1. PARENTING IS A TASK WITH FAR-REACHING CONSEQUENCES Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

2. CONGRATULATIONS CONCERNED PROACTIVE RESPONSIBLE WELCOME PARENTS THE FUTURE IS IN YOUR HANDS

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4. The last human freedom – The ability to choose ones attitude Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

5. WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS YOUR CHILD ? TOWARDS FAILURE ? WHAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS YOUR CHILD ? TOWARDS FAILURE ? Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

6. WHAT IS YOUR CHILDS VIEW OF THE WORLD? Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

7. REMEMBER – CHILDREN HAVE THEIR OWN EXPECTATIONS - OFTEN BIGGER THAN OURS OF THEM PLEASING PARENTS IS AN ADDITIONAL TASK

8. You give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts... …..Kahlil Gibran

9. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth….

10. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far……

11. Let our bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable. Kahlil Gibran Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen

12. THINK OF PARENTS AS A LAUNCH PAD – STRONG & STABLE MODERN BOW & ARROW

13. AT THE RIGHT TIME THE SUPPORTS WILL HAVE TO STEP AWAY

14. RESPONSIBILITY THEY LEARN BY OBSERVING

15. HOW WE HANDLE OUR EMOTIONS HOW WE WEATHER OUR STORMS THEY OBSERVE AND LEARN THEY OBSERVE QUIETLY

16. It is not what you do for your children but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings --Ann Landers

17. BE A LIGHTHOUSE

18. WHAT GIFTS TO GIVE TO CHILDREN

19. The best gifts – YOUR TIME A GOOD EXAMPLE Praise & Encouragement Support in times of failure

20. How much freedom? Give them the freedom to fail Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes. Mahatma Gandhi

21. Roots and Wings Denis Waitley The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence

22. Gift of a love filled home

23. Introduce them to interpersonal harmony

24. The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him his own --Benjamin Disraeli

25. How to Criticize? We worry about what a child will become tomorrow..

26. yet we forget that he is someone today --Stacia Tauscher TAKE CARE NOT TO INJURE SELF – ESTEEM WHILE CRITICIZING

27. REMEMBER, INJURY TO SELF-ESTEEM IS AS PAINFUL AS PHYSICAL HURT

28. The words we use to Approve and Disapprove will continue to play in their minds long into adulthood They will believe those words because they love and trust parents They can read our expectations whether we speak or not

29. CHILDREN OF EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT PARENTS HAVE A TREMENDOUS ADVANTAGE Created for FEIL by Dr Anjana Sen