Presentation on theme: "DATING violence AMONG SEXUAL MINORITY YOUTH"— Presentation transcript:
1 DATING violence AMONG SEXUAL MINORITY YOUTH Dr. Tameka L. GillumUniversity of Massachusetts Amherst
2 Talk ObjectivesDefine intimate partner violence (IPV) and dating violenceReview the health consequences of IPV and dating violenceVoices of queer youthMental health consequencesConclusions
3 Intimate Partner Violence (IPV)/Dating Violence (DV) IPV – abuse that occurs between two people in a close relationship (current or former spouses and dating partners) that may be physical, sexual, threats, or emotional (CDC, 2012)DV – a form of IPV (CDC, 2012) generally refers to teens and young adultsSexual minority youth – youth who self identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning
4 IPV PrevalenceLifetime prevalence of IPV among adults generally 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men (Black and colleagues, 2010)Same-sex IPV rates are generally found to be comparable to rates between heterosexual couples (Renner & Whitney, 2010)
5 Victims of IPV Experience Increased… injurychronic paingastrointestinal problemsgynecological problemssexually-transmitted diseases (including HIV/AIDS)mortalitydisabilityreproductive disordersirritable bowel syndromepoor pregnancy outcomessubstance abuse problemsdepressionpost-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)heart and circulatory conditionsworse overall general health
6 American Youth & Dating Violence Prevalence high among American youthYouth Risk Behavior Survey (YRBS) estimate prevalence rates of victimization at approximately 10% (Eaton et al., 2006; Eaton et al, 2007; Howard et al., 2007)Community-based assessments have found prevalence rates for perpetration and victimization as high as 18-67% (Rothman et al., 2010; West & Rose, 2000)
7 Sexual Minority Youth & Dating Violence Massachusetts YRBS (35% vs. 8%) (Mass Department of Education, 2006)National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (NLSAH), nearly 25% (Halpern and colleagues, 2004)NYC YRBS, youth who identified as having both same and opposite sex partners were more likely to have experienced past year dating violence and forced sex that those reporting only opposite sex partners (Pathela & Schillinger, 2010)
8 Sexual Minority Youth & Dating Violence Results of an community-based assessment of sexual minority youth, aged 13 – 22 indicated that:45% of the gay male youth57% of bisexual male youth44% of lesbian youth, and38% of bisexual female youthsurveyed had experienced such abuse (Freedner et al, 2002)
9 Dating Violence Has Been Linked To… suicidal ideologyincreased depressionpoor educational outcomesemotional distressfeelings of hopelessnesssubstance abuse problemseating disorderssleep disturbancessexually transmitted infectionsunplanned pregnanciesAdverse mental and physical health outcomes
10 Teen dating violence has been linked with… Early sexual activityIncreased rates of unprotected sex/inconsistent condom useIncreased rates of alcohol & drug useGreater number of lifetime sexual partnersIncreased risk of victimization during young adulthoodSignificant risk behaviors
11 Sexual Minority Youth & Dating Violence These problems are compounded in populations already at increased risk for negative mental and physical health outcomes as a result of hate crimes and the social stigma borne of societal homophobia (Follins, 2011; Marrow, 2004; Meyer, 2003)Such traumas are even worse for LGBTQ persons of color, who too often face the assaults and insults of racism as well (Carballo-Dieguez et al., 2005; Follins, 2011; Miller, 2007; Miller, 2011; Ryan, et al., 2009; Sandfort, Melendez, & Diaz, 2007)
12 Sexual Minority Youth & Dating Violence Efforts to assess dating violence among this population have been limited but reveal sexual minority youth at increased risk (Dank et al., 2013; Freedner et al., 2002; Gillum & DiFulvio, 2014; Halpern et al., 2004; Mass Department of Education, 2006; Pathela & Schillinger, 2010)Though these studies suggest prevalence rates, little is known about the nature and manifestation of such violence among this populationIncreased risk compared to their heterosexual counterparts
13 ObjectivesTo explore the issue of dating violence (past and current) in a sample of college aged sexual minority youthTo assess whether experiences of dating violence (DV) are associated with poor mental and/or physical health outcomes among this populationTo determine whether experiences of dating violence as an adolescent are correlated with experiences of DV as a college student among this population
14 ObjectivesTo explore the issue of dating violence (past and current) in a sample of college aged sexual minority youthTo assess whether experiences of dating violence (DV) are associated with poor mental and/or physical health outcomes among this populationTo determine whether experiences of dating violence as an adolescent are correlated with experiences of DV as a college student among this population
16 Sample48% single38% dating/in a relationship with a member of the same gender12% dating/in a relationship with a member of the opposite gender (including trans)2% in a relationship with both
17 Focus Group Sample 18 participants (2 groups: 1 female, 1 male) 19-23 years, mean = 2011 female, 7 male89% White, 11% African American17% lesbian, 33% gay, 22% bisexual, 17% questioning, (questioning, queer, pansexual, non-orientation conforming)Mirrored the overall sample except for no trans in focus group, larger sample more racially/ethnically diverse overall but focus group had more AA (both in female group), greater diversity in sexual orientation self-identification in focus group sample
18 Perceived Same-Sex DV Prevalence “I think there’s more potential for it to happen because you’re at the same physical level and so that if a girl hits a guy that will be the end of it and like it will be resolved, but if a girl hits a girl, you may be going at it for a while. Like you’re going to hit her right back…Or if a guy hits you, you might be afraid to hit him back and you might get out of the situation, but it can just snowball into something so physically after. Like the first punch is thrown so you’re just like you know what, you’re the same size and I’m going to kick your ass.” (female participant)
19 Perceived Same-Sex DV Prevalence “I just think it is more common that gay men could be, or not just necessarily gay men but like homosexual couples could be in more violent situations than heterosexual. There’s so much at stake with coming out and keeping a lot of stuff in.” (male participant)
22 Reasons for Dating Violence Four main themes emerged:HomophobiaSocietalInternalizedNegotiating socially prescribed gender rolesAssumed female connectionOther relationship issues
23 Societal Homophobia“And it’s seen as more of a problem, I think the man hits his wife then if two fags are beating each other or two dykes are going at it, whatever, who cares. Crazy gays. If a man beats his wife, it’s like, ‘whoa abuse.’” (female participant) “I didn’t even realize how bad the abuse was until I was out of the relationship and I looked back on it and I’m like “oh my god, did I really let someone talk to me like that?” (female participant)Silence and invisibility
24 Societal Homophobia“…I’ve heard of people saying I’m afraid to go to the police or the authorities or whoever’s in charge because they won’t be sympathetic because it’s a gay relationship or they won’t understand, or they’ll ridicule me or they feel this is something that I need to keep under wraps because [even if] the person is out, they might not want that kind of scrutiny.” (male participant)
25 Societal Homophobia“… it’s not made visible…it [dating violence] happens so often because it’s not really culturally okay yet to be gay…” (female participant) “[In] a closeted relationship, the prospect of fear really makes it even worse…It’s a fear of that parents will find out, that they’ll be moved out of the house, that they’ll be cut off from financial funding, all of these issues go together.” (female participant)Because the youth may not be “out” to family and friends, they say that they may endure abuse because reporting it may result in having to tell their parents about their relationship. Telling parents may result in being cut off financially, being kicked out of the home, or a disconnection from family members.
26 Societal Homophobia“…until the government allows gay people to serve openly in the military, until gay people are allowed to marry in the United States, you’re never going to be considered equal and that goes all the way down to physical violence. Your physically violent relationship is not the equal of a heterosexual physically violent relationship.” (male participant)
27 Internalized Homophobia “I think [dating violence] has lots to do with the internalization of how you feel about being in that relationship and especially like how comfortable you are with your own gender, your own body, and I think people can have a lot of resentment towards themselves, towards their bodies, and towards their identities and especially like for me, being in a lot of straight relationships…in [those] relationships, any violence that I exhibited towards the guy has always been my resentment towards him for not being able to express like a huge part of myself, which is like having feelings for girls. There’s always having feelings for girls and the part of me that can’t express [that] and that’s definitely led to violence in [those relationships]. Like not knowing what you think or not always being okay with the relationship that you’re having.” (female participant)Being unable to express one’s identity—whether in a heterosexual or same sex relationship may also lead to expressions of violence.
28 Internalized Homophobia “I think dealing with pressures because I don’t think one person in a relationship is comfortable and the other person is not can create a lot of issues. I see that a lot.” (female participant)“Internalized homophobia” may lead to feeling the need to hide or deny one’s sexual orientation in an attempt to fit into a heterosexual norm. Within this context, individuals continually negotiate the degree to which they are “out” in the world. Being in a same sex relationship means considering a partner’s “out” status and the affect this status may have on you. Differences here may create tensions within couples.
29 Internalized Homophobia “She was like, “I want to wear ties.” I was looking at her like, “I’m not going outside with you wearing ties.”…For the longest time I couldn’t understand, I was so angry with her and it was just because I’m bisexual and already I don’t want to be seen as other. I’m already other, like in the community, period…but, I have the pleasure of being able to not…have my gayness be so [obvious]. You just don’t see it. It doesn’t come across at all I guess and I was comfortable with that, but if I’m walking down the street with her and she has a tie on and we’re walking together…it just turned into a very disgusting argument, very disgusting time. ” (female participant)Being in a same sex relationship may reinforce a status as “other” such that these youth often feel marginalized, disconnected, and even targeted. Resisting this otherness can be so important as to lead to abusive or violent behavior. One woman described her anger that emerged as her girlfriend expressed an interest in dressing in more stereotypical male ways. She feared that being seen with a more masculine partner would expose her as “other.”
30 Negotiating socially prescribed gender roles “I think a lot of people think that you can’t be dominant without being either verbally abusive or like readily make it known that you’re the dominant one in the relationship between two girls.” (female participant)Participants, both male and female, described a process of negotiating socially prescribed gender roles as a reason for conflict, sometimes contributing to violence in same-sex partnerships. This included gender role or expression conflicts, changes in or fluidity of gender roles, need for one partner to assert a dominant role and the association between being dominant and abusive. Related to this, some participants attributed violence to being the means by which one partner asserts his or her dominant role in the relationship to fit gender stereotypes.
31 Negotiating socially prescribed gender roles “…my girlfriend originally identified as gender queer. So like for the first year or so we were together, we’re both sort of like femmy or whatever and all of a sudden, she’s like presenting really masculine and she passes as a guy all the time and I like just got okay, like completely with I’m with a woman, ya da ya da, the whole gay thing and like now when people see me they’re like oh straight, heterosexual and like I’m trying to deal with being perceived that way again because I don’t want to pretend or be in a closet or be viewed that way. So it’s sort of hard to deal with that.” (female participant)Fluidity of gender expression
32 Assumed Female Connection “I was going to say as far as the communication piece, how it can manifest itself, I’m talking about girls. She should be able to understand me. We both have the same periods. We both get moody the same way. Why don’t you understand? What the fuck is wrong with you? Why don’t you get it, you know what I mean and I’m going to be angry at her and not sensitive. If I was dating a man, it’s like he’s just not going to get it, I’m just going to let this go and go want to talk to my home girls.”Females asserted the idea that between two females there is an assumption of a shared connection with which comes the expectation that they should automatically understand each other, limiting the need for communication or the need to explain themselves to one another. The female participants expressed that when this does not occur within the relationship, tensions develop which sometimes lead to abuse.
33 Assumed Female Connection “…there’s kind of like that female connection what you [referring to another participant] were talking about and connection you assume leads to a shared understanding and doesn’t necessarily…”“…I mean same sex couples…you have to deal with …like expecting the other person to understand you because they’re the same gender.”
34 Other Relationship Issues “Some people just aren’t good together. So sometimes the reason for the violence is because they push each other’s buttons” (male participant)“Plus you have double the jealousy if you’re dating a bisexual girl. They’re always looking at dudes and girls like that jealousy level is just like up there.” (female participant)Participants, however, also articulated that these factors may manifest themselves differently and/or more intensely in same-sex relationships than they do in heterosexual dating relationships.
35 Mental Health Consequences 50% met or exceeded the criteria score for depression40% met or exceeded the criteria score for PTSDCurrent psychological victimization related to depression and PTSDCurrent psychological perpetration related to PTSDCurrent physical perpetration related to depression and PTSD
36 ConclusionsPrevalence of dating violence is disturbingly high among this population (both adolescent and current)Such violence is adversely related to physical and mental health outcomes (particularly detrimental to mental health)Prevention/intervention efforts are needed which target this population
37 ConclusionsUnique factors which contribute to violence in same-sex dating relationships among youth.Assumed female connection may impeded healthy communication between female partnersYoung LBQ females in need of healthy role models and models of healthy same-sex relationships
38 ImplicationsNeed interventions which facilitate healthy relationships and reduce dating violence among this populationCommunity-based organizations that work with sexual minority youth should include dating violence educationCommunity-based IPV and sexual assault agencies and state coalitions need to address the needs of sexual minorities
39 ImplicationsEducation. Efforts must be made to educate youth about DV and the multiple ways in which abuse can occur in relationships, including the reality of such violence in same-sex dating relationships. Such efforts must begin early (middle school)Contextual Factors. Address those factors that contribute to the spread of IPV/DV. This includes community passivity, lack of effective prevention efforts, lack of early education, homophobia, structural inequalities and community violence
40 Implications Comprehensive Interventions Inclusion of mental & sexual health in prevention agendasaddressing heterosexism and homophobiaeducation on healthy relationshipsacknowledgement of community-level factors which influence DVAcknowledge and validate the reality of same-sex dating among adolescents
41 Components of Culturally Specific Interventions Designed for and developed in collaboration with target populationUses language familiar to target populationUses channels of dissemination which will successfully reach target populationRepresentative staffConducted in environment comfortable for participantsIncorporates cultural values, norms, expectations and attitudes of target group into the intervention
42 How Interventions/Services May Be Culturally Competent Use channels of dissemination which will successfully reach the target communityHire qualified staff that are representative of the target communityCreate a welcoming environment for target community within the agencyIncorporate cultural values, norms, expectations and attitudes of the target community within the interventionIncorporate elements of a culturally specific curriculum
43 Thank you for your time and attention Gillum, T. L. & DiFulvio, G. T. (2014). Examining dating violence and its mental health consequences among sexual minority youth. In D. Peterson & V. R. Panfil (eds.), Handbook of LGBT Communities, Crime and Justice (pp ). New York, NY: SpringerGillum, T. L. & DiFulvio, G. (2012). “There’s so much at stake”: Sexual minority youth discuss dating violence. Violence Against Women, 18(7),