7Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity Elmer Letterman
8Elizabeth Kúbler-Ross, B. 1926 “I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices, and we have to accept the consequences of every deed, word, and thought throughout our lifetime.”Elizabeth Kúbler-Ross, B. 1926
9Reactive Language There’s nothing I can do. That’s just the way I am. He makes me so mad.They won’t allow that.I have to do that.I can’t.I must.I should.If only.
10Proactive Language Let’s look at our alternatives. I can choose a different approach.I control my own feelings.I can create an effective presentation.I will choose an appropriate response.I choose.I prefer.I will.
1110 Habits of Highly Effective People Habit 2: They set goals and put thought into action.
36Work vs. Play20%WorkedHoursLeisure Time32%19752000
37Rules for Guaranteed Stress Generation Be a perfectionist – never compromiseHarbour inflexible idealism.Never delegate.Be sure to please everyoneAlways say “YES”.Never take time for yourself.Motto: “Everyone else comes first”.Get emotionally involved in everything you do.Never make mistakes.Do not rest until you are done!
38Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff - It’s All Small Stuff.
40Before I came here I was confused about this subject Before I came here I was confused about this subject. Having listened to your presentation,I am still confused but at a higher level.Enrico FermeNobel Prize Laureate
41Personal Mission Statement: “I want to be the kind of person my dog already thinks I am.”