4.  “We believe that our Lord has called us as members of the community to join our lives together so that we can enter more deeply into the meaning of our baptismal identity.”

5.  “We believe that he has called us to do this by working together in developing an environment of committed personal relationships in which the life given to us in Christ is taught, supported, honored and held up as the true meaning and fulfillment of our lives”

6.  I am a sojourner  Support and encouragement  An outside perspective

7.  Brotherly and sisterly love  Faithfulness to meetings  Focus on growth  Living in the light  Compassion

8.  Graciously  Listen – don't think of response  Focus on the person, not the problem  Let them process - pause is okay  Offer support – affirm the relationship  How can I help? Are you open to feedback?  If they invite you to pray for them – do it now

9.  Brotherly and sisterly love  Faithfulness to meetings  Focus on growth  Living in the light  Compassion  Confidentiality  Accountability