Presentation on theme: "Click the mouse button to operate1 Apologising Learning to say sorry is one of the most mature qualities you can acquire. Apologising is one of those."— Presentation transcript:
Click the mouse button to operate1 Apologising Learning to say sorry is one of the most mature qualities you can acquire. Apologising is one of those qualities everyone will admire you Everyone knows how difficult it is to apologise.
Click the mouse button to operate2 Apologising Feelings of guilt get in the way of other things Guilt stays on your conscience You build up the guilt until it gets completely out of proportion. The sooner you apologise the sooner you will stop these feelings of guilt.
Click the mouse button to operate3 Apologising Apologising is not a sign of weakness, so don't look at it that way. It takes guts to apologise. It shows you have the confidence to confront a situation and deal with it efficiently.
Click the mouse button to operate4 Apologising Once you recognise you have made a mistake, try to apologise quickly. Don't make a big deal of it just take a deep breath and apologise. The sooner you apologise the sooner you can move on and think about other more pleasant things..
Click the mouse button to operate5 Apologising If someone apologises to you, just accept it calmly. Even if you are annoyed about what they did or what they said. You will both feel good about yourselves - one for apologising - one for accepting. Don’t go over all the past - move on.
Click the mouse button to operate6 Coping with Mistakes Being embarrassed and afraid of failing holds you back from contributing in class. Not speaking out has far-reaching effects outside the classroom. It can stop you standing up for yourself and your beliefs. It can make you miss opportunities.
Click the mouse button to operate7 Coping with Mistakes Fear of failure –(the fear of getting something wrong or saying something embarrassing) If you let this fear overwhelm you at school, you will not get the marks you deserve. If you let this fear overwhelm you out side school, you will lose opportunities.
Click the mouse button to operate8 Coping with Mistakes It's not the end of the world if you give an incorrect answer. Not understanding something isn't a sign of stupidity. Not asking for help is stupid. Embarrassment is only momentary.
Click the mouse button to operate9 Coping with Mistakes No one remembers the things you get wrong. Speaking in front of people gets easier the more you do it. If someone shouts you down, assert yourself and ask them to let you finish.
Click the mouse button to operate10 Learning from your Mistakes Growing up is all about experiencing things for the first time. It is easy to make a mistake because you are inexperienced. Everybody makes mistakes. Its part of human nature. If you can learn from where you went wrong, you'll become a wiser person.
Click the mouse button to operate11 Learning from your Mistakes You might make mistakes because you are careless. Try and give more time to things. Take life more slowly. Think things out and plan what you’re going to do.
Click the mouse button to operate12 Learning from your Mistakes You might make mistakes because you feel uncertain about something, Talk about it with someone you trust. Don’t act without a second opinion. Check your facts over, make sure you are right.
Click the mouse button to operate13 Learning from your Mistakes You might make mistakes because you’re nervous. Take a deep breath before you do anything. Don’t panic yourself into acting on impulse or in a way which isn’t really you. Don’t do things just because you think you must make your mark.
Click the mouse button to operate14 Learning from your Mistakes Concentrate on all the good things you can do. Don't dwell on things you aren’t so good at. Making mistakes is all about lacking knowledge. You can always get more knowledge about a subject.
Click the mouse button to operate15 Learning from your Mistakes Don’t blame yourself If you blame yourself for everything that goes wrong… –you’ll soon begin to lose confidence in yourself, –you will begin to believe it, –others will start to blame you