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I AM HURTING SO BAD … I CANNOT GO ON ANYMORE … ? (10.2.13) YES WE ALL HAVE OUR DIFFERENT HURTS … YOU THINK YOUR HURT IS BIG ? THEN SOMEONE ELSE TELLS YOU.

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1 I AM HURTING SO BAD … I CANNOT GO ON ANYMORE … ? (10.2.13) YES WE ALL HAVE OUR DIFFERENT HURTS … YOU THINK YOUR HURT IS BIG ? THEN SOMEONE ELSE TELLS YOU A STORY, THAT IS EVEN MORE WORSE THAN YOURS … THE THING ABOUT HURT IS THAT YOU MUST KNOW THAT IT WILL EVENTUALLY STOP … TAKE A SORE … PUT THE RIGHT OINTMENT ON IT AND WITH TIME IT WILL BE HEALED … DIFFERENT BODY ALEMENTS ALL NEEDS DIFFERENT MEDICINES…

2 PAIN OF THE HEART … WHAT IS THE MAIN CAUSE OF PAIN OF THE HEART IS … ? LOVE YOU LOVED … THEN THEY DID NOT LOVE YOU ANYMORE … THERE ARE OFCOURSE DIFFERENT REASONS WHY THEY DONT LUV YOU ANYMORE … BUT YOU ARE TOO PROUD TO LET US KNOW THE REAL TRUTH … IF WE KNEW YOUR OBSESSION WE WILL NOT FEEL SORRY FOR YOU ANYMORE … AND WE WILL NOT HELP TO WIN YOUR LOVE BACK … YOU WANT US ALSO TO FEEL YOUR PAIN, AND YOUR HATRED FOR HIM OR HER THAT LEFT YOU … SO YOU KEEP UP THIS LOVE SICK – BULLSHIT … YOU MESSED UP, SO CLEAN YOUR ACT, AND SHOW YOUR SOFTSIDE … LIKE A DELECTABLE SOFTSERVE READY FOR ITS FIRST LICK … YEH YEH

3 LOVE CANNOT BE USED LIKE A WEAPON … OH SO YOU LOVE ME ? SO NOW YOU MUST DO AS I SAY … OR … YOU ARE NOW MY POSESSION BECAUSE YOU LOVE ME … OR I LOVE YOU ! SO I AM GOING TO HURT YOU WHEN YOU TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE … ? I ONCE HAD TO MAKE A CHOICE, SOMEONE ASKED ME FOR A RELATIONSHIP, BUT I HAD TO WAIT FOR TWO YEARS BEFORE WE COULD BE TOGETHER … I JUST TOLD THE PERSON TO FINISH THEIR BUSINESS AND I WILL WAIT … WE SHOULD NOT PUT PRESSURE ON THE ONE WE LOVE … THE LOVE MUST BE NATURAL … WILLING … AND TIMING IS ALSO VERY IMPORTANT … TO MAKE TIME FOR ONE ANOTHER IS TOP PRIORITY …

4 WE MAKE BIG MISTAKES IS RELATIONSHIPS … WE MOST OF THE TIME THINKS WITH OUR PENIS OR VAGINA …OR ASS NOWADAYS … THEN WE HAVE THE WRONG PERSON …THAT WE THINK WE LOVE … THE BIBLE SAYS : LOVE IS PATIENT, KIND … SO THE LOVE WE HAVE FOR EACH OTHER ONLY LASTS A FEW YEARS, THEN WE GROW IMPATIENT … LOVE DOES SEEK THINGS FOR ITSELF : OH THAT IS WHAT I WANT, IT DOES NOT MATTER MY PARTNERS NEEDS NOR WANTS … THIS OFTEN HAPPENS WHEN WE WANT TO IMPRESS OTHER PEOPLE AT THE EXPENSE OF OUR OWN AT HOME … ARE WE THERE YET … ?

5 WE HAVE THE WRONG JOBS … WE ARE ACTUALLY VERY GOOD RECORD – KEEPERS … WE ESPECIALLY LIKE TO KEEP RECORD OF ALL THE WRONG OTHERS HAVE DONE … OH IT FEELS SO GOOD INSIDE WHEN WE HEAR A NASTY STORY OF BETRAYAL OF OUR NEIGHBOURS … THEN WE FEEL IN CONTROL, BECAUSE WE WILL NEVER DO SUCH A THING … WE SHOULD JUST THEN AND THERE PRAY FOR THOSE … INSTEAD OF JUDGING … OH AND WHEN PEOPLE GET DE - SAUSAGED THEN ALL KNOW EVERYTHING … AND EVERYONE SAW IT COMING … OH AND WHEN PEOPLE GET DE - SAUSAGED THEN ALL KNOW EVERYTHING … AND EVERYONE SAW IT COMING … I HAVE BEEN DE – SAUSAGED … IT IS ONE OF THE WORST THINGS THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE … (DIVORSE)

6 YOU BUILT UP FEELINGS FOR YEARS … AND NOW YOU MUST PRETEND YOU HAVE NEVER LOVED THIS PERSON … AND SOME FRIENDS AND FAMILY MAKES IT WORSE TO TRY TO PUT YOU BACK TOGETHER AGAIN … OR SOME JUST WANT TO TALK ABOUT THIS PERSON WHILE YOU ARE IN PAIN … IT FEELS AS IF YOU HAVE LOST SOMEONE TO DEATH … AND YOU HAVE CRIED OUT YOUR HEART, ONLY TO SEE THERE IS THIS PERSON STILL … IT FEELS ASIF SOMETHING DIES WITHIN YOU … YOU CANNOT SLEEP FOR MANY MONTHS … SOME PEOPLE GO OUT TO PARTIES, BUT THEY JUST SIT HERE AND SOB … OTHERS DRINK A LOT … I STUDIED AND IMPROVED MY QUALIFICATIONS … AT NIGHT I WOULD STUDY TILL EARLY IN THE MORNING … I HATED TO SLEEP, BECAUSE THEN I WOULD THINK ABOUT A LOT OF OLD THINGS … AND SLEEPING PILLS ONLY LAST FOR 5 HOURS … THEN BACK TO REALITY …

7 SOME SAY YOU SHOULD GO OUT AND DANCE … OR TAKE PART IN A RACE OR TAKE PART IN SOMETHING WORTHWHILE … OR TO HELP THE POOR OR SOMETHING … I ALSO DID ALL THAT … BUT YOU KNOW THAT I LEARNED A LOT ABOUT MYSELF … WHEN IT ALL BECOMES SILENT … WHEN EVERYBODY LEAVES …THEN YOU ARE ALL ALONE … YOU AND ALL YOUR PROBLEMS … YOU CAN OFCOURSE ALSO FEEL ALL ALONE EVEN IF YOU ARE MARRIED, AND WITH A LOT OF CHILDREN … I HAVE FOUND PRAYER TO BE A GREAT HELP … I POURED EVERYTHING OUT TO THE LORD … I CRIED … AND WAS ANGRY AT HIM … FOR WHY DID HE LET THIS BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO ME … DID HE NOT CARE ? … I HATED THE DAY I WAS BORN … IN THE BIBLE JOB WAS ALSO ANGRY, AND WISHED HE WAS NOT BORN … AND THEN AFTER THE PRAYER … THE BIG SILENCE … DID GOD RECEIVE MY MESSAGE … IS HE AWAKE ? … I HAVE SAID SO MANY THINGS …. DID I OFFEND GOD ? …

8 IN THE MORNING I WOULD TELL MYSELF : ANOTHER DAY IN PARADISE … I WOULD ASK MYSELF : WHY DIDNT GOD FINISH IT ALL … THEN I WOULD NOT TO GO OUT TO FACE THE WORLD … SMALL THINGS THAT I HAVE LEARNT ALSO WAS VERY VALUEBLE … THINGS THAT I LEARNT LONG AGO …LIKE HYMNS OR A CHORUS … THAT JUST POPPED UP IN MY HEAD I WOULD SING … MUSIC CAN HELP TO SET A POSITIVE MINDSET, BUT BEWARE THE WRONG MUSIC MIGHT LET THE TEARS FALL ALL OVER AGAIN … CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS RIGHT, BECAUSE GOOD FRIENDS WILL LET YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY … THAT IS WHAT YOU NEED … FOOD FOR YOUR HUNGRY SOUL … NOT MORE BITTERNESS … REMEMBER YOU ARE ON THE MOUNTAIN IN A BLIZZARD … YOU CANNOT TURN BACK … FOCUS ON THE LORD … MOVING, … CREEPING FORWARD EVERYDAY

9 I TOLD MYSELF NOMORE NEGATIVE INFLUENCES … EAT POSITIVE … DRINK POSITIVE MOVE POSITIVE … PRAY POSITIVE … COS GOD DONT MAKE THIS MODEL ANYMORE … GLORY HALLELUJAH … SO MY QUESTION WAS WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU HAVE FALLEN ? … OH AND THE BIG T, TRUST … HOW AM I GOING TO TRUST HIM OR HER AGAIN ? ROME WAS NOT BUILT IN A DAY … TO BUILD UP TRUST TAKE A LOT OF TME BETWEEN PEOPLE … AT FIRST A LITTLE FREEDOM, THEN LATER, MORE FREEDOM, AND AT THE END THE LOST TRUST HAS BEEN EARNED AGAIN …

10 THERE SHOULD BE CHECK – POINT WITH THIS TRUST ISSUE … YOU SHOULD ASK THIS PERSON AT THE BEGINNING … IF HE OR SHE IS WILLING TO COMMIT TO EARNING YOUR TRUST … AGAIN … REMEMBER SOME PEOPLE ARE VERY GOOD LIERS … THEY WOULD AGAIN TAKE YOU AS A FOOL IF YOU LET THEM … BECAUSE IT IS JUST THE WAY THEY HAVE BEEN FROM THE START, WHILE YOU DID NOT NOTICE … OR THEY HAVE BEEN INFLUENCED BY RELATIONSHIPS TO BE SO, … OR THEY HAVE INHERITED, SLY AND DECEITFUL CHARACTERISTICS … IF THE PERSON WAS LIKE THEY ARE BEFORE THE MARRIAGE … MARRIAGE WILL NOT CHANGE THEM, … SO YOU WANT TO USE MARRIAGE AS A TOOL TO CHANGE A PERSON, … SORRY IT DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT, … A LEOPARD CANNOT CHANGE HIS SPOTS …

11 I HAD TROUBLE WITH MY WIFE IN VARIOUS ASPECTS OF OUR LIVES, … WHEN I SAID I DO I ALREADY LOST THE BATTLE … BECAUSE … NOW SHE HAS LICENCE TO TRANSFORM ME INTO WHAT SHE WANTS … IN TIME THAT IS … OR I COULD BEAT THE HELL OUT OF HER … AND SHE WILL APPEAR OR PRETEND TO HAVE CHANGED OUT OF FEAR … AND SHE WILL WATCH ME CLOSELY TO LOOK FOR LITTLE WEAKSPOTS IN MY ARMOURMENT TO ATTACK ME WHEN I AM AT MY MOST VULNERABLE … DONT MAKE HIM OR HER A SKELM … RATHER LET HIM GO … AND THE OTHER QUESTION IS … ; WILL THEY GO ? AFTER WE HAVE WINED AND DINED AND CARRESED THEM, … THEY HAVE SEEN OUR PRECIOUS SOFTSPOTS, WHICH NONE OTHER PEOPLE HAS, SO THEY PLAY THEIR GAMES TO KEEP US SORT – OF INTERESTED – NOT TO LET US FALL INTO REAL HAPPINESS … OOPS THE ART OF GRAPPLING … AINT IT A SLY BUSINESS … ? AND OUR EYES ARE KEPT SHUT … LIKE A LAMB TO THE …


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