Presentation on theme: "Managing Stress After A Disaster Presented by Dr. Diane Sasser and Dr. Rebecca White, Family Development Extension Specialists, LSU AgCenter Developed."— Presentation transcript:
Managing Stress After A Disaster Presented by Dr. Diane Sasser and Dr. Rebecca White, Family Development Extension Specialists, LSU AgCenter Developed by Kim Evans, Extension Agent
Family Stress Management Even strong families can be stressed to the point of crisis and thus be immobilized.
Goals and Objectives Participants will be able to: Identify personal signs or symptoms of stress Define ways to cope with stress Develop a personal plan to cope with the stress in their life
Stress in Everyday Life The majority of individuals and families are suffering from stress Stress can make people sick Stress affects peoples emotional well- being and work productivity Stress is unavoidable
Stressors Major life events –death, divorce, relocation Minor life events daily hassles Chronic Stressors –illness, disability, poverty, discrimination
Health Problems Related to Stress Allergies Arthritis Asthma Pain in neck, back, shoulder Colds and Flu Headaches Heart problems Insomnia Skin Problems Stomach Problems
ABC -X Model B - Resources Familys resources or strengths C - Perceptions A - Event X-Degree of Stress Provoking event or stressor Meaning attached to event Stress and crisis
Event – Significant, Enough to Provoke Change
Familys Resources - At Time of Event
Perceptions – Meaning Attached to Event
You know you're from the Gulf Coast when... You have FEMA's number on speed dial. You have more than 300 'C' and 'D' batteries in your kitchen drawer. When describing your house to a prospective buyer, you say it has three bedrooms, two baths and one safe hallway. You are on a first-name basis with the cashier at Home Depot. You are delighted to pay $3 for a gallon of regular unleaded. The road leading to your house has been declared a No- Wake Zone. You decide that your patio furniture looks better on the bottom of the pool. You can wish that other people get hit by a hurricane and not feel the least bit guilty about it.
Degree of Stress
External Context Culture History Economy Development Heredity
Spirituality Be more involved in religious activity Increase faith or seek help from higher being
Communication Be open and honest Listen to each other Be sensitive to non- verbal communication
Activity Heart to Heart cards
Cognitive Be accepting of the situation and others Gain useful knowledge Change how the situation is viewed or defined
Emotional Express feelings and affection Avoid or resolve negative feelings and disabling expressions of emotion Be sensitive to others emotional needs
Community Seek help and support from others Fulfill expectations in organizations
Individual Development Develop autonomy, independence and self-sufficiency Keep active in hobbies
Laughter By yourself or with somebody The human race has only one really effective weapon, and that's laughter. The moment it arises, all our harnesses yield, all our irritations slip away, and a sunny spirit takes their place. Mark Twain
Joy Breaks: Fun in Small Doses Less than 5 minutes cup of coffee Up to 30 minutes short walk Up to 2 days read a book 2 days or longer attend a conference
You know youre from the Gulf Coast when: You catch a 13-pound redfish - in your driveway. You can recite from memory whole portions of your homeowner's insurance policy. At cocktail parties, women are attracted to the guy with the biggest chainsaw. There is a blue tarp where your roof used to be. Someone comes to your door to tell you they found your roof. Ice is a valid topic of conversation. Relocating to South Dakota does not seem like such a crazy idea. You spend more time on your roof then in your living room. You've been laughed at over the phone by a roofer, fence builder or a tree worker. A battery powered TV is considered a home entertainment center. You don't worry about relatives wanting to visit during the summer. Having a tree in your living room does not necessarily mean it's Christmas.
Children and Traumatic Stress Signs and symptoms to look for
Helping Children Cope Take care of yourself : Physically Emotionally Spiritually
Helping Children Cope Make them feel safe Encourage talk about feelings Answer questions, but keep it simple Listen
Helping Children Cope Extra time Return to daily routines Give them chores Help others Limit TV exposure
Activity Whats your plan?
Within each of us is a hidden store of energy. Energy we can release to compete in the marathon of life. Within each of us is a hidden store of courage. Courage to give us the strength to face any challenge. Within each of us is a hidden store of determination. Determination to keep us in the race when all seems lost." Roger Dawson
When nothing is sure, everything is possible. Margaret Drabble - English novelist
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