1. Yang Memorial Methodist Social Service
C.A.R.E. Project
Youth in care
Compensated Dating in Hong Kong
A Strategic Solution by C.A.R.E. Project
TOM TSE, kei-leung
Project Leader
C.A.R.E. Project
Yang Memorial Methodist Social Service
Session date: 2012/07/10
This project is supported
by The Community Chest

2. Conceptual Definition of ‘Compensated Dating’ - 1
Compensated Dating comes from a Japanese term “Enjo kōsai”, with ‘enjo’ meaning subsidy and ‘kosai’ meaning companionship or association
It is originated in Japan during 1990s where older men give money or luxury gifts to attractive women for their companionship, and possibly sexual favors.
Most will consider Compensated Dating as a juvenile prostitution because it involved a trade between the girl’s body and the luxury goods.
Material or money return is the major concern of the teenagers. There is no love, loyalty, life-long commitment between both parties even though some girls involved will claim it as a dating with older boy-friend or ‘sugar daddy’.
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3. Conceptual Definition of ‘Compensated Dating’ - 2
Compensated Dating is very controversial among Japanese and the Hong Kong public.
Sexual transaction is not necessarily a part of the duty exchange while the decision-making authority is more in the girl’s hands. Teenagers still believe it as different from prostitution.
They are not totally wrong, especially because it may involve non-sexual activities such as shopping, karaoke singing and “Part-time Girlfriend” (PTFG). They to keep regular life, including school while participating in Compensated Dating.
Comparing to a prostitute it charges higher for Compensated Dating transaction. So, many teenagers believe Compensated Dating as higher class, self-control and are more willing to participate in the activity.
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4. Advertising themselves as
‘Compensated Dating’ or ‘Part-time Girlfriend’
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5. C.A.R.E. Project – Service for Compensated Dating Youths-1
The trend of Compensated Dating landed in Hong Kong since 2005 when we identified a few cases involved in the activity.
In 2006, we conducted the first research in Hong Kong studying the cause, effect and the trend of Compensated Dating. With years of practice and investigation through our 2 studies conducted in 2006 and 2011 respectively.
We identified that Compensated Dating is not merely a sex trade issue, but also something related to teenage self-identity, mental wellbeing, illegal drug use, trauma, cyber bullying, sex exploitation, public hygiene, etc.
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6. C.A.R.E. Project – Service for Compensated Dating Youths-2
The numbers of Compensated Dating cases rise rapidly since late 2006 with the facilitation of the internet interaction.
Teenagers originally expecting to earn easy money were eventually involved in “selling sex” and even fell into various dangerous traps (robbed, physical hurt, raped and video taped of the transaction).
Pregnancy and venereal disease are commonly found, and some may even have mental problem or resorted to drug use. All these cause serious harm not only to the youth involved but also have serious effect to public hygiene with the spread of sexually-transmitted diseases.
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7. C.A.R.E. Project – Service for Compensated Dating Youths-3
In Hong Kong since a 16-year-old girl who involved in the Compensated Dating was murdered and dismembered by her customer in April Although a fatal event happened, Compensated Dating is still an increasing trend in Hong Kong.
With increasing concern from the public, Yang Memorial Methodist Social Service started the first pilot service in Hong Kong in 2009, to tackling the issues involved with teenage Compensated Dating, the C.A.R.E. Project. –
Concern Action in Relieving Enjo-kosai Youth
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8. MURDERER
STUMP

9. There are three major objectives to be achieved in this project:
Aims of the Project
There are three major objectives to be achieved in this project:
Through counseling and different treatments to help the youths suffered from to Compensated Dating related problem and to develop ability and a healthy self identity through training (social skills, problem solving, etc) to better protect them in the coming future.
To eradicate the misconceptions from publics towards the youths engaged in ‘Compensated Dating’ and to have a more caring view toward the teenagers;
To promote a better social environment through public education and supportive service to the public. Also, we make recommendations to handle the factors contributing to ‘Compensated Dating’.
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10. Service Target of C.A.R.E. Project - 1
1) Offering case counseling, developmental plan and other related support (e.g. medical, legal, financial) for the youths under 24 who have been involved in Compensated Dating.
Accompany teenagers for the whole legal procedures,
offer legal consultation
Body-check (Testing of venereal diseases or pregnancy),
doctors’ consultation
Counselling services, Interests classes
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11. Interests classes
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12. Make use of Arts Day and Night
The client drew about her existing life that she is experiencing.
The Complex World
The client perceived that the world is very complex. She said the people surround her are all wearing masks.

13. youths because these different levels of influence can also found
Five aspects of youths’ psycho-social characteristics
5 aspects were identified to be the major psycho-social characteristics and also the predisposing factors contributed to the trend of compensated dating among Hong Kong adolescent.
Developmental Obstacles (lack of care, concern, recognition, trust, conditional love, abusive or traumatic experience in childhood, etc)
Their Socialized Value Concept (significance of money, associate the social status with the value of products , etc)
Problem Solving Ability (support network, assertiveness, quick-fix culture, etc)
Sex Attitude (double standard of sexuality, earlier sex experience, knowledge from pornography, etc)
Self Identity (rapid body growth, autonomy from parents, negative self worth, etc
Their stories reminded us of the need to pay attention to the need of our
youths because these different levels of influence can also found
among youths not involved in compensated dating

14. Service Target of C.A.R.E. Project - 2
2) Educational and support services for the parents, sex partners and peers of the youths who have been involved in Compensated Dating.
For Parents
Counseling services (ie. Interviews, home visits)
Parenting education
Keep pace with teenager’ needs and cultures
Effective parent-child communication
Effective ways to deliver sex education
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15. Service Target of C.A.R.E. Project - 3
3) Educational and support services (public education, lecture courses and research) for the students, teachers, helping professions and the public on the issue of Compensated Dating.
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16. Our Service School Students Talks, workshops or groups
SEX Peer counselors
~ right attitude and knowledge towards sex,
positive influence in the school community
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17. Our Service For Schools a. School Teachers Professional training
Identification of high-risk/ potential youths
Case referral when necessary
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18. Our Service For Social Workers (helping professions)
Professional training
The trend, analyze the background and factors
Case sharing (Intervention attitude, approach)
Identification of high-risk/ potential youths
Case referral/ co-work when necessary
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19. Our Service
For Public
Conducting regular research to raise public concern on the issue
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20. Conclusion
In order to better help the youths stay away from Compensated Dating, we need to understand the unique individual need of each youth.
It is found from our practice that the voice and desire of adolescents have been ignored. The public need to care about teenagers’ genuine need and their hidden stories.
We better have a curious mind and look into the underlining need and difficulties faced by the youths.
Persistent patience is need in our intervention because the reward and attraction from Compensated Dating is very high. A joint effort is needed to empower the youths with higher personal identity to overcome the difficulties and develop a better lifestyle.

21. Global Phenomenon ?
French , 2011

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23. Our
Intervention
Direction

24. Develop positive Attachment
Long-term
Able to self-manage, make choice and self-reflection – Reality Therapy (3R) Right、Responsible、Reality
Raise the motivation to change -- MI/ CBT Develop Self-efficacy/ Self value
Short-term
Enhance Self-image/ Self-confidence – Developmental group/ interests classes (Dev. Psychology)
Our main concern: Client’s Physical & Psychological health – Assessment (Bio-Psycho-Social Approach)

25. Enjo-Kosai/ Compensated Dating in HK
Include both female or male teenagers.
Selling bodies (different forms) in exchange for money or material benefits
MAY have sexual favours.
Fulfilling material needs > developing long term relationships with the whoremasters or ‘customers’.

26. Our services Specialized Service
Concern Action in Relieving Enjo-kosai Youth (CARE Project)
Target: youth at risk in relieving enjo-kosai and their families, youth in community
Provide educational and prevention talk and groups for schools
Provide holistic treatment and casework for target.

27. The trend in HK
Convenience of Internet (Platforms: online games, discussion forums…)
Mass media - Stress on materialism  MONEY  shortest time make greatest $  fulfill ‘instant needs’
Possibly encounter crisis or trauma (Pregnancy, infection of venereal disesases, being threatened…)
Severely affect their physiological and psychological development
Macro-ly

28. Our Concern
We CARE about teenagers’ physiological and psychological development.
Youths’ developmental needs
(For fun ? Control? Love? …)
Develop positive values and coping
Enhance their ability of ‘self-management’, ‘decision-making’ and ‘self-reflection’.

29. Our Action
Conducted a Research - ‘Exploration of the phenomenon of Compensated Dating in Hong Kong’ in 2008.
Establishment of this Project in 2009.
Direction: Education, Preventing and Remedial Work

30. Factors 1. Predisposing Factors
Related to the growth experiences – Parenting style, abuse, trauma
Low self-esteem, labelling effects

31. Difficult Case Mistrust on others (Abused by relatives/ family)
Youths who Borderline Personality Disorder
Mistrust on others (Abused by relatives/ family)
Self- blame
Doubt and blame on self – Sex = shame, dirty
Not deserve others’ respect or love
Child experiences  Today: Mental illness, personality disorders

32. Factors 2. Precipitating Factors Immediate events
Stress: academic, dating relationship, financial burden, conflicts …
Low self-esteem, labelling effects

33. Factors 3. Perpetuating Factors
Distorted values, unfulfilled needs, sustained negative influence
Low self-esteem, labelling effects

34. Difficult Case Unstable self-identity Low self-esteem
Youths who experience Physical/ sexual abuse
Unstable self-identity
Low self-esteem
Compulsive self-harm behaviours
Unstable/ tense relationship with others
Unstable emotional state
Fear of emptiness, being rejected
Seek attention

35. Bio Bio-Psycho-Social Approach Biological influence:
Operational Principles
Bio-Psycho-Social
Approach
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1st -2nd month
Client
Case Assessment
-Analyze the beh.
-Influence on psy, bio, social, family.
Psy.
Society
Bio
Biological influence:
Abuse, rape, infection of venereal disease, pregnancy

36. Psy Bio-Psycho-Social Approach Psy. Problems： Operational Principles
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1st -2nd month
Client
Psy
Case Assessment
-Analyze the beh.
-Influence on psy, bio, social, family.
Society
Bio
Psy. Problems：
~Insomnia, unstable emotional, flashback on the traumatic experiences, depressed, anger
~May get addiction to drugs or alcohol
~Beh. Symptoms: Headaches, stomache

37. Bio-Psycho-Social Approach
Operational Principles
Bio-Psycho-Social Approach
1st -2nd month
Family
(Bkgd,
relationships)
School
(Comprehensive
sex edu.)
Case Assessment
-Analyze the beh.
-Influence on psy, bio, social, family. 個案
Work
Part-time
Values on $
Lifestyle
Mode of consumption
Psy
Society
Person-in-Situation
Comprehensive understanding on client  surrounding SYSTEMS
Bio
Peers
Positive influence
Env’t
Internet, cultures

38. Laws which Regulate Sex Work in Hong Kong
CRIMES ORDINANCE SECT 147
Soliciting for an immoral purpose
Penalty : Maximum penalty of fine of $10,000 and imprisonment for 6 months. (Those who have committed similar offence or commits similar offence during bail would face heavier penalty)
147 唆使引誘他人作不道德行為

39. Laws which Regulate Sex Work in Hong Kong
CRIMES ORDINANCE SECT 137
Living on earnings of prostitution of others
Maximum penalty : imprisonment of 5 years
137. 依靠他人賣淫收入為生

40. Laws which Regulate Sex Work in Hong Kong
CRIMES ORDINANCE SECT 130
Control over persons for purpose of unlawful sexual intercourse or prostitution
Maximum Penalty : imprisonment 14 years
Effective Evidence :
Control of a person for unlawful sexual intercourse is a severe offence. Generally, evidence of imprisonment, control, authority, influence or coercion is required..
130條 控制他人而目的在於使他人非法性交或賣淫

41. Laws which Regulate Sex Work in Hong Kong
CRIMES ORDINANCE SECT 139
Keeping a vice establishment
Penalty : Maximum penalty of fine $20,000 and imprisonment of 7 years
139條 經營賣淫場所（包括管理及協助管理）

42. Laws which Regulate Sex Work in Hong Kong
CRIMES ORDINANCE SECT 131
Causing ProstitutionMaximum 
Penalty : imprisonment of 7 years
131條 導致賣淫

43. Project Development Gender ( male) Intervention approach
Mode change  keep pace with the ‘new’ mode of compensated dating
Provision of hostels
Quick test on venereal diseases
Injection of HPV Vaccine (Discounted price)
加衛苗 (Gardasil) 及卉妍康 (Cervarix)