Bill: Angry. Just wants to draw by himself. Forgets names, other details. Frank: Unconcerned about how others perceive him. Lost in fantasies. Mike: Tries to engage peers with Go Steelers. Speech is clumsy, repetitive. Edward: Smart and outgoing, but cant guess others thoughts. Stereotypic interests. Zeke: Odd speech. Has never had a friend visit his house. Kyle: Depression connected with social failures.
Teen group skills Conversation Cooperation Friendship Emotional Regulation Social Milestones
Conversation skills Starting a conversation Taking turns in conversation Maintaining conversation of interest to others Beyond content: tone, volume, gestures, distance, expression Edward BillMikeZeke Kyle Frank
PLEASE LOOK TOWARDS THE OTHER KIDS, NOT JUST THE GROUP LEADERS
How to Act Interested Step One: Use a friendly face and voice
Step 3: Ask a QUESTION, or make a COMMENT about: *What the person is doing. *What the person is interested in. *How the person is feeling. – Derived from Coucouvanis, Superskills
Capture the teachable moment Dude, you are the most creative kid I have ever seen.
Coordinating With the Family Monologues Sharing, comparing, exchanging: *Emotions *Plans Interrogations Shared interests Shared experiences Lectures Opinions
Practicing through role plays Example: Your grandmother just walked into the room while your favorite show is on TV. She says, Excuse me, I have something interesting to tell you. What can you say to her?
How did the role play go? 1.Did the persons facial expression match the emotion he was supposed to be portraying? Yes/No/Sort of 2.Did the persons tone of voice match the emotion he was supposed to be portraying? Yes/No/Sort of 3.Volume of the persons voice: Loud/Medium/Soft 4.How much eye contact? OK/Too much/Too little 5. Did the persons body language fit the emotion he was portraying? Yes/No/Sort of 6.Did the person interrupt? Not much/some/a lot 7.Did the person go off topic? Not much/some/a lot 8. The person talked about his/her OWN interests… OK/too much/too little 9. Did the person start the conversation in a good way? Yes/no/sort of 10. Did the person end the conversation in a good way? Yes/no/sort of A compliment about this interview is:___________________
Cooperation How to ask someone to play How to join play with others Problem solving and compromising Edward BillMikeZekeKyleFrank
Combining teaching and a learning activity Useful cooperation phrases: *How about this idea? *Lets try his idea. *There might be more than one way. OUR WORLD A group activity Design a world Together
Friendship Exploration of what is a friend Ways to initiate and maintain friendships Using the group as place to find friends Edward BillMike Zeke KyleFrank
A friend provides emotional If your friend feels bad, support when you feel bad. you should try to offer emotional support. Tell about a time when a friend offered you emotional support
A friend provides comfort when his friend needs it. If your friend is sad because his dog died, what are some things to say and do to help?
A friend listens for two minutes while you talk about Yugio. Your friend loves Barbies. To balance, how long should you listen to her talk about Barbies? Reciprocity in Friendship
Tools to Cope With Rejection Negative self talk: They will probably reject me. I always get rejected. Whats the use of trying? Positive self talk: I might get rejected but maybe not this time. If I dont try, I will never succeed. from RDI
Coordination With Parents and Others GROUP PARENTS: We are starting a unit on anger. Please take a few moments to give us some information on how your child deals with anger. Name:_________________________________ Parents name__________________________ Email address:__________________________ When and in what manner does your child get angry? What seems to help?_____________________________________ _________________________________________________ _________________________________________________ _________________________________________________
Special Considerations Therapeutic impact affected by group composition. Coordination with parents and others mental health professionals essential. Social skills training field is in state of exciting growth.