Presentation on theme: "Ideas for Multigenerational Holiday Celebrations Presented by Karen LoBracco & Patricia Infante."— Presentation transcript:
Ideas for Multigenerational Holiday Celebrations Presented by Karen LoBracco & Patricia Infante
Webinar Basics Top Menu Bar: Emoticons Message Box Right side of screen: Attendees Message Box Using the Mute Button
Lighting Our Virtual Chalice We light the flame of knowledge; May understanding be with us. We light the flame of love; May caring be among us. We light the flame of holiness; May the unifying spirit be within us. ~Edwin Lynn
Introductions Please share (briefly) your name The location of your congregation and its approximate size your current role
Overview What is Multigenerational holiday worship and programming? Barriers to multigenerational worship and programming Imagining Multigenerational Social Justice Imagining Multigenerational Religious Education
Overview Imagining Multigenerational Fellowship Events Imagining Multigenerational Worship The question of Holiday Pageants Resources
Definitions Intergenerational: two or more age groups. Multigenerational: more than three generations; implies that “all ages” are present.
Why do Multigenerational? Offer a sense of wholeness in a culture based in difference and division. Traditions and rituals connect the years and the generations. Create memories and a sense of belonging. See beyond to our common values.
Patterns of Inter/Multigenerational Experiences In-common experiences: Together looking at the same thing. Parallel learning In age segregated groups, looking at the same topic. Contributive occasions Coming together to build something whole out of pieces contributed by all ages. Interactive sharing Intentional sharing between ages.
Barriers to Multigenerational Events Status quo: “we’ve never done it that way or we’ve always done it that way.” Expectations run high during the holidays leaving less room to “experiment.” Worship leaders may not feel equipped to lead worship that reaches different ages and different learning styles. Generations have a different world view and expect different things from “church.”
Response to Barriers We live in a changing world and status quo may mean we are trading “tradition” for relevancy. We may be missing out on possibilities to grow the spirit of the congregation. We can learn from the successful experiences of our neighbors. Be willing to take a risk.
Fall/Winter Opportunities for Multigenerational Practice Thanksgiving Solstice Christmas Hanukkah Kwanzaa New Year’s Martin Luther King Day Others?
Imagine: Multigenerational Social Justice Collections: Food, Mittens, Socks, Toys, Adopt a Family Guest at Your Table, Shared Plate, Heifer Community Outreach: Nursing homes, prisons, interfaith events Shared Stewardship Experiences: Greens, plant sale, sell lunch in support of a chosen cause.
Imagine: Multigenerational Religious Education Re-imagine low attendance Sundays Pageant prep, outreach projects One room schoolhouse Be flexible during holidays Families are stressed, traveling out of town, heightened emotional responses. Share a seasonal story among all ages
Imagine: Multigenerational Fellowship Events Tree trimming Solstice events, Santa Lucia Holiday dinners & food related events: Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas Craft/Gift-Making events. Secret Santa, Shopping babysitters Carol Sing Story telling
Imagine: Multigenerational Worship Consider multiple learning styles: this applies to adults as well as children. Invite worship associates of different ages. Invite musicians of different ages. More music, movement, shorter homily Multigenerational choir, band, bell choir. Consider the needs of those for whom the holidays are not as joyful.
The Key to Inviting and Including All Generations Everything that makes your worship service more accessible to children makes the service more accessible to adults. From Worship That Works by Wayne Arnason & Kathleen Rolenz
Pageants: To do or not to do? The role of tradition: who is the pageant for? Scripted v. simple story telling Performance v. worship Alternatives to a pageant
Web Resources Creating Effective Intergenerational Worship Services - http://www.uuintergenerational.org – Philosophy, tips plus downloadable worship services REACH and other UUA lists – subscription information at http://www.uua.org/socialmedia/emaillists/index.shtml http://www.uua.org/socialmedia/emaillists/index.shtml Worship Web – Multigenerational http://www.uua.org/spirituallife/worshipweb/multigener ational/index.shtml http://www.uua.org/spirituallife/worshipweb/multigener ational/index.shtml Blog of Kimberly Paquette, Northern New England Multigenerational Ministry Director - http://www.multigenministry.wordpress.com/ http://www.multigenministry.wordpress.com/ Christmas Pageant in a Box - http://uumetrony.org/services/re%20docs/firstxmas.doc http://uumetrony.org/services/re%20docs/firstxmas.doc
Print Resources Story, Song and Spirit : Fun and Creative Worship Services for All Ages by Erika Hewitt (UUA) Come Into the Circle : Worshiping with Children by Michelle Richards (UUA) When Youth Lead : A Guide to Intergenerational Social Justice Ministry by Jill Schwendeman (UUA) sUUper plays 2 for holidays and special days by Richard Kimball (Green Timber Publications, firstname.lastname@example.org) email@example.com You Can Preach to the Kids Too! : Designing Sermons for Adults And Children by Carolyn Brown (Abingdon) Would You Like to Hold the Baby and Spirit of the Christmas Tree by Joyce Poley (firstname.lastname@example.org)email@example.com
Upcoming CERG Webinars Social Media 101 by Beth Casebolt ~ November 16, 2010, 7 pm. Youth Ministry 102 - by Andrew Mertz, JPD Director for Youth and Young Adult Programs ~ November 17, 2010, 7:30 pm. Liberal Religious Educator Association Fall Conference Discussion Forum – by Patricia Infante, CERG Faith Development Consultant ~ November 18, 2010, 10 am. Youth Ministry 102 - by Andrew Mertz, JPD Director for Youth and Young Adult Programs ~ December 15, 2010, 7:30 pm. The Safe Congregations Series - Beginning in January, a six webinar series on various aspects of safety in our congregations will be offered. The series will feature basic information and some more advanced information on several different aspects of facility safety, child and youth safety, creating good boundaries, right relations, crisis management and more. Check www.cerguua.org for registration information.www.cerguua.org Additional topics and dates are added on an ongoing basis.
Closing Words Do all the good you can, In all the ways you can, To all the people you can, At all the times you can, As long as you can. ~R. Monckton Milnes