Presentation on theme: "Factors Associated With Parent/Caregiver Child Abuse"— Presentation transcript:
1Factors Associated With Parent/Caregiver Child Abuse Tanisha Grimes, PhD, MPHProject Director, GA Child Traumatic Stress InitiativeThe Stephanie V. Blank Center for Safe and Healthy Children,A Service of Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta at Scottish Rite
2Why do parents/caregivers abuse children? No one answer, myriad of reasons—but some commonalitiesGoing to share some information from different perspectives including the general population, research/child welfare professionals, and finally perpetrators themselves.
3“Why do you think parents abuse their children?” “Environmental Stress”“Drugs, PTSD and low self-esteem”“Domestic violence, history of abuse”“Unrealistic age-appropriate expectations”“Conflict with other parent”“Stress over finances, low-income”“Poor coping skills, dealing with anger”
4Breaking the Cycle“I am a parent and a survivor of childhood abuse. That type of behavior is learned. When that is the only way you know how to solve a problem, that is what you do, you live what you learn. I have tried VERY hard to break the cycle. I can honestly say I have never abused my children. It takes learning new methods of coping and finding ways to deal with your anger.”
5Factors Associated With Child Maltreatment Caregiver FactorsFamily FactorsChild Development FactorsEnvironmental FactorsCultural FactorsDiscuss 5 domains and briefly describe different factors under each one domain.Administration for Children and Families, 2003
6Parent/Caregiver Factors Psychological Well-beingHistory of abuseSubstance abuseKnowledge of childdevelopmentPsychological well-being: low-self-esteem, depression, anxiety, belief that things are beyond how control-increases chances of becoming frustrated and quick to angerAttitudes and knowledge: Beliefs about child development-inappropriate punishment (i.e. hitting a 1-year old for not using the toilet)—can lead to punishment and frustration
7Family Factors Family structure Marital Conflict Domestic Violence StressParent-child interactionFamily structure: below poverty level-lead to stress, neglectful families may have more children in a householdSingle-parent households more likely to be abused; physical and sexual abuseDomestic violence: may witness or experience physical violence, also be neglected because parent has own fearsStress: Inability to cope with situation—lead to more aggravation, life events lead to hostility, depression, anxietyParent-child interaction: Less affectionate, playful, less rewarding of positive behaviors, harsher discipline
8Child Development Factors AgeDisabilitiesChild TemperamentAge: younger children with other factors (stress, lack child development may more likely have shaken baby syndrome, failure to thrive); teens may be at greater risk of sexual abuseDisabilities: May be more stressful, child not recognize is abuse or ability to speak upTemperament: Behavior problems, parental perception, poor coping, ability to emphasize, or difficulty controlling emotions
9Environmental Factors Poverty and UnemploymentSocial Isolation and Social SupportViolent Communities
10Cultural FactorsAbuse v/s DisciplineAccepted cultural practicesReligious beliefs
12A Father, Physical Abuser “My father was the boss in the house and this is how I was taught things should be.”Physical Abuse-Male parent
13A Father, Sexual Abuser“I’m worried about myself because a lot of people say I did it because I was abused, I did it because I was angry, and I wanted to take it out on them sexually. I did it because of this. I did it because of that. I don't understand that. I just felt like I just wanted to sexualize them. By sexualize I mean just get your rocks off or whatever in a different way, a sexual high.”-Male sexual perpetrator of his children from 6 months to 7 years old. Abused, not getting the help that they need.
14A Father, Sexual Abuser“I need a fix because I was feeling crappy. Maybe I didn’t get the contract I bid for, or my wife and I had a fight about something where I’d rather go spend some time by myself but I can’t…My relationship with my wife was so difficult and so complicated and arguments and the whole deal. How can I tell my wife I want to be alone?”Feeling bad, taking it out on the kid
15A Mother, Physical Abuser “Nothing else I do works, he doesn’t listen, I tried other forms of discipline. I get so angry because nothing works.”
16A Father, Sexual Abuser“The only time I really felt good was when I was acting out sexually. It was safe for me. It was like everything around me was so dark. I wasn’t getting any good feelings from anywhere. I had convinced myself that I didn’t deserve them. No one really knows me. They just know the image. They didn’t love me. They loved the façade. I just felt miserable.”
17What were some reoccurring words, phrases or themes that you heard? What did you hear that illustrated some of the domains that we learned about?
18Reoccurring Words and Phrases “I was taught”“I was abused”“I was angry”“I was feeling crappy”“I had a fight”“My relationship was complicated”“He doesn’t listen”“The only time I really felt good”“I was taught”; “I was abused”: cycle of abuse“I was angry” : coping skills“I was feeling crappy”: Coping with stressors of life; no social support“I had a fight, My relationship was complicated”: Marital conflict“He doesn’t listen”: Perceived child temperament“The only time I really felt good”: Love self-esteem
19In Their Own VoiceFrustrated, wouldn’t stop crying.2:48
20Summary No one reason why abuse occurs Myriad of overlapping factors Many parents/caregivers do not believe they are abusing their childrenFocus on the different factors to help parents
21Questions?Tanisha Grimes, PhD, MPH Project Director