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1A Look at Funeral and Disposition Customs Sueann F. Schwille, MSW, FSLKarl Schwille, FSL
2“Show me the manner in which a nation cares for it’s dead, and I will show you with mathematical exactness the tender mercies of it’s people, their respect for the laws of the land and their loyalty to high ideals.”-Sir William Gladstone
3Early HistoryAll known civilizations throughout time have had the same three basic tenants regarding:Some manner of ceremony or ritual at deathA sacred place for dispositionMemorialization of their dead.
4Early HistoryAnthropologists have discovered evidence that Neanderthal man instinctively used ritual and ceremony when caring for their dead.
5Early HistoryThe earliest burial customs were crude efforts to protect the living from the bad spirits which caused the death of the person.The Dead were burned to destroy evil spirits.Many aboriginal tribes, even today, leave their dead to rot because of the belief that death comes from evil.
6Common Beliefs Regarding Death of Early Civilization Death does not end all relationship between the living and the dead but merely signalized the transition from one set of relationships to another.Belief and Practicality Coincide :Religious doctrine regarding disposition met need for sanitation and timely disposal.
7Ancient Egyptian Funeral Practices Considered to be the most influential of all ancient civilizations on modern day funerary practices.
8Ancient Egyptian Funeral Practices The physical body of the deceased was preserved in an effort to prevent the three parts of the soul from being separated.The Egyptian Embalming Process Mummies were considered intensely sacred as they believed that the magic spells showered into the dead bodies preserved not only the soul but also provided a place for the soul to rest. They had faith in afterlife and the entire process was performed by embalmers and priests amid rituals and prayers. They employed a wide range of tools to perform the mummification process. Bronze hooks, needles, awls, knives and tweezers were used to carry out the various processes on the corpse. The dead body was kept inside a purification tent known as 'ibu'. The body was washed with palm wine and then rinsed with water from the river Nile. It was then placed on a slanting table to drain the blood and remove the internal organs, except the heart and the lungs. These organs were then washed and packed in a natron for drying. The heart was considered the center of intelligence and emotions, therefore, it was preserved inside. The brain was smashed with the help of a long hook and was then pulled out through the nose. The body was dehydrated after stuffing and then covered with a natron. After forty days, it was washed once again with water from the river Nile and then covered with embalming oils to retain the elasticity of the skin. The dehydrated internal organs were either preserved in hollow canopic jars or were returned to the body. The entire body was covered with leaves and sawdust. It was sprayed with good smelling oils before the final wrap with linen. This way the dehydrated body was mummified and treasured for ages. Once the mummification steps were over, the Egyptians placed amulets and sacred pieces along with the body to symbolize holiness and sanctity.
9Ancient Egyptian Funeral Practices Ka (individuality) remained inside the tomb with the body and was housed inside a figurine that was made in the likeness of the deceased;Ba (soul) could take on any form and leave the tomb at will;Akhu was the part of a person’s spirit that could dwell among the stars and be one with the universe.The Egyptians have left us with what is perhaps the most detailed legacy of any ancient civilization.They had strong beliefs about what would happen after death and spent much of their earthly lives preparing for the next world.They believed that when someone died, that person’s spirit manifested itself into three separate entities: the Ka (individuality) remained inside the tomb with the body and occupied a ‘Ka statue’ that was made in the likeness of the deceased; the Ba (soul) could take on any form and leave the tomb at will; and the Akhu was the part of a person’s spirit that could dwell among the stars and be one with the universe. So being, the body had to be preserved as best as possible so that this trinity could recognize its former earthly body and enjoy eternal life with it.
10Ancient Greek Funeral Customs Early literary sources such as the Iliad stress the importance of a proper burial and view failing to provide burial rites as disgraceful to the humanity of the deceased (Iliad, 23.71).
11Ancient Greek Funeral Customs Female family members washed and anointed the body of the deceased with oil and then dressed and placed on a high bed in the house.The deceased was taken by procession to the cemetery just before dawn.Graves were often marked with elaborate marble statuary to memorialize the deceased.
12Roman Funeral CustomsFunerals were an important part Roman custom to preserve the heritage of the family.
13Roman Funeral CustomsThe body of the deceased was washed, dressed and laid out on couch with a coin in the mouth to pay Charon, the ferryman to row him across the river Acheron to the land of the dead.The spirit was believed to haunt it’s home until the body was laid to rest.If body was cremated, a small portion of the body must also be buried.
14Roman Funeral CustomsAchievements of the deceased as well as long past ancestors were celebrated.A eulogy and songs of mourning were also part of the ceremonies.Actors used masks to re-enact important parts of the life of the deceased and ancestors of the family during a ceremony.The body was carried behind the mourners to the location of cremation or burial.Ancient Roman funerary practices were part of the mos maiorum, "tradition," that is, "the way of the ancestors," and drew on the beliefs embodied in Roman public and domestic religion.Socially, funerals were a central and highly visible means of preserving the heritage of a family and gens. The achievements of ancestors were celebrated alongside those of the deceased. The funeral procession was public and elaborate, led by professional mourners, including actors who wore the portrait masks (imagines) of the dead person's notable ancestors. The corpse was carried behind the mourners. A eulogy (laudatio funebris), instrumental music, and songs of mourning (neniae) were also part of the ceremonies. After the funeral, the body was traditionally cremated, though in some periods inhumation was practiced, and the ashes were placed in a container and entombed.Roman cemeteries were located outside the pomerium, the sacred boundary of the city. They were visited regularly with offerings of food and wine, and special observances during religious festivals in honor of the dead. Funeral monuments appear throughout the Roman Empire, and their inscriptions are an important source of information for individuals otherwise unknown and for Roman history. A Roman sarcophagus could be an elaborately crafted art work, decorated with relief sculpture depicting a scene that was allegorical, mythological, or historical, or a scene from everyday life.Although funerals were primarily a concern of the family, which was of paramount importance in Roman society, those who lacked the support of an extended family usually belonged to guilds or collegia which provided funeral services for members.
15Early Hebrew Funeral Customs The dead were considered unclean and those who came in contact with the dead were declared unclean.
16"Whosoever is unclean by the dead shall be put outside the camp, that they defile not the camp in the midst of which the Lord dwells."-Numbers 5:2
17Early Hebrew Funeral Customs Man was believed to be composed of two elements:Basar: FleshNefesh: BreathBelieved that the soul remained connected to the body and continued to suffer if the body was mistreated.
18Early Hebrew Funeral Customs The soul of the deceased was thought to wander through a mysterious afterlife known as Sheol.The Dead were anointed with oil, dressed in their finest garments and laid in state.Burial was to take place on the evening of the death.Cremation was not permitted and thought to be an indignity to the body of the deceased.
19Funerals of Early Christians Burial of Christian remains have always been deemed as important as evidenced by the stressing of the “Resurrection of the Dead.”In the light of the dogma of the resurrection of the body as well as of Jewish tradition, the burial of the mortal remains of the Christian dead has always been regarded as an act of religious import. It is surrounded at all times with some measure of religious ceremony.Very little is known with regard to the burial of the dead in the early Christian centuries. The first Christians likely followed the national customs of the people among whom they lived, as long as they were not directly idolatrous. St. Jerome, in his account of the death of St. Paul the Hermit, speaks of the singing of hymns and psalms while the body is carried to the grave as an observance belonging to ancient Christian tradition.Several historical writings indicate that in the fourth and fifth centuries, the offering of the Eucharist was an essential feature in the last solemn rites. These writings include: St. Gregory of Nyssa’s detailed description of the funeral of St. Macrina, St. Augustine’s references to his mother St. Monica, the Apostolic Constitutions (Book VII), and the Celestial Hierarchy of Dionysius the Areopagite.
20Funerals of Early Christians Little is known in regard to burial of the dead in early Christian centuries.7th Century Spanish Ordinals: “the Order of what the clerics of any city ought to do when their Bishop falls into a mortal sickness”Ringing of church bellsReciting of psalmsCleaning and dressing of body.Probably the earliest detailed account of funeral ceremonial which has been preserved to us is to be found in the Spanish Ordinals of the latter part of the seventh century. Recorded in the writing is a description of "the Order of what the clerics of any city ought to do when their bishop falls into a mortal sickness." It details the steps of ringing church bells, reciting psalms, and cleaning and dressing the body.During the Middle Ages a practice arose among the aristocracy that when a nobleman was killed in battle far from home, the body would be defleshed by boiling or some such other method, and his bones transported back to his estate for burial. In response, in the year 1300, Pope Boniface VIII promulgated a law which excommunicated ipso facto anyone who disembowelled bodies of the dead or boiled them to separate the flesh from the bones, for the purpose of transportation for burial in their native land. He further decreed that bodies which had been so treated were to be denied Christian burial.
21Funeral Practices in the Middle Ages By the late 5th century, the dead were brought to the church for the religious mass.Burial garments were costumes or uniform of position.Burial within city walls allowed:The start of church grave yardsImportant religious figures buried under churches
22Death Becomes a Profession For nearly 1500 years after Egyptian preservation practices were perfected, extensive use of preservative techniques were not used.In the 15th Century there was a revival of interest in anatomy and surgery.
23EmbalmingLeonardo Da Vinci developed a system of venous injection that was the precursor to modern embalming.
24EmbalmingIn early 17th Century through the 18th Century, a greater understanding of the circulatory system was helpful as the art of arterial embalming emerged.Embalming by arterial injection as a mortuary practice is considered to have begun in England in the 18th century. The technique had actually been developed in the first half of the 17th century by the noted English physiologist William Harvey in experiments leading to his discovery of the circulation of blood, during which he injected coloured solutions into the arteries of cadavers. Later the Dutch and German scientists Frederik Ruysch and Gabriel Clauderus are believed to have used similar arterial-injection techniques to prevent cadavers from decomposing. The Scottish anatomist William Hunter (1718–83), however, is credited with being the first to report fully on arterial and cavity embalming as a way to preserve bodies for burial. His discovery attracted wide attention after his younger brother, John Hunter, in 1775 embalmed the body of a Mrs. Martin Van Butchell, whose will specified that her husband had control of her fortune only as long as her body remained above ground. To meet that condition, Van Butchell had her embalmed, placed her fashionably dressed body in a glass-lidded case in a sitting room, and held regular visiting hours.The demand for embalming grew in England and particularly in the United States, where it was promoted by a newly emerging group of undertaker-businessmen as superior to the customary but awkward and often unsatisfactory method of preserving bodies for transportation or for viewing by packing them in ice or laying them on “cooling boards,” with a concave, ice-filled box fitted over the torso and head. Some of the more enterprising entrepreneurs exhibited well-preserved “cases” in the windows of shops, or took them on tour so that persons in rural areas and small towns could see the latest development.
25The Rise of the English Undertaker Religion demanded high ritual funeral rites.Ceremony always an integral part of life of English aristocracy.Europe had already experienced “the Plague:”Citizens demanded sanitation.The result: One person now coordinating all things involved in the burial right and sanitation.
26American Colonial Funeral Practices Death was recognized as a natural reality.Early New England burials were models of simplicity and quiet dignity.Silent walk to grave site.Over time, churches began to hold services and mourning became a social behavior.Despite growing burial expenses and governmental attempts to curb “wasting money” on elaborate burials, the colonists continued make a death a celebration of the life of the deceased.
27Embalming Surgeons and Undertakers: The Civil War Embalming Surgeons and Undertakers During the early part of the Civil War it was the Embalming Surgeons that performed the embalming procedure. Many of the men were military surgeons. However, there were also a large number of civilian surgeons that took up embalming and became embalming surgeons. They realized the monetary benefits to the profession and saw this as a way to increase there fortunes. Most of the embalming surgeons were honest men. There were many reports however, of many unscrupulous embalming surgeons out to take advantage of soldier and family alike. Toward the latter part of the War there were reports of a few undertakers beginning to embalm both at home and on the field of battle. Of the tens upon tens of embalming surgeons practicing during the War years, very few are heard of following the War. It is then that the undertaker begins to see the potential and the obvious extension of embalming into the undertaking profession.The embalming surgeon was a Northern phenomenon. To date there seems to be no documentation that there were Southern embalming surgeons. When one looks at the circumstances surrounding the onset of this new trade, one can understand why it was not until after the War that embalming moved into the South. Dr. Thomas Holmes, the "Father of Modern Embalming", was from New York, his protégées were all Northerners, the chemicals were developed, patented and manufactured in the North. During the beginning of the War, Washington was the center of all that happened with the military. The embalmers flocked to Washington until they became such a nuisance that they were run out of the city. From then on, those with the drive to either make money or help the troops and their families, moved nearer the battlefields or field hospitals. The South had neither the knowledge nor the resources to enter into this new embalming trade. This is not to say that there may not have been an occasional Confederate soldier or officer embalmed by a Northern embalmer and sent home, but this was by no means a common occurrence.Public Acceptance of Embalming Even though the public was familiar with embalming, [soldiers being sent home embalmed and President Lincoln and other notables having been embalmed], the general public did not take to this new invasion of the body. There were many bodies embalmed after the Civil War, but it was not until the beginning of the Twentieth Century that embalming became an accepted practice. It was at first performed in the home by the undertaker. By the early to mid 1920s the funeral home as we know it was beginning to emerge.
28Dr. Thomas Holmes of New York Considered the "Father of Modern Embalming“By the start of the Civil War, he had developed a fluid free of previously used arsenic poisons.It is said that Dr. Holmes embalmed some 4,000 bodies over the four year course of the War.
29Quaker: Religious Society of Friends Tend to have very simple funeralsFuneral called “Meeting for Worship in Thanksgiving for the Grace of God as shown in the life of _________________”Primary emphasis of funeral (2 fold)To honor the personExperience God’s presenceThere is no uniform agreement on life after death – emphasis is likely to be on person’s lifeIn the Quaker tradition – congregation meets in a plain building known as a meeting houseNo ministers as “friends” (another name for Quakers) believe all are equal before GodThere is often an explanation at the beginning of the service or in a printed program so to know what to expectQuaker funeral services are similar to the Quaker services or “Meeting for Worship”Elder may welcome those gathered and read a poem, scripture or other materialThere may be music; instrumental or hymn singing depending on the traditions of that specific “meeting”Typically no set ritual and no sermon though there may be a brief eulogyAnyone who feels moved by the spirit to give a spoken message or prayer may do so in “open worship”“Open Worship” – period of silence where family and friends are welcome to speak no matter age, gender, of faith traditionService may end with a closing prayer or song or an elder near the front of the meeting house will turn and shake hands with his or her neighbor which is a signal that the meeting for worship has concludedUshers do not dismiss and you are free to speak with the family or leave quietlyAfter the funeral those who gather are often invited for a light meal at the meeting houseIf individual is buried a brief burial service follows the funeral with all invitedFunerals held typically within one week of death but no strict law dictates timeMany Quakers choose cremation due to simplicity so it is typical for service to be without body presentMonetary donations in lieu of flowersIf not organization is suggested a memorial gift to one’s “meeting” would be appropriateGuests who are not Quaker are welcomeProfessional or church attire requiredWearing black is not expectedNo special clothing worn
30Islamic Funeral Customs “Islam” means the “achievement of peace with Allah and man and complete resignation to Allah in thoughts, words, beliefs and deeds”
31Islamic Funeral Customs Muslims – followers of the Islamic religionKoran – Book of religion of IslamKoran teachesThere is one God – AllahThere is a day of judgment and a life after deathTo pray 5 times a dayTo fight for the sake of AllahTo perform duties of generosityActions follow you to the afterlife
32Islamic Funeral Customs Muslims view death as a transition from one state of being to another, not as an end.If you follow the law of the Koran and live a good life you will be rewarded in the afterlife.In death you will be separated from the ugliness of the world, unless you live a dishonest and bad life then you will be separated from all the beauty.
33Islamic Funeral Customs Islamic customs require…The body be turned to face MeccaGuests of the same sex should greet each other with a handshake and a hugPerson sits next of the body and reads from the KoranAn Iman presides over the serviceThe deceased’s eyes and mouth are closedThere is rarely an open casketArms, legs and hands are stretched out in alignment with the bodyThere are no photos allowedThe death is immediately announced to all family and friendsThe body is bathed and covered in white cottonWithin 2 days following the death the body is carried to the graveyard by 4 men. A procession of friends and relatives followNo discussion takes place at the time of the burial but all pray for the soul of the departed
34Islamic Funeral Customs After burial all the guests go to the house of the family of the deceasedA meal is prepared for the guests who stay all dayFamily my stay the entire weekFamily members socialized and weepMourning period is officially 40 days longFamily only wears black clothingFor 1 year wife of deceased wears black but anniversary of the death is not observedDress codeMen no head coverWomen cover arms and legs
35As a religion Hindu has no founder, no common creed or doctrine. Hindu Funeral CustomsAs a religion Hindu has no founder, no common creed or doctrine.
36Hindu Funeral CustomsIn Hindu tradition the body remains at the home until it is cremated which is usually within 24 hours after death.During funeral service mourners are encouraged to dress casually and white attire is preferred.Flowers may be offered.Food is not part of the Hindu custom.
37Hindu Funeral Customs Prevalent among Asian Indians. Teaches that God is within each being and objectThe essence of each soul is divinePurpose of life is to become aware of the divine essenceBelieve that although the physical body dies, the individual soul has no beginning and no endMay pass to another reincarnation depending on one’s karma or how they have lived over past lifetimesIf the soul has realized the true nature of reality, it may become one with Brahman
38Hindu Funeral CustomsThere is always an open casket and guests are expected to view the deceased’s bodyHindu priest and elder family members conduct the serviceGuests of other faiths welcome10 days after the death a ceremony is held at the home of the deceased in order to liberate the soul for its assent into heavenVisitors are expected to bring fruit
39Jewish Funeral Customs Judaism focuses on how life should be lived not on defining an afterlife.Jewish people hold the philosophy that one should embrace life while accepting the inevitability of death.
40Jewish Funeral Customs Conservative Jewish cultures follow a strong set of customs and beliefs based on the Torah.Reform Judaism modifies some traditional customs.Burials are to take place as soon as possibleSimplicity is emphasized to avoid signs of status.Implied that living a praiseworthy life will prepare for what comes after death.There is no open casket or cremation.
41Jewish Funeral Customs Tahara – traditional Jewish practice to perform a ritual washing of the body and then place it in a plain burial shroudWatchers or Cherva Kadisha remain with the body around the clock until the funeralFuneral is to be held on a synagogue or funeral home the day after deathThere is no visitation with the presence of the body prior to the funeralMale guests wear a jacket and tie with yarmulkeWomen wear conservative dress with somber colorsRabbi conducts the services begins with Kria Ribbon cutting, symbolizing the deceased’s breaking away from loved onesService includes a EulogyA minyan or group of at least 10 Jewish adults is required to recite prayers
42Jewish Funeral Customs At interment family members participate in placing dirt on the casket before it is buried to symbolize their acceptance of the finality of death.Jewish funerals are often held entirely at the funeral home.Flowers are NOT approved of for Jewish funerals.Donation to a charity is encouraged.Kosher food is welcome.The initial mourning period is called Shiva and lasts seven daysAppropriate to visit the home of the bereaved.
43Jewish Funeral Customs Family mourning practice may include:Covering mirrorsBurning memorial candlesWearing cut Kria RibbonMen do not shaveWomen do not wear makeupCouple intimacy is frowned upon.Break from daily routine symbolizes disruption in life from death and demonstrates grief through self sacrifice.
44Jewish Funeral Customs Twice a day the bereaved pray for their loved one.At one year there is a service on the anniversary to unveil the gravestone at the gravesite.Candles are lit on the yearly anniversary of the death known as yahrzeit.
45Buddhist Funeral Customs The goal of the Buddhist is to escape the cycle of rebirth by achieving Nirvana:Nirvana not seen as heaven but a state of bliss beyond the world of suffering achieved only through conscience effort and practice to purify the soul.Purification comes from ones separation of self from unjust and material world.
46Buddhist Funeral Customs Funeral customs within the Buddhist religions often differ but share a basic philosophy of life and deathEvery soul is reborn into the world of suffering (our world) until the soul has been cleansed.Open casket encouraged.Knowledge from past lives enhance the journey to enlightenment.
47Buddhist Funeral Customs The objective of a Buddhist expressing grief at a funeral service is to show hope for a safe and pleasant journey to the next life.Wear a traditional white cloth as a head band or arm band.Walk with sticks to symbolize that grief has left them the need for support.Chant appropriate prayers (sutras).Bring offerings of flowers and fruit.Burn incense to sweeten the air.
48Irish Wake Historic Irish Wake Began with neighbor women washing the body of the deceased and preparing it for viewing in the homeBody was covered in white linenAdorned with black or white ribbonsFlowers when the deceased was a childLighted candles were placed around the bodyClay pipes, tobacco and snuff were placed in each room and on table next to bodyEvery male caller was required to take at least one puff as the smoke was thought to keep evil spirits from finding the deceasedClocks were stopped at the time of deathMirrors were covered or turnedBody was never left alone until burialCrying was not allowed until the body was prepared and then keening beganKeening- reciting of poetry lamenting over the loss of the loved one. It includes crying and wailing.
49Irish WakeNot the same as “viewing” or “visitation” which are more subdued gatherings.Wakes are often held at smaller venues such as a home where casual atmosphere and comfort are available.Some feel laughter and sharing stories with joy are inappropriatelast 2 – 3 nights.Food, tobacco, snuff and liquor were plentiful.Laughter, singing, crying, storytelling and game playing. No disrespect to deceased was meant.Church frowned upon the Irish Wake because it was thought that the customs of merriment were influenced by the Irish Pagan HeritageOften turned into heated debates or religion politics and economics
50Irish Wake Modern Wake Coming back into practice in certain circles A celebration of the deceasedFriends and family gather togetherShare stories about the person who has diedHumorousSerious
51Irish WakeFinal respects paid on morning of funeral, body is placed in a coffin and brought outside the house where it stayed as mourners passed by to kiss the deceased prior to the lid being placed on the casket and it was carried to the grave and buried.Shovel and spade were laid on top of the new grave in form of a cross.Prayers were said bringing the wake and funeral to a close.
53Atheist Funeral Customs Are becoming more common.Appropriate memorials to those who lived their lives without religious affiliation and were against the traditional religious views associated with life and death.No specific reference to an afterlife.
54Atheist Funeral Customs Funeral services are a tribute to the life the deceased livedMemories are sharedCenters around sincerity and affection for the deceasedBoth cremation and burial is acceptedOpen casket is individual preferenceBody may or may not be present for the serviceMusic not part of the service but music is allowed
56Scientology Funeral Customs Passing happens automatically, no ritual or ceremony.No mention of heaven or hell.Deceased is spoken to directly and thanked for presence and achievements. Wishing them well in their future existence.Services often end with Hubbard’s message “You are a spirit. You are your own soul. You are not mortal. You can be free.”Non-scientologists are welcome to all parts of service.
57Scientology Lead by scientology minister. Typically include special readings from founder L. Ron Hubbard.Body may or may not be present.Generally held in a scientology chapel.No specific guidelines regarding physical remains because very little meaning is given to the physical body.Views the spiritual self as “thetan” as being unique and billions of years old passed on from one life to the next through reincarnation.The body is simply the vehicle for travel and the mode of interaction.
58New Orleans JazzThe New Orleans Jazz Funeral salutes a life well lived and the passage of a departed soul into a better world.
59New Orleans JazzMusic and dancing of the Jazz Funeral were intended to both help the deceased find their way to heaven and to celebrate the final release from the bounds of earthly life:This was, in the past the release of slavery.Music – call and response style of music and chant. Coupled with tambourines, drums, music and dancing were elements of African funeral ceremonies which crossed the seas with captive slaves.
60New Orleans JazzIn American culture this funeral remained among the African American population of the deep south but was not welcomed by the Catholic Church so was restricted to the Black Protestants of New Orleans, especially impoverished people and musicians.Toward the middle of the 20th century, movement caught on as did the ability to better afford funeral services, giving rise to the more elaborate funerary events lasting up to a week and including a parade from the home of the deceased to the church or funeral home and finally to the site of final disposition.
61WiccanWiccan funerals share characteristics with those that choose green or eco-friendly burial customs.
62WiccanEncourage individuals to make their wishes for a funeral known to family and significant others well in advance of death:Encouraged to have Coven-mate and lawyer listed as Executor of will so as to have requests honored by other family members.Only deceased’s closest family, friends and Coven-mates attend services at the gravesite:During the brief funeral ritual, the other participants wait for this special group to return to the larger groupFirst part of ritual:The priest and priestess conduct the funeral ceremony and their assistants serve as ushersThe ritual space is cleared of furniture and the deceased’s body is laid out at an altarMourners wait at the outside edges of the space while the priestess continues to prepare the space and recites a ritual chantAfter a recitation by both the priest and priestess, mourners are invited to come and speak to the deceased saying whatever is needed to help along the journey of death.
63WiccanEventually the body is wrapped and a candle is lit. The ushers direct visitors to food and drink and encourage them to converse with each other while the priestess, priest and other coven-mates and close friends take the body to the grave.A private ritual is conducted and then these members return to the rest of the group to share stories, memories and offer prayers. Person to be buried is wrapped only in cloth in order to allow the body to decompose naturally and as quickly as possible in order to provide nourishment for other life:When this type of burial in not permitted, Wiccans encourage cremation and the burial of ashes as opposed to the use of traditional embalming fluids and airtight caskets.
64Mexican AmericanMost Mexican Americans are Catholic and consider the funeral an important part of life.
65Mexican AmericanSince early stages of Mexican culture, Mexicans have embraced death as part of life. The Mayans and Aztecs were both warriors who practiced human sacrifice which shows a casual acceptance of death:Combine this with Catholicism’s deeply religious regard for death brought to the country by missionariesAcceptance of death has defined some modern Mexican rituals such as the “Day of the Dead”, a celebration that honors those who are deceased:In celebration many Mexicans decorate with skeletons that dance and play instrumentsSometimes thought of as irreverent, it is not meant to trivialize the loss of a loved one but rather their belief in an afterlife, and ease griefServices are heavily attended and are lead by Catholic priests who honor the recently deceased.
66Mexican American The Wake In rural communities, the wake is usually held at the family’s home, where loved ones come to strengthen ties and pay respects to the deceased.In rural areas, the coffin is placed on a table or stand under burning candles and herbs.In an urban setting, viewing is held in a mortuary.
67Mexican American The wake is followed by a church ceremony. Strong emotional responses to be encouraged.Children are socialized to accept death at a young age.A final ceremony is held at the burial site.Relatives throw a handful of dirt on the coffin before the grave is filled.Family members to bring candles to church and light them at the altar for 9 days following the death.Although Mexican Americans embrace death, it is important for them to say goodbye to loved ones with elaborate funerals and long periods of mourning.
68Italian Funeral Customs Customs for those who live in Italy and for those who live in the United States share many similarities despite the physical distance between the homeland and its immigrants.Many funeral traditions are in line with major funeral traditions in Catholicism due to the influence of the religion throughout Italy.
69Italian Funeral Customs Superstitious beliefs in Italian funeral:Person’s soul does not want to leave the earth and as a result survivors must perform a number of rituals to help them leave.Many Italians will not speak about the dead following the period of mourning out of fear of bringing them back to the earth.Earthly favorite material possessions are often buried with the deceased in hopes this will encourage them not to return.
70Italian Funeral Customs Italian Funeral service:In keeping with Catholic traditions; last rites, prayer vigil, funeral liturgy and Catholic Mass are observed.Family or friends are chosen as pallbearers.Family may or may not choose to say a few words about the deceased.Open casket during the funeral is encouraged.Customary to kiss the deceased cheek or forehead out of respect for the deceased.Following Mass mourners gather at the site of the graveMourners are each encouraged to throw a fist full of dirt or a flower on top of the casket in the grave.
71Italian Funeral Customs Funeral flowers are an essential part of Italian funeral customs:Commonly given to family members of the deceased and they are placed on the casket and in the church.Black is traditionally worn for funerals.Meals and food is prepared at first word of death by friends and neighbors to feed family and their visitors.
72African AmericanFamily members, close friends and even acquaintances are expected to attend the serviceServices may even be postponed to ensure that everyone can be thereAspects of African American funeral services that have remained traditional particularly among southern families are:Flower girls – female counterpart of pallbearer offer special attention to grieving family members“nurses” are sometimes present to aid a mourner who becomes overwhelmed with emotionMusical performances are presented by a choir and/or loved onesA large assortment of flowers to decorate the coffin is common
73African AmericanThe most distinguishing characteristic in African American funeral service is Keening, a very dramatic expression of sorrow:Common for grieving family members and friends to cry and wail at the loss of their loved oneCan sometimes be assumed that if family members do not react this way that the deceased was not loved and his death is not mournedKeening is on the decline.
74Orthodox Funeral RiteThe Orthodox Church is known by various names depending on the location or makeup of its membership:Greek Orthodox ChurchRussian Orthodox ChurchEastern Orthodox ChurchOrthodox Catholic Church
75Greek Orthodox Funerals In Greek the word for funeral also means “to take care of someone”Burial and cremation allowedIn Greek funerals the casket is always open and the disposition takes place in the deceased’s homeBody is watched throughout the night before burial by his or her dearest loved oneProfessional mourners were once hired to sing songs of mourning with the familyFollowing disposition the body is transported to the church and then the burial site
76Greek Orthodox Funerals Before the casket is closed the family each offers a final kiss to the departed and places items of importance to the deceased in the casketThe funeral procession is a quiet affair Following burial flowers are planted around the burial siteOriginally carried out in order to purify the groundsFollowing the funeral mourners’ return to the home to share a dinner
77Greek Orthodox Funerals Additional ceremonies take place days after the burial:40 days,3, 6, 9,and 12 months
78Orthodox Funeral Rite Trisagion: Generally there will be a Trisagion (three short blessings or services) held:at the funeral home the evening before the funeral serviceat the funeral home immediately before leaving for the funeral service at the churchand at the gravesite.
79Orthodox Funeral Rite Funeral Service At the church the casket and family will move into the church, be met by the priest.The priest will bless the casket with holy water before leading the procession down the aisle of the church.The priest may or may not be accompanied by a cantor.The casket is placed in the Solea perpendicular to the altar.The casket is usually left open for the funeral service.The order of service is followed from the Parastas or Great Panachida.The final portion of the service may include a eulogy.After the eulogy the casket is turned parallel to the Iconostasis.The Priest anoints the body with earth and olive oil.An Icon is place at the foot end of the casket and those seated on the right side of the church may pass by the casket , stopping to kiss the Icon on their way.The Icon is then moved to the head end of the casket and the process repeated for those on the left side of the church.After the final viewing of the friends, the family has the opportunity for a final viewing and the casket is closed.The casket is taken in procession to the cemetery for the committal service.
80Native American Burial Traditions Naturally eco-friendly:Native American Burial Customs follow the belief and practice that the natural world is truly sacred.Many services are specifically linked to a specific location and to harm that place would be contrary to Native American beliefs.
81Native American Burial Traditions Although each tribe has its own specific customs all have a common respect for the earth.Many groups believe that birth, life and death are the elements of something larger and endless life cycle.Families take care of deceased making all funeral arrangements. They transport the body themselves and their burial techniques are eco-friendly.The body is placed in a simple shroud or wooden casket.The body is often honored for up to 4 days.Bodies are not embalmed, dry ice is used to preserve the body for service.Native American Nations do not share a single faith or common practice.Native American burials are naturally green.
82Native American Burial Traditions In some Native American funeral practices relatives of deceased are subject to strict rules in order to assist their departed in their journey:Personal items are placed in coffinSympathy is welcome for the loss.
83Home BurialsHome burials were a common practice for many years until the mid 1900’s.In many cases the home burial must be done with the assistance of a funeral director.Not just about saving money:PersonalDignified.Home burials increasing in popularity
84Home Burials Home built caskets Burial on private land Biodegradable caskets – no need for burial vaultMust meet state and local health and safety codes:Minimum acreage requirements and a plat map may also be required.
85Green Funerals & Burials Green burials consume fewer resources:Use of burial vaults requires transport from manufacturer.Mixing of concrete or casting the vaults and creating the lining and seals of vaults require consumption of valuable resources.Green funerals can save money:Can save as much as $4-7,Green burials reduce the use of carcinogenic chemicals:Most embalming fluids contain formaldehyde a known carcinogen.Funeral directors have been found to have a higher incidence of myeloid leukemia.
86Green Funerals & Burials Green burials conserve land:Today’s cemeteries take up many acres of land.Cemeteries are typically stripped of trees and natural vegetation adversely impacting local and global environments.Upkeep of cemeteries requires chemicals for weed control impacting the environment.Green burials preserve wildlife:When trees go – so do the animals that inhabit them.Even the slightest shifts in the balance of an ecosystem can have negative and long lasting effects on the environment.
87Catholic Funeral Practices The WakeA Rosary Service or Wake is usually held in the funeral home or church the evening before the funeral Mass.This is a time for family and friends to share a series of prayers.It may be lead by a priest, a layperson, nun, family member or even the funeral director.It is not a substitute for the funeral Mass.
88Catholic Funeral Practices The MassThe funeral Mass begins when the casket is moved into the narthex or vestibule of the church.Following the greeting and invocation:The casket is blessed with Holy Water.The casket is then covered with the pall.The procession down the aisle of the church is led by the:cruciferAcolytesPriest.The pallbearers and casket follow after.The family follows the casket.The casket is placed at right angles to the altar with the paschal candle at the feet.
89Catholic Funeral Practices Following the order of service for the Celebration of the Mass of Christian Burial:The priest will conduct several Bible readings of Psalms and the Gospel.A Homily will be said by the celebrant.This may include a eulogy.Communion will be offered.After communion the Final Commendation is said:again blessing the casket with incense and Holy Water.This is followed by the recessional.Then procession to the cemetery and the Committal Service.
90Lutheran Funeral Practices Believe that death is a new beginning.Believe that those who have faith are assured eternal life with God.
91Lutheran Funeral Practices When conducted in the church:Funeral service follows the Order of Service as indicated in the Lutheran Book of Worship or the Lutheran Hymnal of Lutheran Worship.The casket is usually closed and covered with a pall.Communion may be offered as part of the funeral service if it is the wish of the family.When conducted in the funeral home:the pall and communion would be eliminated.
93Mormon Funeral Practices The funeral service is conducted by the Bishop of the deceased’s congregation.The service typically will last for 60 – 90 minutes.The funeral is a teaching opportunity for those who have not heard the gospel.
94Mormon Funeral Practices The family will follow the casket into the church, the congregation will be asked to stand out of respect to the deceased and the family.When the service begins you can expect to hear an opening prayer, a reading, at least one song, but there may be several, a few words from the ward Bishop and a final blessing.The ward Bishop may be the only man to speak, other men may stand and speak.
95Mormon Funeral Practices Following the funeral service, guests may be invited to the graveside service for burial.If guests are not invited, then you should assume you are not invited to attend.It may be specifically for those in the family, or for those who are members of the Latter Day Saints.In some cases, the graveside service is the only service held for the deceased.
96Mormon Funeral Practices At the gravesite, a small service is rendered as a Melchizedek Priesthood holder, who has the authority to act in the name of God, offers a "Dedication" of the grave.The dedication typically follows this model:Addresses Heavenly Father.States that he is acting by the authority of the Melchizedek Priesthood.Dedicates and consecrates the burial plot as the resting place for the body of the deceased.(Where appropriate) prays that the place may be hallowed and protected until the Resurrection.Asks the Lord to comfort the family and expresses thoughts as the Spirit directs.Closes in the name of Jesus Christ.Typically a Priesthood holder will stand guard until the grave has been closed if closing is not a part of the graveside service.
97Non-Liturgical Protestant Funeral Practices Non-liturgical Protestant churches include:BaptistMethodistAssembly of GodChurch of ChristPresbyterianChurch of GodNazarene.No set order of service for the funeral service.There is little difference between the funeral service in these churches and in a funeral home.The preferences of the clergy and the family will determine the order and content of the service.
98Episcopalian Funeral Practices Part of the Anglican Communion:Only churches in the United States and Scotland use the word Episcopal.Has both Catholic and Protestant ties.Strongly encouraged to have the funeral service in the church.Flowers are generally not allowed in the church.The order of service will is found in the Book of Common Prayer.Communion may be a part of the serviceNo eulogy as such is given.Cremation is an accepted means of disposition.
100Military Funeral Services Arlington National CemeteryServices provided for:Conduct 4 – 5 funerals per hourFunerals performed from 9 am to 3 pm Monday thru Friday28 – 35 funerals a day140 – 175 burials a week7,280 – 9,100 burials a year Retired Military MembersVeterans with Silver Star and aboveCremated Remains of Any VeteranSpouses of Eligible Service Members
101Military Funeral Services Full Military Honors1 OIC1 ChaplainRiderless HorseCaisson as casket beirMilitary Band6 Casket Bearers6 – 7 Member Firing Squad2 Flag Folders1 Flag PresenterMilitary Honors1 OIC (Officer in Charge)1 Chaplain6 Casket Bearers6 – 7 Member Firing Squad2 Flag Folders1 Flag Presenter
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