarcasm Control vocal cues Project an image Accents Cultural Silence
Listening Cues Who in your life is a good listener? Proxemics/Space Posture, facial, movements Encouragers Verbal Support Dual Perspective Ask questions Make judgmental comments? Interrupt?