Presentation on theme: "The Work/ Life Balance Challenge. Know What You Want Define what you want in life and work-doing and being Set Priorities – serve as a compass to guide."— Presentation transcript:
NO YES Feeling/reac tion Unspoken thoughts Underlying Driver Should- could & DMC Decision GuiltyDon’t want to disappoint others Value conflict Desire to contribute AnxiousWhat will they think? Want to be liked.. sense of belonging. Valued Uncomforta ble Don’t know how to say it Don’t really want to…see above Fear of …. Practice
Illuminating the driver NO YES Feeling/reac tion Unspoken thoughts Underlying Driver Should- could & DMC Decision
The Art of saying No and Yes Proactive- 1 st choice Reactive – 2 nd choice..(provide bridging support if appropriate) Take Time: Considering it? Or Delaying it ? Check IN… with your Priorities and Decision Making Criteria(bring more of what you want?maybe not -will suport/strengthen an important relationship?) your Driver. ** motive- doing it to show love/ and strengthen relationship ….if not,creates resentment do more harm than good Speak your decision-with confidence and grace
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