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Dr. Kathy Seifert http://preventbullyingnow.info firstname.lastname@example.org
The nature of the trauma The severity and chronicity of the trauma
Trauma Fight/Flight /Freeze Numb – unable to act Frontal Cortex Not in Use New Stressor - High Arousal - Excitability Hyper- Vigilant – Poor executive function In the days of dinosaurs this reaction to stress was a survival strategy and led to safety.
Leaves a person in constant fear Freezes Normal developmental sequences and does not allow them to progress. Does not allow person to defend herself Reinforces the inevitability of revictimization
Complex Trauma is different than traditional ideas of PTSD: Child abuse, neglect, domestic violence and attachment trauma happens in the context of family and other intimate relationships. The victim is psychologically and physically immature and dependant on others. His or her development is often seriously compromised by repetitive abuse and inadequate response at the hands of family members or others on whom he or she relies for safety and protection.
The Effects of Trauma on the Individual Depend on:
Strengths Easy going temperament Good problem solving skills Good self- management skills Good interpersonal skills Strong genetics Vulnerabilities Rigid or irritable temperament Unresolved trauma that negatively affected development Developmental Delays Mental illness Vulnerable genetics
StrengthsVulnerabilities No history of trauma Caregivers stress respect for all people and communication No history of assaulting others No history of bullying or being bullied School success History of trauma Chaotic household with domestic violence History of assaulting others Is a bully or is being bullied. Not successful in school
StrengthsVulnerabilities Family and Community does not support crime and drug use Sufficient school supports for youth to be successful Family is supportive and nurturing with good boundaries and appropriate and effective disciplinary practices Family or Community supports crime and drug use Insufficient support for youth to be successful in school. Family is unsupportive and hostile with poor boundaries and inappropriate and effective disciplinary practices
The Effects of Trauma on the Individual Depend on:
Brain still developing throughout childhood. Make a fist with thumb sticking down – Thumb is brain stem, inside of fist is limbic system (emotions), fingers are cerebral cortex or thinking part of brain. Over proliferation of synapses is followed by use it or loose it trimming. Amygdala – emotional regulation – may be smaller and less effective Brain development may be delayed Cortisol may be in over abundance causing a constant state of arousal
Babies, children and adolescents are more vulnerable to the long term effects of trauma when it interferes with the developmental process. The availability of a support system that can help an individual build strengths to manage the trauma and its effects will, in part, determine the severity and length of time effects will last. Permanency of the changes in the brain and neurochemical systems due to the trauma and support systems is more likely in infancy and childhood.
Attachment is the heart to heart, 2 way, emotional connection between the primary caregiver and a child. It is a survival mechanism for the child. It makes the caregiver want to be close (babies’ smell, round heads and big eyes, maternal instinct) The caregiver then, meets the child’s needs. It prompts the child to call for help from the caregiver. It forms the basis of all future relationships for the child. It supports healthy brain and skill development It forms the core of self concept and how others are perceived.
Caregivers build warm, loving, protective relationships with their babies. When a baby is well cared for, she learns to trust her mother and then others and then the outside world. From this she will learn what she needs to know to develop in a healthy manner.
Skill development Interpersonal relatedness Self concept Self management Theory of mind Emotional regulation Development of pro-social values Brain development Family cohesiveness and relationships
1. Secure - Mom is safe base; forms new relationships somewhat cautiously, but can form deep relationships with others after building trust. 2. Inhibited (ICD 10) a. Anxious - I am afraid of (not sure I can trust) mom and other relationships. b. Ambivalent - I think I want a relationship with mom, but then I don’t; I do and I don’t; sometimes I do and sometimes I don’t; Borderline Personality Disorder. I hate you; don’t leave me.
4. Disinhibited (ICD 10) - Disorganized /Dismissive - I am angry with mom; I must defend myself against everyone; No one is safe. Don’t mess with me; I will hurt you.
Baby has needs Baby cries to get Mom’s attention Mom attends to his needs He feels safe, relaxed, & happy He is good, his mom is good, the world is good. arousal satisfaction
Not able to form trusting, reciprocal relationships after age 10 or 11 Severe relationship problems with parents and others Has not developed empathy or compassion after age 10 or 11 Does not have effective coping skills and improved behavioral regulation after age 10 or 11. Is not academically or behaviorally successful in school
Trauma Negatively Affects Moral Development, Kohlberg, 1969 Can be blocked by Trauma
Difficulty regulation affect, impulses, and emotions (risky behaviors) Alterations in attention and consciousness (dissociation, amnesia, depersonalization) Alterations in self perception (chronic guilt & intense shame) Alterations in perception of the perpetrator (incorporating his or her belief systems) Alterations in relationships to others (not able to feel intimate) Somatization and/or medical problems Alteration in systems of meaning (despair of ever recovering or being understood) CPTSD is another way to Understand the Symptoms of Several Other Disorders
87% of those with adult Borderline personality disorder have experienced childhood sexual abuse and 25-71% have been physically abused.
The perception and interpretation of the trauma by the individual and those around her. ◦ Sexual behavior between parents and children is normal ◦ Abuse in the name of discipline
Alcohol abuse (2.5X more likely) Drug abuse (4X) Violence, criminal behavior, and personality disorders, particularly BPD and antisocial PD (4X), Depressive disorders (3.4X).
Assessment of all strengths and vulnerabilities of the individual and her environment ◦ Use CARE2 or CANS as a broad based assessment Assess the developmental level of basic life skills for all people that have experienced childhood trauma and are having difficulty forming relationships or coping with life. ◦ For children and teens, us the Behavioral Objective Sequence (BOS) by Sheldon Braaten, research press.com ◦ For adults with personality disorders, there is no developmental tool. The BOS can be used as a guide. ◦ At the least, use corrective developmental experiences involving trust and immediate gratification may be needed.
Consult with teachers and other service providers when assessing youth and family to get other perspectives.
Attachment/trauma history Awareness of Emotional & Environment Triggers Parenting Attitudes and Competencies ◦ The child needs a loving home with nurturing, affection, routine, structure and boundaries. ◦ There are skills to learn about anger management, reframing the meaning of behaviors, teaching, rather than punishing Parent Mental Health & Stability ◦ Parents must take care of their mental health to do this job effectively Parenting knowledge and style ◦ Parents need to learn about attachment and trauma and skills to help their children
Treatment which addresses all of the above Treat how the trauma affect the persons whole life Treat the effects of trauma on an individual’s development
Build relationships Rapport building Encourage significant others to be included Employ Routines and Rituals Discourage isolation. Respect the person’s background. Focus on the positive. Offer encouragement. Positive reinforcement 4:1 Take pleasure &Laugh together.
Those were important skills (tools) at one time (fighting, sneaking, taking care of your own needs)tool. They probably saved your life, so you want to keep them safe in case you ever need them again. Put them in your tool belt. Have you noticed how they don’t work in every situation? Now it is time to learn new tools and when it is best to use which tools. Are you up for that? Alright! Lets go!
I. Safety and stability II. Skill Building III. Emotional /Mental Health IV. Relationship Building V. Holistic Treatment VI. Acceptance of self VII. Attachment /relationship/trust work VIII. Processing Trauma
In the days of knights, your survival depended on the strength of your sword. Do you know how swords were made?
The parents / significant others (SO’s) create an environment that is safe, nurturing, without violence or aggression, and with good problem solving and anger management where children can heal and learn to cope. The label you place on a child’s /adults behavior guides what you do about it. Parents and SO’smust learn to reframe “bad behavior,” a negative trait, int o “survival behavior,” a strength that is only to be used in certain circumstances. Don’t take away their survival skills, add new ones to the tool belt, so they only need “survival skills in extreme circumstances. Balance love and limits Parents should be proactive rather than reactive.
I know that in the past fighting was a way to survive and you were good at it. You survived. I want you to learn other ways to solve your problems and only use fighting when you life is in danger. Now, why are you and Johnny fighting. What is the problem and how do we solve it? You also have to go tell Mrs. Jones what happened. Someone may need to apologize.
Change the dance, change the child. Child upsets parent (distancing behavior); parent punishes child in angry tone – Go to your room (distancing behavior); child becomes more angry and defiant – throwing toys around(distancing behavior). Poopy stomping story Child attempts to make parent angry (distancing behavior); Parent verbalizes child’s behavior and doesn’t take the bait, but makes a game or joke out of it (connection behavior); parent teaches through natural consequences in a calm tone (connection, communication, teaching behaviors); Child responds by accepting limits, feeling closer to parent and learning something.
By Sheldon Braatan A developmentally sequenced group of skills in 6 Domains. Age is not the determiner of skill level Youth must learn skills in appropriate developmental sequence. Find out at what level they have mastered skills (can do it 90% of the time without prompting)
Adaptive Self-Management Communication Interpersonal Behaviors Task Behaviors Personal Behaviors
Stay for the long haul Stay calm Understand where the behavior is coming from Don’t take it personally Reframe, reframe, reframe Use love, boundaries, and humor Caregivers need respite
Attachment concepts are not understood by the majority of people. To correct this, other professionals must be educated in a very gentle and respectful way As you can see from this workshop, it is complex with voluminous information. Change is not easy Changing beliefs is extremely hard to do. You must be patient and always teaching
Child Family Family Relations Community Systems
Safety and stability are the first priority. Use CPS, if needed. (Ford &Courtois; Herman, 92; Seifert) This is true whether child or adult.
BOS – 1 - Braatan Measure where the child is in each domain Start where the child is. The goal is to build on successful experiences to learn new skills It must be everyday by everyone working with the child. Choose one skill that is almost mastered and one that will take a little work ( 2’s & 3’s). Everyone, including the child works on those 2 skills until mastered. Give the child multiple opportunities to practice the skill and coach him through the appropriate response
Every 8 skills mastered gets a certificate I give kids a binder for certificates. You will see skills mastered without working on them. Give a certificate and lots of praise. Show the child on a chart how he is mastering the skills. Never say this is an elementary school skill. Say, “These are skills that we must all learn to be successful.” This is a reinforcement program. You are building competence and confidence.
◦ CBT – CBT is based on the Cognitive Model of Emotional Response. Cognitive-behavioral therapy is based on the idea that our thoughts cause our feelings and behaviors, not external things, like people, situations, and events. The benefit of this fact is that we can change the way we think to feel / act better even if the situation does not change. (http://www.nacbt.org/whatiscbt.htm)http://www.nacbt.org/whatiscbt.htm ◦ DBT – Marsha Linehan. CBT with validation and dialectics added. (http://www.behavioraltech.com/resources/whatisdbt.cfm) ◦ Positive reinforcement outweighs consequences by 4 to 1 (Seifert) ◦ Relaxation exercises (Seifert) Guided imagery (Seifert) Deep breathing when stressed or upset (Seifert) Do the “three step.” (Seifert)
Someone reading to a child or adult who is sitting near you Playing simple games and laughing Roller skating Walking in the park Building a snowman/snowwoman Swimming Dancing Drumming
Therapist uses self to build relationship with parents and child. (Ford & Courtois; Herman,92) Maximize relationships between child and family. ( Ford & Courtois; Levy & Orlans) Reconnect to self and others. (Herman, 92) Maintain healthy relationships (Levy & Orlans)
Multimodal treatment with CARE2 (Seifert) Whether you're an educator, social worker, mental health professional, juvenile services professional, or a concerned parent, you have the power to provide at- risk children and teenagers with the nurturing, support, and treatment that will give them a second chance at life. You start by identifying the strengths, problems, and stressors of each "at promise" youth. You continue by creating an intervention plan to provide the care, support, and treatment that counteract risk factors and trauma and promote a youth's strengths. You move toward success by executing the intervention plan and by following up. Multi-systemic Therapy (http://mstservices.com/) Multisystemic Therapy (MST) is an intensive family-and community- based treatment program that focuses on the entire world of chronic and violent juvenile offenders — their homes and familes, schools and teachers, neighborhoods and friends. MST works with the toughest offenders. They are adolescents, male and female, between the ages of 12 and 17 who have very long arrest histories.
Experience secure attachment in safe environment over a substantial period of time (Seifert, Becker- Weideman) Reframe the view and working model of the youth, others and the world from “bad”, negative and unsafe to a more realistic view with positives and negatives, self-esteem, and hope. (levy & Orlans)
STORY TELLING – Tell a story, but let the character solve the problem and change the ending to one of competence and confidence. (Seifert) Every child can become involved in story telling First let the child make up a “once upon a time” story. Remind her that stories have characters, a beginning, a middle, and an end, and a problem to solve. For smaller children, I write down or type the story. The child illustrates it and we start a book of stories.
When ready, they can tell some real stories about their lives. (when child is very stable and has some self soothing skills and family is stable.) The therapists guides the story so that in solving the problem the hero/heroin (the child) gains skills to solve the problem and go happily on with his/her life. Children have to move to learn. They also have to experience some level of emotion to rid themselves of old traumas. When the story level is mastered, the child, parents and therapist can act out one of the stories. Let the child direct. The therapist directs behind the scenes. I kept dress up clothes in my office to help with scenes.
Spend a minor amount of time in the past You must change the end of the story. If this happened today, what could you do and who could help you? Let’s act that out. You teach: I am stronger than I was then; I can call for help; My parents now can be trusted to help me. Let child and parents spend time relaxing and sitting quietly with each other after this. They will likely be exhausted. Only use it if you have a supervisor to help you or you have some training in psychodrama.
Visualization Inner child Deep breathing Relaxation exercises Safe place
Reframing behavior Staying Calm Skills – Mindful parenting A Healing Environment Providing a secure base Reducing conflicts
These children adults need relationships that last longer than 2 years. (Examples - Will you be here when I have children of my own? I am leaving for college and I wanted to say thanks. Relationships must be appropriate and loving, with good limits and attachment informed therapy. Sometimes the therapist has to be the attachment figure.
Several Theoretical Bases Any will be effective Attachment therapy is family therapy, even if it is foster parents Cannot ignore this part
What is the Child’s Goal – What is one thing you would like to be different in your life. Let him write down 3. (not have my parents yell at me so much.) If the Parent’s could change one thing, what would it be. Have them write down 3. (Have Trevon go to bed at 9 PM without a fuss.) What is the therapist goals. (Help the family have 1 more happy time during the week.)
Treatment Foster Care, Departments of Social and Juvenile Services, Acute Care and Residential Treatment, Outpatient settings with multiple agency involvement Educate all agencies Coordinate services; meet on regular basis Work as a team Set up an email list for frequent communication
Complex PTSD, Developmental Trauma Disorder, and Disrupted Attachment Patterns or RAD all have strong similarities (May be different forms of same disorder) leading to substance abuse, personality disorders,criminal behavior, and violence in adulthood when not effectively treated. Trauma negatively affects child development in many areas The quality of early attachment bonds forms the basis of all future relationships for the child. The balance between healthy and unhealthy biology, environment and experiences will determine the health of development. In families, all members interact with and affect each other in continuing patterns that can be understood as a dance. Change the pattern of the dance.
Assess youth, parents, family systems, community systems Be thorough, take a holistic view Developmental assessment is essential Background information on all is essential Assessing parents mental health is essential
I. Safety and stability (Ford &Courtois; Herman, 92; Seifert) II. Skill Building (Braatan, seifert, Linehan, Ford & Courtois, Levy & Orlans; Van der Kolk) III. Emotional Health (Levy & Orlans) IV. Relationship Building (Ford & Courtois; Seifert; Levy & Orlans; Herman) V. Holistic/ Multi-dimensional Treatment (Seifert) VI. Acceptance of self (Herman; Levy & Orlans) VII. Attachment work (Levy & Orlans) VIII. Processing Trauma (Seifert; Courtois & Ford; Herman) IX. Coordination of Agencies