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1 Working with families when Mum has a diagnosis of BPD Workshop: How to do it Anne Sved Williams

2 So what we will cover this afternoon Making the diagnosis of BPD Psychoeducation for the patient and her family The protocol which HMH staff use The effects for staff of our changed practice Validating MAR’S WAILS Discharge plans Using Dialectical Behaviour Therapy with BPD And Watch, Wait and Wonder

3 THE DIAGNOSTIC INTERVIEW Working through 9 criteria of DBT in DSM V Patient given our written information about BPD and lots of opportunity to discuss A library established in unit with a lot of other books on BPD

4 The information we give the woman What is BPD What caused it? What difference will it make to stay in HMH? What effects on your infant? What can you tell your partner and family What can you do about it? – how to learn more about it What will happen after discharge from HMH

5 Working with women with BPD & their infants in our MBU (HMH) Mothers self-report on MPAS show their concerns about their relationship with infant Observer reports on RF show substantial problems which may not change during admission Mother-infant therapy is difficult Some women are not ready to “embrace” a new diagnosis and treatment pathway Length of stay is greater We use a Bank of Days approach

6 And what about the staff? We have provided more training eg 1.5 days of DBT for all Find working with this group a challenge – excellent staff communication and supervision essential Staff tensions increase when patients with BPD OOC (TLA) -NB Thomas Main: The Ailment Taking an interest in this group is not totally curative But we have got better….

7 Staff survey We are doing better with our patients Staff feel more supported There is a common sense of purpose/a sense that ALL of us have a common understanding They particularly value the sense of team, the reflective supervision, and the shared sense of how to work these patients

8 HMH Protocol 1.Identify early in admission with McLean and clinical diagnosis/patient behaviour 2.Discuss diagnosis w patient, partner (family) and inform all staff 3.Validate woman’s concerns about her issues including current diagnosis 4.Contracts both verbal and/or written and individualised but as per protocol “love and limits” 5.Set a discharge date and plan overnight leaves etc (attempt to stick to discharge date….)

9 The protocol (Cont.) 6.Care for the woman: psychoeducation ++ including our own written information and access to multiple books and articles 7.Individualised therapy including DBT style where necessary ( !!!!) 8.For the infant: routine care including paediatric check 9.Mother-infant therapy as per usual at the moment

10 Protocol (cont.) 10. VALIDATE MAR’S WAILS 11.Support for staff: group and individual supervision, ward round discussion 12.Discharge planning in detail -DBT group -Individualised DBT therapy and other TAU (Treatment as usual) (average referral sites = 4)

11 And remember at all times: It is very easy to love the baby and hate the mother And in the long term highly problematic for BOTH!

12 Frameworks for our work: Attachment theory and systems theory

13 And: Encouraging the positives Remembering resilience and protective factors from other family members/personality/professionals/work etc And it is a wonderful time to work with women who havent had the sense of self to undertake therapy for themselves but often have that motivation when they have an infant they (want to ) love

14 Parental Reflective Functioning: helping the woman to increase Parental RF - PRF (Slade) or RF (Fonagy, Steele) Can it be increased by therapy? seemingly yes

15 Parental Reflective Functioning (PRF) VALIDATE MAR’S WAILS – tx to Rebecca Hill – extracted from the work of Arietta Slade VALIDATE MODEL WHAT TO DO WITH INFANT ASK QUESTIONS TO CLARIFY REFRAME BABY’S INTENTIONS SUPPORT MOTHER AND BABY WONDER ALOUD ABOUT WHAT IS GOING ON INSIDE INFANT ATTEND TO BABY’S STATE IMITATE THE BABY TO HIGHLIGHT BABY CUES LABEL FEELINGS OF BOTH MOTHER AND BABY, LINK MENTAL STATES WITH BEHAVIOURS SPEAK FOR THE BABY

16 VALIDATE! “this looks really hard for you”

17 Model… ….What to do for baby

18 Ask questions to clarify.. “What do you think your baby is feeling right now?” “I really wonder what is going on in your baby’s head? What do you think?” “what should I do next to help you with your baby?”

19 Reframe baby’s intentions “Isnt your baby so curious to learn about the world” (NOT – “that bloody kid is into everything) NB Baby Strengths Cards from St Luke’s Innovative Resources http://www.innovativeresources.org “Doesn’t your baby give you gorgeous cuddles” (NOT – “that baby just wants to cling on me all the time”)

20 Support both mother and baby “Looks like you’re BOTH having a hard time of it here” “who will I help first: Mum or baby?”

21 Wonder aloud about what is going on inside baby “I wonder what is happening in your baby’s head right now” “now what ARE you thinking?” “I’m trying to guess what’s on your mind right now.”

22 Attend to baby’s state “Oh, you don’t like that. Ok, lets pick you up and see if you prefer that?” “Oh you don’t like that? Lets put you down on the floor and see if that works better for you?” “Are you trying to tell me you’re hungry/tired/cold/hot/lonely”

23 Imitate the baby to highlight the cues the baby is giving “goo goo goo!” (Smiling) “you look so happy you gorgeous boy” (Making pouting face)”Oh I don’t like THAT!”

24 Label feelings of both mother and baby and link mental states with behaviours “Oh, looks like both mum and baby are upset – no wonder its hard for each of you to tell the other one clearly where you are at” “Oh dear, it looks to me you are both feeling really sad. Maybe that’s why you are turning away from each other as you cant help the other one when you cant help yourself so well”

25 Speak for the baby “Mummy, I really want you to feed me RIGHT NOW!” “Mummy, I know I look like I am angry and getting at you but really I love you and I want you to cuddle me”

26 So is that the end of the story? Absolutely not! (but nice thought….) Some women accept diagnosis but not ready for further work Some women don’t accept diagnosis Many want to go further with DBT and do so Of those, many do well but they still have their crises But then don’t we all??

27 Why DBT after discharge? Louise Newman is using Watch, Wait and Wonder Arietta Slade: Minding the Baby Perhaps we have chosen DBT first not just because it is (relatively) available but because we have “started” with the mother and then move to the infant – and looking at the brain level … All have won and all must get prizes (Lewis Carroll – a la Luborsky)

28 6 Common Features of Psychotherapy (Jerome Frank) An intense confiding relationships with a trusted (and trustworthy) therapist A shared belief system of what will help Provision of new information Provision of success experiences Promoting optimism through the setting, the persona of the therapist etc Facilitation of emotional arousal

29 Therapist Stance: PACE Daniel Hughes: Attachment based FT Playfulness Acceptance Curiosity Empahty

30 Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) What it is? Is it the best or only treatment for BPD? Who else is using it with infants?

31 InfantMotherGrandmother Maternal Calming AND ENHANCING MATERNAL REFLECTIVE CAPACITY BY THE CLEVER THERAPIST

32 InfantMotherGrandmother Maternal Calming AND ENHANCING MATERNAL REFLECTIVE CAPACITY BY THE CLEVER THERAPIST

33 Our Research DBT group Before and after evaluations: EPDS, Beck, MPAS, PRFS (Luyten) Before and after videos using CARE index (Crittenden) 20 sessions of 90 minutes with mothers and 1 DBT trained therapists and 2 learners whilst infants cared for next door 20 mins with infants 7 women started, 6 finished Changes there? Group being run again with more time with the infants as main focus - WWW

34 Next, adding in Watch, Wait, Wonder (Muir and Muir) Using infant’s free play to enhance mother’s sensitivity and responsiveness Mother is encouraged by the process to reflect on her infant’s inner world of feelings, thoughts, and desires, which helps her to understand her infant as a separate being and her own responses to her infant. We will be doing our own adaptation

35 Extended family The “ogres” New work coming out of Project Air: Dr AnneMaree Bickerton and Toni Garretty working with Prof Brin Grenyer at University of Wollongong: New ways of working with Families who have a member with BPD Look it all up online under PROJECT AIR

36 The crux of that program Psychoeducation Moving people along a pathway to accept and understand 4 carer dances 5 strategies to manage – which begin with self-care and calming strategies!

37 And in some cases, the grandparents CAN work when the mother cannot

38 Enhancing grandparental reflective functioning

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41 AND IN AN IDEAL WORLD….

42 Enhancing grandparental reflective functioning

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44 Take Away Messages today 1.BPD is a common troublesome condition for women and their families presenting postnatally and can lead to intergenerational transfer of problems for the infant 2.Identification of the condition, providing information and treatment pathways will help the patient, the infant and the staff/team particularly by providing clarity and a shared approach We can only go so far: “I can honestly say that my misery had been transformed into common unhappiness, so by Freud's definition I have achieved mental health.” ― Susanna Kaysen, Girl, InterruptedSusanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

45 Take away messages? 4. An information sheet for families 5. A protocol for staff including VALIDATING MAR’S WAILS 6. Information for families a la Project Air based at University of Wollongong, NSW, Australia 7. And for the mothers and babies: dialectical behaviour therapy with the mothers (or maybe another intense mode of therapy) and then WWW + DBT with mothers and babies A long but worthwhile pathway How do you access if not in an inpatient unit? And so finally…

46 Rebadging Borderline Personality Disorder

47 Rebadging BPD 2 BPD an unpopular label Calling it complex trauma implies trauma is always the cause Disorder of Emotional Regulation = DER It IS a TLA… And will rebadging it make the patients cuter?


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