2 「今天資訊發達，為甚麼要 參加教會？」 “Why do we come to church if we can get fed online
3 弗4:11-16祂所賜的，有使徒，有先知，有傳福 音的，有牧師和教師，為要成全聖徒， 各盡其職，建立基督的身體，11 So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, 12 to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up
5 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.14 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming.
7 15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. 16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.
13 我們怎樣幫助别人成長？How do we contribute to people’s growth?間接方面 Indirectly:在團契中將人帶到神面前與祂聯繫Connect people with God in fellowship鼓勵人藉著各樣屬靈操練常與神聯繫Encourage people to connect with God through spiritual disciplines
14 為别人的成長常常祷告Pray for their growth我們負責常與神聯繫，神負責改造我們， 使我們更成熟“We do the connecting, God will the work of perfecting.”
15 直接方面Directly: 委身團契/小组 Commit to connect 與喜樂的人同樂，與哀哭的人同苦 Rejoice and mourn together 彼此擔當重擔 Carry each other’s burdens
16 互相認罪彼此代求Confess and pray together彼此鼓勵Encourage each other各人以恩赐彼此服事Serve each other with the gifts received
17 常有的攔阻 Possible hindrances: 太忙碌 Busyness 避免與人深交 Avoid intimate relationship 只委身教會聚會與活動 Committed to church meetings and activities but not relationship 只有付出 Always on the giving end
18 「有神够了」的屬靈觀“ Only God and I” style spirituality認識神只重知識不重關係Knowing God is about knowledge not relationship與神與人的關係皆以自我為中心Self-centered, self-serving relationship