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1 Recommendation for Sex Education: to Our Well-being of Mind & Body This material is another community project initiated by the founder of Shinken Experience. All readers are welcome to copy and distribute this materials for the well-being of others. Please do not change the content of this material © Shinken Experience prepared by Shinken Experience 1

2 This material is prepared for the public who cares for others. It serves to create public awareness on the pornographic influence on their mind and body. It recommends an approach to be considered in sex education program for public. Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Key Objectives: Recommendation for Sex Education 2

3 Penetration of pornographic material into all walks of life Illiterates and Literates Community – mobile devices/ Multimedia Sexually aroused message embedded in various dimensions of media Public are being lured to pursuit various means of sexual pleasure at will Limited understanding - pornographic influence on mind & body Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Why is this material important to the community? Recommendation for Sex Education 3

4 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy He respects the right in pursuing sexual pleasure in our life. He believes that we have the right to be aware of the “price” we pay for discharging our sexual liquid at will. He trusts that we live in a common community (global village), every act we choose to perform has an implication onto others, and we need to respect others’ right and be accountable to our choice of action. From the author’s perspective: Recommendation for Sex Education 4

5 The Purpose of Sexual Intercourse The Relationship among Intention vs. Desire vs. Behavior vs. Result What is Sexual Desire? How to manage it? Behavior – is a choice of personal preference that will turn into habit. The Influence of Sexual Behavior on Mind & Body & protective measures Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy What is recommended for Sex Education ? Recommendation for Sex Education 5

6 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy A wise man once said: “Sex and Food are Big Human Desire” Recommendation for Sex Education 6

7 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy The Purpose of Sexual Intercourse: Every action has its own natural purpose. Sex: Reproduction vs. Sexual Pleasure Food: Replenish Nutrients vs. Food Taste Recommendation for Sex Education 7

8 Sexual Intercourse: It is an action that is carried out between a male and a female so as to create a new born baby/new life. Sexual Desire : It is an urge that motivates an individual to choose and to carry out a sexual behavior that will stimulate an individual’s physical sensors and perception in order to achieve sexual satisfactions. Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Recommendation for Sex Education 8

9 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy IntentionDesireBehavior Result The Smiling Diagram* – The Process between Thought & Action * created by Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 9

10 What is “intention”? It is a motive that drives a person to select and to perform a behavior so as to create an expected result. Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Recommendation for Sex Education 10

11 Characteristic of Intention: It triggers desire. It can be influenced by past experience from various sensory stimuli –Visual, audio, smell, touch, taste, imagination via multimedia etc. Intention and desire are inter-reinforcing. It becomes a habit by repeating its behavior numerous times. There are 4 Categories of Intention: –Selfish –Transactional –Considerate –Ignorance Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Recommendation for Sex Education 11

12 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Intention Sexual Desire Sexual Behavior Result selecting creating reinforcing triggering The Smiling Diagram* – The Process between Thought & Action * created by Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education Selfish Transactional Considerate Ignorant 12

13 Desire - How it is formed? It is aroused by stimuli (external and internal) & triggered by an intention A favorable past experience from a sensual satisfaction will reinforce an “intention” to trigger a “desire” so as to motivate the individual to select and to perform a behavior in order to repeat the identical or similar past favorable sensual satisfaction. Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Recommendation for Sex Education 13

14 Desire – How is it formed? (continue) The SC&C analogy - Strawberry, Chili & Child Prior to any experience from strawberry and chili, a child will not hesitate to put any one of them into its mouth. After a sweet and a spicy sensational feeling were experienced, a perception on strawberry and chili is formed within the child. When the child sees a strawberry again, a desire will be aroused to choose and to eat strawberry (instead of Chili). Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Recommendation for Sex Education 14

15 Desire – The power of its intensity: Intention and Desire are inter-reinforcing where the desire can be developed into a level of intensity to an extent where whenever a desire is aroused, the desire leads to a spontaneous habitual behavior without realizing the nature of its intention. Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Recommendation for Sex Education 15

16 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy How to manage the Sexual Desire? The fact: There is no right or wrong on sexual desire. It is the result where the sexual desire “leads” us to. Desire behaves like a flash flood, It cannot be suppressed and depressed. Desire can be diverted and diffused by understanding facts. With clear understanding, a person will then be able to independently make a clear choice from the influence of desire. Recommendation for Sex Education 16

17 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy When a Sexual Desire is aroused, it leads to a selection and implementation of a behavior in order to create a sensual satisfaction (result) to fulfill the desire. Recommendation for Sex Education 17

18 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy 1. Types of sexual behaviors –All sexual behaviors stimulate sensational reaction and secretion of body fluids and discharge of sexual liquid. 2. Two Categories of Sexual Behaviors: –Consistent to the Natural Purpose of Sex – Sexual intercourse. –Inconsistent to the Natural Purpose of Sex – Masturbation, etc. 3. Selection of Sexual Behavior is a personal preference Selection of sexual behaviors Recommendation for Sex Education 18

19 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy What is The Intention of Sexual Intercourse ? It is can be driven by: Selfish – a pure personal sensual urge, Transactional – an expectation of a favorable return Considerate – a love-giving urge to create a new born Ignorance – a blind indulgence in sexual experience. Recommendation for Sex Education 19

20 Sharpens your accuracy Sexual Intercourse- Its Impact on Mind : It is an addictive and pleasant experience. When a behavior is repeated, a behavior will be reinforced. This behavior will habitualize the type of intention that drive the person for this behavior. From its natural purpose’s perspective, The result of “sexual intercourse” is to create new life. This is a noble deed. It is a love giving action. Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 20

21 Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy What is The Intention Behind Masturbation ? It is driven by a pure personal sensual urge. Its action does not benefit anyone except self. Recommendation for Sex Education 21

22 Sharpens your accuracy Masturbation- Its Impact on Mind : It is an addictive behavior driven by selfish intention. When the selfish behavior is repeated, the behavior will be reinforced and, The reinforced selfish behavior will habitualize the selfish thought, as a result, It influences the daily thought and behavior of this person, Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 22

23 Sharpens your accuracy Sexual Intercourse & Masturbation- Its Impact on Body : It drains away the precious life force (sexual liquid discharged) in the kidney*. Life force in the kidney* It the “Fuel” for Living activities & Reproduction activities Living activities: Growth Brain development Bones Immune system Visual and hearing ability *source : an oriental reference: “ 図説東洋医学 1979.12 学研 ” Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 23

24 As a Result of Exposure to Porn/Erotic Materials: Publics are lured to pursue physical sensual pleasures at will Their Perception on The Purpose of Sex: Priority change. Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Creation of New Life (1st priority) Sensual pleasure (1st priority) Recommendation for Sex Education 24

25 When the Priority of Having a Sex is switched: Shinken Experience Sharpens your accuracy Weak family relationship (divorce) Abortion Deserted new born babies, Intoxication (drugs, alcoholics), Creation of New Life (1st priority) vs. Sexual pleasure (2nd) Sexual pleasure (1st priority) vs. Creation of New Life (2nd). Recommendation for Sex Education 25

26 Sharpens your accuracy Publics are paying “high price” for discharging sexual liquid at will : 1.Healthy Relationship – deteriorating 2.Competitiveness – weaker learning/memory/comprehensive ability 3.Health – weaker immunity 4.Stamina – premature aging 5.Emotion management – emotional Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 26

27 Sharpens your accuracy Suggestion to Protect Publics from Pornographic influence: 1.Encourage them to set 1~3 year goal that they feel meaningful. 2.Do not suppress nor promote their sexual desire. 3.Find suitable channel to create their awareness on the consequences of indulge self into the desire at will. 4.Awareness on the “price” they pay in return for a short-lived pleasure. Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 27

28 Sharpens your accuracy Suggestion to Protect Publics from Pornographic influence: 5. Advice them to check the symptoms (before vs. after): Feel impatient when trying to concentrate in learning/listening Poor comprehension ability (blank minded) Deterioration of health & stamina (cold /sports) Stiff joints/weak knee Unable to sleep well at night (stay awake at night) Backache (around kidney area) Emotional Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 28

29 Sharpens your accuracy Suggestion to Protect Publics from Pornographic influence: 6.Avoid being alone in a room. 7.Encourage activities: sports, martial arts, music, painting, etc. 8.Parents’ Role - Leadership by example 9.The purpose of Sex: Creation of New Life vs. Sensual pleasure 10.Be Alert of the influence from media and peers. Shinken Experience Recommendation for Sex Education 29

30 Sharpens your accuracy Shinken Experience Lastly, the following are quotes from the wise men: –“ 精力善用、自他共栄 ” 嘉納治五郎<柔道百年の歴史> Use your energy wisely, so that we & others will prosper together –“ 身に楽しみをたくまず ”: 宮本武蔵<独行道> Do not arbitrarily indulge into physical sensual pleasures. ~ For the sake of the Sustainability of This Mankind. Recommendation for Sex Education 30


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