1. Winning with Software Development

2.  Soft skills is a sociological term relating to a person's "EQ" (Emotional Intelligence Quotient), the cluster of personality traits, social graces, communication, language, personal habits, friendliness, and optimism that characterize relationships with other people. Soft skills complement hard skills (part of a person's IQ), which are the occupational requirements of a job and many other activities. --Wikipedia

3.  Communication, Communication, Communication Code Organization and Commenting Documentation Project Management Sales Engineering

4.  Explaining technical problems in both technical and layperson terms, depending on the audience Comments, Notes, Documentation and Phone Support  Being verbose is always better than being terse

5.  Everything in software engineering is knowledge based.  The more knowledge you have available, the better the outcome – always.  Proper communication reduces stress while it also reduces the TCO and increases the ROI for both the company and the client.  Proper communication speaks volumes about your skills and qualifications – it’s literally what separates the boys from the men (the juniors from the seniors)

6.  Always comment your code. Period.  Organize your code so that it is readable by other engineers.  Use variable and function names that are explicit and make sense for the purpose they are used.

10.  Always leave verbose notes in any project management system.  Describe what you’ve done, why you’ve done it, how you’ve done it, when it applies and who it applies to. (The who, what, when, where and why of your work)  Be conversational to avoid writers block