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1 Wives Love Your Husbands

2 Your Vows: "Till Death We Do Part" Or was it, "Till Divorce Do We Part?"

3 71 THINKING.MAN'S.FILTER JEFF.IN V-5 N As Paul spoke here further on down in Ephesians speaking of the husband and wife, and said, "This is a mystery," how the women should be in respects to their husband. Even the second place, I believe it is, in the entire Bible that reverence was ever spoke to, said, the women seeing she reverence her husband--reverence her husband. Then a husband ought to live such a life before his wife that his wife could reverence him as a son of God. And if he doesn't live that kind of life, well then, course she wouldn't reverence him, 'cause she knows what he's made of. But when it is a man that is reverent man--reverent and clean with his wife, and before his family, a real servant of God, then the women, children, all should respect that servant of God with a reverence.

4 Wives Love Your Husbands Two Become One Flesh Two Become One Flesh A One Woman Man A One Man Woman LEAVECLEAVE ONE FLESH

5 E-49 CORINTHIANS.BOOK.OF. JEFF.IN 1957 And God goes over in the heart of Adam, this rib right out from under his heart, and takes a rib and makes the wife; and the very part of Adam's spirit was in the woman, and they two are one. Soul, body, spirit, they are one. They are perfect oneness, a real woman and a real husband, a real wife. They are one together. What is it a type of? Christ. Wives Love Your Husbands

6 Marriage Begins In Oneness Of Soul {Soul} Marriage Ends In Divorce (Actual or Psychological) {Spirit} {Physical}

7 Wives Love Your Husbands 1) Rehearsing "Forgiven" Failures In His Life The most destructive thing you can do to damage the spirit of the marriage is to correct him in public. If you feel failure is looming, then there is a need for you to ask if you could spend time praying about an idea or decision to be made. You can ask the question what the results will be from this decision in areas that he may not have considered.

8 Wives Love Your Husbands 2) When She Neglects Her Home Responsibilities Discreet GREEK LEXICON 4998 sophron {so'-frone} adj AV 1a) of a sound mind, sane, in one's senses 1b) curbing one's desires and impulses, self controlled, temperate Chaste GREEK LEXICON 53 hagnos {hag-nos'} adj AV 1) exciting reverence, venerable, sacred 2) pure from carnality, chaste, modest, immaculate, clean

9 Wives Love Your Husbands 2) When She Neglects Her Home Responsibilities Keeper at Home GREEK LEXICON 3626 {oy- koo-ros'} AV 1) caring for the house, working at home 1a) the (watch or) keeper of the house 1b) keeping at home and taking care of household affairs, a domestic AV 1) caring for the house, working at home 1a) the (watch or) keeper of the house 1b) keeping at home and taking care of household affairs, a domestic

10 Wives Love Your Husbands 2) When She Neglects Her Home Responsibilities Obedient GREEK LEXICON 5293 {hoop-ot-as'-so} vb AV put under, be subject unto, be subject to submit (one's) self unto, put in subjection under A Greek military term meaning "to arrange [troop divisions] in a military fashion under the command of a leader". In non-military use, it was "a voluntary attitude of giving in, co-operating, assuming responsibility, and carrying a burden".

11 Wives Love Your Husbands 22 TEACHING.ON.MOSES JEFF.IN V-14 N-4 I predicted that women would keep demoralizing and the nation would keep falling, and they'd keep hanging to mother, or like mother like that, till they become, a woman become an idol. I say this with respect, ladies. When a woman gets out of the kitchen, she's out of her place. That's right. That's where she belongs. Outside of that, she has no place. And now, I'm not hard on them, but I just tell what's the Truth and what the Bible.

12 Wives Love Your Husbands 2) When She Neglects Her Home Responsibilities i) It is important to keep the home neat and clean and provide an atmosphere which will be conducive to the goals and needs of the family. ii) You see the more confused this whole world gets, the more it is necessary for us to have order in our homes.

13 Wives Love Your Husbands 2) When She Neglects Her Home Responsibilities iii) Maybe you might not have the natural abilities to be organised, well, then it would be a wise thing to get counsel from another older woman who you see does have that motivation.

14 Wives Love Your Husbands 2) When She Neglects Her Home Responsibilities Grace is the desire and power to do God's will! See if you can't find the desire and power to develop the nine character qualities listed: Gal 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.

15 Wives Love Your Husbands a) Love, by overlooking the area as a proof that you love your husband. b) Joy, is the result from building character in your life. c) Peace, by not being troubled by temporal concerns. d) Longsuffering, by not giving God a deadline to remove the problems.

16 Wives Love Your Husbands e) Gentleness & Goodness, in your responses to your husband and family. f) Faith, by visualising how God is using the incident for your spiritual growth. g) Meekness, by giving up your personal rights to a clean and tidiness. h) Temperance or Self-control, by quickly obeying the prompting of the Holy Spirit whenever you see the messy area

17 Wives Love Your Husbands 3) When A Wife Has Undefined Expectations a) Thus he can never please her. b) He receives no admiration from her. c) When things are perfectly clear and obvious to the wife, they can go undetected by the husband. This is due to the fact we just don't think alike. You must tell him if he doesn't get the VIBRATIONS!!

18 WILL EMOTIONS MIND SOUL Husbands Must Learn To Understand These Levels In Order To Understand His Wife's Thinking The Four Levels Of Communication Woman Has Within Herself

19 WILL EMOTIONS MIND SOUL Husbands Must Learn To Understand These Levels In Order To Understand His Wife's Thinking The Four Levels Of Communication Woman Has Within Herself

20 Wives Love Your Husbands 3) When A Wife Has Undefined Expectations A wise wife will use the strong motivation of her husband's protective instinct and explain to him how he can meet her physical, mental, emotional and spiritual needs. "I feel overwhelmed in the things that I have to do today; could you decide which is the most important for me?"

21 Wives Love Your Husbands 4) When She Resists His Leadership 4) When She Resists His Leadership a) Because men can be fragile when it comes to being a spiritual leader, it is essential that the wife look for ways to reassure her husband in this area. b) If you have wounded him in this area, you must quickly ask his forgiveness and assure him that you want to take him as the spiritual leader of the family.

22 Wives Love Your Husbands 4) When She Resists His Leadership 4) When She Resists His Leadership c) Another way wives damage their husband's leadership is unknowingly look to other men for spiritual counsel. d) No husband can be a leader unless he has a follower. It is not a matter of abilities now, it is a matter of leadership.

23 Wives Love Your Husbands Pr 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. 1) You should be looking to your husband and not to the pastor for primary spiritual guidance. 2) You should encourage other sisters to do the same as you are, showing that your husband is your spiritual leader. 3) You will motivate your husband to be your spiritual leader. Thus you would help him gain confidence to become what God intended him to be.

24 Wives Love Your Husbands Pr 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. 4) You will strengthen your marriage rather than weaken it. 5) You will then prevent yourself from becoming spiritually proud of your own Bible knowledge. I.COR.14:35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home

25 Wives Love Your Husbands 5) When She Shows Lack Of Confidence In His Decisions When a wife expresses quick disapproval over her husband's decisions, he will most likely take it as a personal attack upon himself. Thus you strike at the very basis of his manhood and his judgment But if you respond with an eagerness to carry out his wishes, he will be open to questions which you may have about the decision.

26 Seeing Decisions From Your Own Viewpoint Decision Her Perspective His Perspective The wife tends to view a decision from the perspective of immediate needs: daily routine, welfare of children, home improvement or personal limitations. The husband tends to respond to a decision by relating it to future goals, such as job advancement, financial gain, or future security. IMMEDIATENEEDS FUTUREGOALS

27 Seeing Decisions From Your Own Viewpoint Her Perspective His Perspective A wife may not be able to clearly define these immediate needs and often she expects her husband to be aware of them and understand them. A husband is usually not able to explain his larger frame of reference and expects his wife to trust him and be patient. He needs, however, to communicate his goals to his wife. Decision IMMEDIATENEEDS FUTUREGOALS

28 Seeing Decisions From Your Own Viewpoint Her Perspective His Perspective If a husband focuses only on immediate needs, his wife may try to get him to think ahead by worrying and nagging him about the future. If the wife focuses on future objectives, her husband will tend to react to her leadership and put pressure on her to fulfill immediate needs. Decision IMMEDIATENEEDS FUTUREGOALS

29 Seeing Decisions From Your Spouse's Viewpoint Decision Before a wife explains her immediate needs, she must draw out of her husband his future goals so that she can relate her needs to helping him reach his goals Before a husband shares his goals, he must draw out of his wife her immediate needs and the consequences which his decision will have on meeting them.

30 Wives Love Your Husbands 6) When She Lacks A Grateful Spirit 6) When She Lacks A Grateful Spirit When a wife shows ungratefulness in public to her husband it is a rebuke to him. Ungratefulness shows that she has many expectations that she not given to the Lord. He begins to feel like a prisoner of her expectations. vs. 2 While they behold your chaste conversation [coupled] with fear.

31 Wives Love Your Husbands 7) When You Fail To Build Loyalty In Your Children, They Realise It Quickly. Sows: A child is quick to sense their mother's true feelings toward their father. Reaps: The child will capitalise on this by playing one against the other in order to get his way.

32 Wives Love Your Husbands 8) When You Expose Your Marriage Problems To Outsiders It is always much easier to discuss your marriage problems with a friend, or tell your mother, or ask counsel from your pastor, than to take it to the Lord and then to your husband. There will always be consequences whenever you fail to do things according to Biblical guidelines.

33 Seeing Decisions From Your Spouse's Viewpoint Before a husband shares his goals, he must draw out of his wife her immediate needs and the consequences which his decision will have on meeting them. Decision Before a wife explains her immediate needs, she must draw out of her husband his future goals so that she can relate her needs to helping him reach his goals

34 Wives Love Your Husbands 9) When She Is Inflexible To His Priorities Therefore, sisters, you will only find your identity & fulfillment as you function in harmony with God's Word & design. Rather than saying, "I can't do it." We all need to remember that the Man & Woman are the Family.

35 Marriage Begins In Oneness Of Soul {Soul} Marriage Ends In Divorce (Actual or Psychological) {Spirit} {Physical}

36 Wives Love Your Husbands Conclusion: When there is a harmony in the husband & wife relationship, there is an infused stability within all family members. I know it can be hard to do what God requires you to do when your spouse doesn't do what he is suppose to do. But we have a part of the Scripture which is for us to fulfilled and we are accountable for that part.


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